About us
MEET SINGLES IN ST. LOUIS AND SOUTHERN ILLINOIS โ THE REAL WAY (NOT THROUGH DATING APPS)
Are you single in St. Louis, St. Charles, or Southern Illinois and tired of dating apps?
Youโre not alone.
Many singles feel like modern dating has become an endless cycle of swiping, messaging, and ghosting.
You swipe through profiles.
You send messages.
Maybe you plan a date.
But often the conversation disappears before you ever meet in person.
Thatโs why this group exists.
Instead of relying on dating apps, we help singles meet face-to-face through fun social events and shared activities.
Our goal is simple:
Meet people.
Have fun.
Build real connections.
No pressure.
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WHY MANY SINGLES ARE TIRED OF DATING APPS
Dating apps promised to make meeting people easier. For many singles, the experience has been the opposite.
Common frustrations include:
โข Endless swiping
โข Conversations that go nowhere
โข Ghosting
โข Fake or outdated profiles
โข Pressure to meet strangers immediately
Dating apps often reduce people to photos and short bios.
But real attraction rarely works that way.
Chemistry usually comes from things like personality, humor, and conversation โ things you can only experience in real life.
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A BETTER WAY TO MEET SINGLES
Our events are designed for singles who want something different.
Instead of rushing into one-on-one dates with strangers, we focus on social experiences where people can connect naturally.
Our approach is simple:
- Meet in person
- Socialize in a relaxed group setting
- Build friendships and connections
- Date only if there is mutual interest
This is sometimes called a โFriendship Firstโ approach to dating.
Many people find this approach feels more natural and less stressful than dating apps.
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WHAT HAPPENS AT OUR EVENTS?
Our events are designed to feel like friends hanging out, not awkward dating interviews.
Examples of events include:
โข Social mixers
โข Happy hours
โข Group dinners
โข Game nights
โข Outdoor activities
โข Local events and festivals
โข Casual hangouts
You can talk with different people, move around, and join conversations naturally.
There is no pressure to pair off or go on dates immediately.
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WHO SHOULD JOIN THIS GROUP?
This community is great for singles who want to:
โข Meet people in person
โข Get off dating apps
โข Make new friends
โข Expand their social circle
โข Explore dating naturally
Some members are actively dating. Others are simply looking to meet people and enjoy social activities.
Both are welcome.
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CITIES OUR MEMBERS COME FROM
Our community includes singles from all across the greater St. Louis region and Southern Illinois.
Many members live within about 90 minutes of downtown St. Charles.
MISSOURI CITIES
St. Louis
St. Charles
St. Peters
OโFallon
Wentzville
Lake St. Louis
Chesterfield
Ballwin
Wildwood
Ellisville
Maryland Heights
Creve Coeur
Florissant
Hazelwood
Clayton
Kirkwood
Webster Groves
University City
Nearby communities also include:
Troy MO
Warrenton
Washington
Union
Pacific
Festus
Farmington
SOUTHERN ILLINOIS CITIES
Belleville
OโFallon IL
Fairview Heights
Collinsville
Edwardsville
Glen Carbon
Maryville
Swansea
Shiloh
Granite City
Alton
Wood River
Godfrey
Many of these cities are only 20โ45 minutes from downtown St. Louis, making events easy to attend.
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DO I HAVE TO BE ACTIVELY DATING?
No.
Many members join simply to:
โข meet new people
โข expand their social circle
โข try new activities
โข enjoy time with other singles
Relationships often develop naturally when people get to know each other over time.
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WHY GROUP EVENTS WORK BETTER FOR MANY SINGLES
Before dating apps existed, most people met through social environments such as:
โข friends
โข parties
โข community groups
โข hobbies
โข social gatherings
Group events recreate that natural environment.
You are not sitting across a table from a stranger trying to force conversation.
Instead, you are sharing an experience with others.
Connections often grow much more naturally in these situations.
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LEARN MORE ABOUT THE FRIENDSHIP FIRST APPROACH
You can learn more about this dating philosophy here:
https://singlesmingle.fun/p/friendship-first-m01
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STAY CONNECTED WITH OUR COMMUNITY
You can also stay updated with the Saint Louis Dating Singles Group here:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/stlsinglesmingle
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Being single doesnโt have to mean swiping through profiles alone.
Sometimes the best connections happen when people simply meet, socialize, and have fun together in real life.
Featured event
Meet Singles in their 20s, 30s & 40s on Thursday Night
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Meet singles in their
20s, 30s & 40s
See someone you like?
Just say hi or invite them for a drink.
No guessing.
No ring checks.
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Limited seats. Get your ticket(s) for
Thursday night on a Rooftop
at www.singlesmingle.fun/p/rooftops
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** About Singles Mingle **
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Welcoming events, not cliquey crowds
People actually come to meet others, not just hang out with the same friend group
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Always new faces
Not the same 5 to 20 people showing up to every event.
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20s, 30s & 40s, backgrounds, personalities, and energy levels
Find your people, your crowd, or maybe your person.
