What we’re about
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✨ About the Group
Tired of endless swiping or awkward singles nights? This group is for singles who want a more intentional, curated way to meet new people.
We bring together singles who share mutual attraction, compatible values, and a genuine interest in finding a meaningful connection, all in a relaxed, in-person setting.
💬 Who You’ll Meet
We welcome single professionals who know what they’re looking for, value quality over quantity, and are open to meeting others in small, curated groups. Most members are in their mid 20s to 40s, but we focus more on compatibility than age.
🥂 What We’ll Do
Our events are designed to feel like an exclusive dinner party or cocktail night, except everyone is a potential match. Before each event, we carefully curate the guest list to ensure there’s mutual interest and a balanced mix of personalities. At the event, you can expect great conversation, drinks, and a welcoming atmosphere where sparks can fly naturally.
If you’re looking for something more personal than a singles mixer and more real than online dating, this group is for you.
Upcoming events (1)
See all- Singles mixer soirée with curated matches (25-40)Needs location
Modern dating is broken. Let’s fix it together.
Important:
RSVP’ing on Meetup does not reserve your spot.
To be considered for this event, you must sign up at cinders.dating and complete your profile. Only confirmed guests will receive the event location and details.Join us for an evening designed for singles who are ready for something more than small talk and swiping. The Cinders Soirée is an intimate, invite-only gathering at one of Toronto’s best cocktail bars, where every guest is matched in advance based on their profile and preferences.
How it works:
- Sign up via our website cinders.dating to enter your profile and share your preferences
- We will match you based on your profile and preferences
- You’ll receive an invite with event details if there are suitable matches
- On the night, meet multiple compatible people in one beautiful, relaxed setting
What to expect:
- A relaxed, low-pressure atmosphere (this is not speed dating)
- Conversations that matter, with people you match with
Important:
RSVP’ing on Meetup does not reserve your spot.
To be considered for this event, you must sign up at cinders.dating and complete your profile. Only confirmed guests will receive the event location and details.Who should attend:
- Singles who know what they’re looking for
- Those tired of dating app burnout, random mixers and overly structured speed dating
- People who value real-life chemistry and intentional connections
It’s free to sign up and complete your profile on Cinders. Tickets for confirmed guests are $5. We curate the guestlist to ensure compatibility. If we’re unable to find compatible matches for you this time, you will be invited to a future event when we do.
