Sydney Social Meetup 30s 40’s 50’s+

Why Can’t You Let Them Go?

There’s a very specific kind of frustration that doesn’t get talked about enough.

It’s when you know someone isn’t right for you…you’ve seen it, you’ve thought it through, you’ve probably even tried to walk away…and yet, something in you still keeps going back.

Not always physically. Sometimes it’s just in your head.

The checking, the thinking, the replaying, the quiet hope that maybe something will shift.

And what makes it harder is this:
In every other area of your life, you don’t operate like this.
You’re clear. You make decisions. You move forward.

So when it comes to this… it doesn’t make sense. And over time, it starts to wear on you.
That’s exactly what we’re going to look at in this session.

Not in a surface-level way, and not by giving you more insight you already have…but by actually understanding why this keeps happening, and what needs to shift so it stops.

Because this isn’t about willpower.

And it’s not about you needing to “try harder” to let go.

There’s a pattern running underneath all of this.
And once you see it properly, things start to make a lot more sense.

In this masterclass, I’ll walk you through:
•why you can feel so strongly attached to someone who isn’t aligned with you
•what your nervous system is actually doing in these moments
•why insight alone hasn’t been enough to change it
•what it actually takes to shift this so you’re no longer pulled back in

This is for you if you’re someone who holds yourself to a high standard in life…and you’re ready for your love life to reflect that as well.

Not just in what you say you want… but in what you actually choose.
The goal here isn’t just to “let them go”.

It’s to become someone who no longer attaches to what isn’t right for you in the first place.

Date: Wednesday, 16 September
Time: 6:30pm – 8:00pm (Sydney time)
Location: Online

If you feel like you’re ready to look at this properly… you can register using the link below and secure your spot.

Spots are limited because I keep these sessions focused and intentional, and they do tend to fill.

Register here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/KnwMt47GSiiVaIQURt0F0Q

If you’ve been sitting in this pattern for a while… you’ll know.
And if something in you is saying “I don’t want to keep doing this”… trust that.

If you’re reading this and someone specific came to mind… feel free to share it with them.

I’ll see you there.

Harbour After Dark 🌆

Where meaningful conversations, genuine connection, and new friendships begin.
Step into a different kind of Friday night**.**

🎟️ Reserve your ticket here: https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/harbour-after-dark-tickets-1999754264838?aff=oddtdtcreator

Harbour After Dark brings together professionals, business owners and people who are intentional about creating a full and meaningful life. It is for those who value genuine conversation, authentic connection and spending time with others who are also looking to build enriching relationships and a strong sense of community.

In a world of Zoom calls, remote work, endless scrolling and busy schedules, many of us are craving something more human.

A chance to step away from the screens.
To unwind after the week.
To meet new people naturally.
To enjoy conversations that feel easy, genuine and energising.

As life becomes busier, it is easy to realise that while we know plenty of people, we do not always have a community where we can simply show up, relax and enjoy being ourselves. Harbour After Dark was created to be that place. A place where familiar faces become friends, new conversations happen naturally and connection grows over time.

Over the past few years, Harbour After Dark has grown into a well-established monthly gathering where people come to expand their social circles, reconnect with familiar faces and meet new people in a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere.

Many of our guests have been attending for years and often bring friends along, while new faces join every month, making it easy to feel welcome whether it is your first event or your tenth.

Whether you come on your own or with a friend, you will be welcomed into a relaxed and friendly environment where meaningful conversations happen naturally. There is no pressure to network or impress anyone. Just an opportunity to enjoy the company of good people and finish the week surrounded by genuine connection.

### Event Details

📅 Friday 2 October
🕡 6:30 pm to 9:30 pm
📍 Pumphouse Sydney
17 Little Pier Street, Darling Harbour NSW 2000

### Dress Code

We encourage you to make an effort and dress with confidence. Think stylish, polished and relaxed rather than formal.

### Food and Drinks

A selection of shared platters will be provided throughout the evening and is included in your ticket.
Additional food and beverages, including cocktails, wine, beer and non-alcoholic drinks, will be available to purchase from the bar.

### Our Community

Harbour After Dark has never been about hosting just another social event. It was created to build a community where people feel welcome, conversations happen naturally and genuine friendships have the opportunity to grow.

Kindness, respect and inclusiveness are at the heart of every event, and we ask all guests to contribute to the warm and welcoming atmosphere that makes Harbour After Dark so special.

Photography and videography may take place during the evening for use across our website, social media and promotional material. By attending, you acknowledge and consent to this. If you would prefer not to appear in photos or videos, this event may not be the right fit for you.

I look forward to welcoming you.

Cristina Davy