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Professionally hosted
Not random. Not chaotic. Not โeveryone just figure it out.โ We host with intention so you meet new people in a fun way
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Different types of events for different kinds of people
Dinner nights, rooftop nights, game nights, dance nights, and more
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Come for your person or your people
Some people come looking for a relationship. Others just want a better social life. Both belong here
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The best chance to actually meet someone new
Weโre the largest IRL singles network in Southern Illinois & Metro St. Louis, which means more people, more fun, and better odds
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Limited seats. Get your ticket(s) now at www.singlesmingle.fun/p/rooftops
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Upcoming events
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Karaoke or Mingle on Saturday in St. Louis
All American Sports Mall, All American Sports Mall 11133 Lindbergh Business Court, St. Louis, MO, USSing your favorite song or just mingle and watch at Saturday's Karaoke Night.
Saturday, July 18 โข 6:00 PM to 11:00 PM
Come solo or bring friends, all adults 21+ welcomeLearn more: http://singlesmingle.fun/p/karaoke
โ Not a random bar night. A hosted and planned singles event
โ A fun night out with karaoke, drinks in St. Louis***
โ Get on stage or just cheer from your seat
โ Grab a drink and talk to the person next to you***
โ Plenty of time to sing, hang out, and meet people without feeling rushed
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โ 100% not rude if you don't touch the mic
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โ Everyone is single. No guessing, no ring checks
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Limited spots available. RSVP now: http://singlesmingle.fun/p/karaoke
6 attendees
Pool Party & Summer Party
Location not specified yetThis summer, we're taking it poolside, RSVP for a Summer Splash, DJ Dance Night, Pickelball or just to mingle while having fun at : https://singlesmingle.fun/p/poolparty
POOL PARTY
Swim, float, or lounge by the water all night at a private pool and racquet club.PICKLEBALL COURTS
Rally, compete, and meet people on the courts.DJ DANCE NIGHT
Live DJ keeping the music going from start to finish.DINNER & DRINKS
Full kitchen menu and bar service available all night.LIMITED TICKETS. Get yours before they're gone.
ABOUT SINGLES MINGLE
WELCOMING EVENTS, NOT CLIQUEY CROWDS
People actually come to meet others, not just hang out with the same friend groupALWAYS NEW FACES
Not the same 5 to 20 people showing up to every eventPROFESSIONALLY HOSTED
Not random. Not chaotic. Not "everyone just figure it out."
We host with intention so you meet new people in a fun way.DIFFERENT TYPES OF EVENTS FOR DIFFERENT KINDS OF PEOPLE
Dinner nights, pool parties, rooftop nights, game nights, dance nights, and more.COME FOR YOUR PEOPLE OR JUST A GREAT NIGHT OUT
Some people come looking for a relationship.
Others just want a better social life.
Both belong here.THE BEST CHANCE TO ACTUALLY MEET SOMEONE NEW
We're the largest IRL singles network in Southern Illinois and Metro St. Louis, which means more people, more fun, and better odds.Limited tickets. Get yours now: https://singlesmingle.fun/p/poolparty
2 attendees
Singles Dinner: Get Deep With a Small Group
Bemo's, 5373 Highway N, Cottleville, MO, USFor People Who Want Deeper Connections
Get deep with a small group of strangers
An interactive dinner experience that pulls everyone in
By the end of dinner, you feel more connected and less aloneRSVP on our website at: https://singlesmingle.fun/events
ABOUT SINGLES MINGLE
WELCOMING EVENTS, NOT CLIQUEY CROWDS
People actually come to meet others, not just hang out with the same friend groupALWAYS NEW FACES
Not the same 5 to 20 people showing up to every eventPROFESSIONALLY HOSTED
Not random. Not chaotic. Not "everyone just figure it out."
We host with intention so you meet new people in a fun way.DIFFERENT TYPES OF EVENTS FOR DIFFERENT KINDS OF PEOPLE
Dinner nights, pool parties, rooftop nights, game nights, dance nights, and more.COME FOR YOUR PEOPLE OR JUST A GREAT NIGHT OUT
Some people come looking for a relationship.
Others just want a better social life.
Both belong here.THE BEST CHANCE TO ACTUALLY MEET SOMEONE NEW
We're the largest IRL singles network in Southern Illinois and Metro St. Louis, which means more people, more fun, and better odds.Limited tickets. Get yours now: https://singlesmingle.fun/events
5 attendeesMeet Singles in their 20s, 30s & 40s on Thursday Night
Oak Street Inn & Lounge | Cottleville MO, 5521 Oak St., Cottleville, MO 63304, Cottleville, MO, US๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ ๐๐
๐๐ ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐Meet singles in their
20s, 30s & 40sSee someone you like?
Just say hi or invite them for a drink.
No guessing.
No ring checks.**
Limited seats. Get your ticket(s) for
Thursday night on a Rooftop
at www.singlesmingle.fun/p/rooftops
**** About Singles Mingle **
โ Welcoming events, not cliquey crowds
People actually come to meet others, not just hang out with the same friend groupโ Always new faces
Not the same 5 to 20 people showing up to every event.โ 20s, 30s & 40s, backgrounds, personalities, and energy levels
Find your people, your crowd, or maybe your person.โ Professionally hosted
Not random. Not chaotic. Not โeveryone just figure it out.โ We host with intention so you meet new people in a fun wayโ Different types of events for different kinds of people
Dinner nights, rooftop nights, game nights, dance nights, and moreโ Come for your person or your people
Some people come looking for a relationship. Others just want a better social life. Both belong hereโ The best chance to actually meet someone new
Weโre the largest IRL singles network in Southern Illinois & Metro St. Louis, which means more people, more fun, and better odds**
Limited seats. Get your ticket(s) now at www.singlesmingle.fun/p/rooftops
**4 attendees
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