What we’re about
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✨ About the Group
Tired of endless swiping or awkward singles nights? This group is for singles who want a more intentional, curated way to meet new people.
We bring together singles who share mutual attraction, compatible values, and a genuine interest in finding a meaningful connection, all in a relaxed, in-person setting.
💬 Who You’ll Meet
We welcome single professionals who know what they’re looking for, value quality over quantity, and are open to meeting others in small, curated groups. Most members are in their mid 20s to 40s, but we focus more on compatibility than age.
🥂 What We’ll Do
Our events are designed to feel like an exclusive dinner party or cocktail night, except everyone is a potential match. Before each event, we carefully curate the guest list to ensure there’s mutual interest and a balanced mix of personalities. At the event, you can expect great conversation, drinks, and a welcoming atmosphere where sparks can fly naturally.
If you’re looking for something more personal than a singles mixer and more real than online dating, this group is for you.
Upcoming events
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Dating Over Coffee: Find Your Taste
Location not specified yetImportant:
RSVP’ing on Meetup does not reserve your spot.
To be considered for this event, you must sign up at cinders.dating and complete your profile. Only confirmed guests will receive the event location and details.Love and coffee both thrive on chemistry. That’s why Cinders Dating and 11th R Coffee are bringing you an exclusive experience designed to spark genuine connections while exploring the world of specialty coffee.
This isn’t a typical singles night. Our guest list is invite-only and curated. Every attendee is selected for compatibility, not just whoever happens to sign up.
For this event, we’re looking to bring together singles who are:
- 25–35 years old
- Working professionals
- Health-conscious and intentional in their lifestyle
- Interested in building a real relationship
If that sounds like you, request your invite on Cinders for your opportunity to connect with singles who are genuinely aligned with you and your lifestyle.
What to Expect
✨ Part One: Matched Conversations- Your top matches will appear on the Cinders app, selected according to your preferences.
- Enjoy relaxed one-on-one time with each match, guided by playful prompts from the Cinders app to help kick things off.
- During your one-on-one time, you’ll enjoy a specialty single-origin tasting cup -- a different origin paired with each match, making every conversation as unique as the coffee in your hand.
☕ Part Two: Open Cupping & Social Mixer
- After your curated matches, join an open cupping session to explore a variety of beans and flavor profiles.
- This is your chance to mingle freely with all attendees, continue conversations, and discover new ones.
- An open bar will also be available, offering both alcoholic and non-alcoholic options for purchase.
How to request an invite
- Request an invite by signing up on Cinders. You will be asked a few questions about yourself and your ideal match.
- Our algorithm will curate matches for you and if there’s compatibility, you will receive an invite to the event.
If we’re unable to find compatible matches for you this time, you will be invited to a future event when we do. The right people in the right room is where the real magic happens. ✨
Event Details
- Duration: 2 hours
- Entry: Invite-only to ensure curated matches and an elevated experience
- Atmosphere: Cozy, interactive, and designed for meaningful connections over coffee
Whether you find your next favorite coffee or your perfect match, this event is about discovering what truly suits your taste. 💓
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