Shy Philosophers on Anxiety

Let’s consider:

1. What is anxiety? What distinguishes anxiety from fear, stress, or sadness?
2. What is anxiety for? Why might humans have evolved the capacity for anxiety? When does it serve us well, and when does it begin to work against us?
3. At what point does healthy caution become excessive worry, and who gets to decide where that line lies?
4. How should we relate to anxious thoughts? Should we challenge them, accept them, ignore them, investigate them, or treat each differently depending on the situation?
5. How should anxiety influence our decisions? Should we avoid situations that make us anxious, or is growth often found by moving toward discomfort? How do we distinguish unnecessary suffering from meaningful challenge?
6. Kierkegaard described anxiety as “the dizziness of freedom.” Does having more choices make us happier, or does it create new forms of anxiety? Are there situations where having fewer options is actually liberating?
7. What role does modern society play in anxiety? Are people today more anxious because of social media, constant news, economic pressures, information overload, etc., or have humans always been this anxious in different ways?
8. If you could permanently remove your capacity for anxiety, would you? How might your relationships, ambitions, morality, and sense of self change? What might be gained—and what might be lost?

No homework required, but if you’d like to reflect ahead of time, you can watch or listen to these podcast episodes:

• Hidden Brain – “A Better Way to Worry”
• https://www.hiddenbrain.org/podcast/a-better-way-to-worry/
• Philosophize This! – Episode #079: Kierkegaard on Anxiety
• https://www.philosophizethis.org/podcast/episode-079-kierkegaard-on-anxiety

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