Beyond the Womb: Love Without Illusion

Join us to interact with Preston Jones, Founder of the Authentic-Self Modality Institute (ASMI), philosopher of Authentism, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, and Marriage and Family Counseling graduate, as he shares some of the most transformative teachings from the Authentic-Self Modality with Beyond the Womb: Love Without Illusion

From childhood, we all learn survival strategies: ways to win approval from our caretakers in order to stay safe, feel loved, and, for some of us, avoid being neglected or ignored. These roles aren't signs of weakness; they are how we endured. Yet, without realizing it, many of us keep living from these survival scripts well into adulthood. What looks like strength often hides a wounded child. And then we wonder why our relationships carry unhealthy elements. What feels like love is often just dependency replayed in adult form.

In this presentation, we will explore:

• How patterns from childhood become our identity and shape what we look for in a partner.
• Why the facade of independence, in both men and women, is often a mask to avoid vulnerability.
• The profound truth that approval-seeking is biological, not just emotional weakness.
• Why our longing for unconditional love in adult relationships is really a desire to "return to the womb," and why that is a trap.
• How the roles of Approver and Approvee play out in marriages, families, workplaces, and leadership.
• Why external safety is a false promise, and how to build true security from within.
• How to finally distinguish between dependency and authentic love.

The depth of what we will be exploring is significant. If you’re looking for a quick fix, this isn't it. This is an unflinching look at the hidden scripts that govern our deepest relationships, and I'll be inviting some of you to share. If you've ever wondered why love feels so complicated, or why approval and rejection carry such weight in your life, this is a chance to lay it all out; and for us to learn together from your life experience.

Come prepared to see yourself, your relationships, and the very idea of love through a new lens. If you'd like to share a question or topic for Preston to consider, please fill out this short form: https://forms.gle/avYwsWjGnf3pWp5K8

Come ready for insight, connection, and meaningful conversation. See you there!