About us
We are a collective of death doulas, end-of-life guides, funeral professionals, and grief guides offering compassionate support through one of life’s most sacred transitions.
With deep roots in tradition and an openness to what’s emerging, our network provides seamless care -from bedside to burial, from planning to parting. We believe in doing death differently - with intention,with care, and in ways that truly reflect a life well lived.
From lively gatherings like Death Cafe and Death over Drafts, to deep meaningful workshops that help to ease the conversation about death, dying and grief to workshops that help us integrate grief with yoga, creative writing and so much more - we are passionate about lifting the taboo about death, dying and grief!
Questions? email hello@dodeathdifferent.com
Hope to see you soon!
Penny
@thedeathnetwork
www.thedeathnetwork.com
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Death Over Drafts - Temecula CA
Truffle Pig Winery, 34567 Rancho California Rd, Temecula, CA, USDeath Over Drafts: A Social Gathering on Life, Death & Everything In Between 💀🍻
At The Death Network, we believe conversations about death, dying, and grief belong out in the open not hidden behind closed doors. After building community throughout San Diego, we’re excited to head north and partner with Dr. Kaishauna Guidry from Mourning Dove Medical for a night of connection, curiosity, and really good conversation at Truffle Pig Winery.This isn’t a lecture or a workshop - it’s a laid-back evening to mix, mingle, grab a drink, and connect with people who aren’t afraid to talk honestly about life, loss, autonomy, and what matters most. And with a room full of end-of-life professionals, there will be plenty of opportunities to ask those lingering questions you’ve been carrying around but never knew where to ask. Check out the KPBS story on Death over Drafts in San Diego and, the LA Time Daily Pilot story from Death over Drafts Anaheim.
We’re honored to welcome special guest Dr. Kaishauna Guidry, who will help guide discussion around the importance of having a healthcare roadmap at the end of life. Families are often left feeling blindsided when they don't understand the progression of illness or what to expect in the months ahead. Dr. Guidry advocates for clear, compassionate communication about a person's changing health, functional abilities, cognition, nutrition, and care needs so families can make informed decisions and plan with greater confidence. A healthcare roadmap isn't about predicting the exact moment of death—it's about ensuring that care remains aligned with what matters most to the individual and their loved ones.
Whether you’re death-curious, navigating grief, supporting aging parents, planning ahead, or simply craving more meaningful conversation, Death Over Drafts is a welcoming space to pull up a chair and join the dialogue.
We hope you can join us!
📍 Wednesday, July 29 5-7 pm
⏰ 5-5:20 check in, grab a drink, mix and mingle
💬 5:20 - 6:00 guided discussion with Dr. G
🍻 6:00 -7:00 hang out and chat
🃏 Play The Death Deck
🚗 We know traffic can cause delays - late arrivals are no problem!Bring your curiosity, your questions, and maybe a friend. Grab a drink, stay awhile, and help us continue lifting the taboo around death - one honest conversation at a time.
🍻 The first round is on Acacia Health & Hospice - cheers!
We hope to see you there!
www.thedeathnetwork.com
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Waves of Grief Second Sundays
Fletcher Cove, 111 S Seirra Ave, Solana beach, CA, USJoin us in circle on the Second Sunday of each month for Waves of Grief in San Diego, held at Fletcher Beach from 9:30am–11:30am.
These ocean-based gatherings offer a gentle, community-centered space to navigate grief and loss together-building connection, reducing isolation, and finding support in and around the waves.
We begin together in a circle on the sand, with simple grounding, reflection, and optional sharing. You are invited to participate in whatever way feels right-whether that means speaking, listening, or simply being present.
All grief and grievers are welcome, including those moving through loss, life transitions, or collective experiences. No prior ocean experience is needed-come as you are!
After circle, we gently open into the shoreline, inviting you to connect with the ocean in your own way—whether through walking, wading, swimming, boogie boarding, or surfing. Please bring any gear that helps you feel comfortable and supported.
Registration is required.
Waves of Grief Second Sundays are donation-based to keep them accessible while supporting the continuation of this work.These gatherings are part of a year-round Ocean + Surf Therapy program, held by the Waves of Grief Collective—a community of clinicians, facilitators, and individuals with lived experience—coming together to honor grief, foster connection, and cultivate meaningful, nature-based healing practices.
🚗 Park in the lot or free street parking. We will be set up to the left - a short walk down the beach - look for the colorful blankets and fresh flowers.
Check out Waves of Grief May 2026
10 attendees- $5.00
Thinking About Becoming a Death Doula? Q&A with The Death Network
·OnlineOnline💻 Death Doula Community Conversations (Monthly Zoom)
Hosted by The Death Network San Diego Collective
Are you curious about becoming a death doula - or navigating the early stages of building your practice? Whether you’re just starting out or looking for guidance as you grow, this monthly gathering is for you.The Death Network Collective invites you to join us for an open, supportive conversation about the realities of death doula work: the highs, the lows, and everything in between.
Each month we’ll dive into common questions like:- How do I connect with my community as a new death doula?
- Do I need a website or social media presence?
- Who/what/where/why and how do I network?
- How do I set pricing and talk about money with potential clients?
This is not a class or a lecture - it’s a casual space for doulas, by doulas, where you can ask questions, share experiences, and learn from each other.
📅 When: 2nd Monday of every month
⏰ Time: 6:00–7:00 pm PST
📍 Where: Zoom (link provided upon RSVP)
💜 Who: Anyone interested in death doula work or building their practiceThe recording will be provided to all who RSVP for this event.
Questions? email penny@thedeathnetwork.com
@thedeathnetwork
www.TheDeathNetwork.comCome as you are, bring your questions, and let’s grow together as a community.
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