Queer Book Club #34 – ‘In Memoriam’ by Alice Winn

Join us for dinner and discussion about queer books! For our next book, we will be reading ‘In Memoriam’ by Alice Winn.

Blurb
In 1914, war feels far away to Henry Gaunt and Sidney Ellwood. They're too young to enlist, and anyway, Gaunt is fighting his own private battle - an all-consuming infatuation with the dreamy, poetic Ellwood - not having a clue that his best friend is in love with him, always has been.

When Gaunt's mother asks him to enlist in the British army to protect the family from anti-German attacks, he signs up immediately, relieved to escape his overwhelming feelings. But Ellwood and their classmates soon follow him into the horrors of trenches. Though Ellwood and Gaunt find fleeting moments of solace in one another, their friends are dying in front of them, and at any moment they could be next.

An epic tale of the devastating tragedies of war and the forbidden romance that blooms in its grip, In Memoriam is a breathtaking debut.

The Plan
19:30 Meeting @ the restaurant
19:45 Dinner & discussion
21:15 Choosing a book for May
21:30 End

Dinner
The name of the restaurant will be announced in the WhatsApp group chat.

What to do
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2. Read the book :) and think about your suggestion for the discussion in May!
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Hope to see you there!

Amy (she/they) & Izabella (she/her)

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