中文对话：离婚并非社会耻辱 a Dialogue (Mandarin): Divorce is not a Social Stigma

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对话：离婚并非社会耻辱
a Dialogue: Divorce is not a Social Stigma

[Mandarin version]

This Chinese write- up translated from Google translator.

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📅 时间：2026年4月4日，星期六
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离婚是一种深刻的人生经历，它会重塑身份认同、家庭结构和社会期望。虽然如今离婚可能不再像过去那样带有社会耻辱感，但对于男女双方而言，离婚的现实远比这复杂得多。*对话*将探讨这一棘手且往往令人不适的话题。

马来西亚律师公会指出，家庭法和法律框架需要持续改革，以更好地支持家庭，应对分居带来的后果，并保护相关人员（尤其是儿童）的福祉。加强法律实践和以家庭为中心的做法有助于减少离婚造成的冲突和长期伤害[1]。

一项针对雪兰莪州青少年父母离婚影响的研究发现，离婚会对青少年的情绪健康、行为、学业和社会发展产生深远影响。来自离异家庭的青少年更容易经历更严重的情绪困扰，包括焦虑、抑郁、内疚和被遗弃感，而家庭角色、日常生活和居住安排的变化往往会加剧这些困扰。这些情绪影响常常转化为行为问题，例如攻击性增强、社交孤立和冒险行为，而这些问题又与较差的同伴关系和较低的学业成绩相关[2]。

在影响关系满意度以及婚姻破裂可能性的众多因素中，性与情感的契合度起着重要作用。拉曼大学（UTAR）的一项本科生研究发现，性满意度和整体关系质量较高的伴侣，关系破裂的可能性较小。当情感和生理需求得不到满足时，关系不满情绪会加剧，从而增加分居或出轨的风险[3]。

这不是一场辩论。
不是一场互相指责的会议。
也不是一个为伤害行为辩解的空间。

这个空间是为那些经历过分居的人、那些仍在经历分居的人、受分居影响的亲属，以及那些想要了解分居更深层影响的人而设的。

“对话”是一个男女之间可以继续进行公开坦诚交流的空间。

*参考文献：1. https://www.malaysianbar.org.my/article/about-us/president-s-corner/pressstatements/press-release-strengthening-families-through-reform-and-responsible-legal-practice*
2. https://ijcwed.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/12/PICCWED19-20.pdf
3. http://eprints.utar.edu.my/3202/1/fyp_PY_2018_OJY-_1500697.pdf

SCHOOL OF THOUGHT SOCIETY invites you to:

Divorce is a deeply human experience that reshapes identity, family structures and social expectations. While it may carry less social stigma today, the lived reality for men and women is far more complex. A Dialogue takes on a difficult and often uncomfortable issue.

The Malaysian Bar discusses family law and legal frameworks need ongoing reform to better support families, manage the consequences of separation and protect the welfare of those involved especially children. Strengthening legal practice and family-centred approaches can help reduce conflict and long-term harm caused by divorce [1].
A study examining the impact of parental divorce on adolescents in Selangor found that divorce can profoundly affect young people’s emotional wellbeing, behaviour, academics, and social development. Adolescents from divorced families were more likely to experience heightened emotional distress, including anxiety, depression, guilt, and feelings of abandonment, which were often compounded by changes in family roles, routines and living arrangements. These emotional impacts frequently translated into behavioural challenges, such as increased aggression, social isolation, and risky behaviours, which in turn were linked to poorer peer relationships and lower academic performance [2].
Among the many factors that influence relationship satisfaction and by extension, the likelihood of marital breakdown, sexual and emotional compatibility play an important role.
An undergraduate research from UTAR found that couples who report higher sexual satisfaction and overall relationship quality are less likely to experience relational breakdowns. When emotional and physical needs are unmet, relational dissatisfaction grows, increasing vulnerability to separation or infidelity [3].
This is not a debate.
Not a blame session.
Not a space to justify harm.
This space is for those who have lived through separation, those still navigating it, close family members affected by it, and those seeking to understand its deeper impact.
A Dialogue is a space where open and honest conversations between Men and Women continue to flourish.