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Let’s consider:

  1. What is a mindset? Is it a set of beliefs we could state if asked, a default way of framing situations that operates before we think about them, or something else?
  2. Which background beliefs, about ourselves, other people, or how the world works, most affect the decisions we make? How would we notice a belief we have never examined?
  3. Does an optimistic or pessimistic outlook lead to better decisions and/or better life experiences?
  4. How much can a belief about ourselves change what we are actually able to do?
  5. How much of a person's mindset is their own, and how much is absorbed from family, culture, or circumstance?
  6. Is it reasonable to hold a belief because it helps us act, even when the evidence for it is uncertain? Where is the line between a useful mindset and self-deception?
  7. Should a decision be judged by how it turned out, by the reasoning behind it, or by something else?
  8. Can we change a mindset by deciding to, or do beliefs shift only through experience?

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1. Discussion Style
We aim for a cooperative flow, like passing a ball among teammates rather than engaging in back-and-forth debates. Please share the “ball” so everyone has a voice.
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