Erotic Leadership in Play Spaces

For those who are ready to show up more powerfully in Play spaces, who want to connect with new folks in a way that isn't cringey or creepy.
After the sold-out success and positive reception of our Erotic Leadership class near DC, we're excited to bring it to Philly! Join us for a hands-on, interactive class designed to help you approach, connect, and initiate with clarity, confidence, and respect.
This is for those ready to show up with presence and power in kink and play spaces — to connect with folks in ways that feel natural, authentic, and confident, without ever coming across as awkward, cringey or creepy.

By the end of the session, you’ll walk away with practical social and erotic leadership skills you can bring into any play party, dungeon, or kink community.

In this workshop, Ross will be guiding you through practical and tantric practices inspired to upgrade your words, your energy, your touch, and the safety of your connection.

Cultivating an inner fire that she can feel before you even speak, without becoming a douche or a doormat.

When you walk into an event with Big Depth Energy, women don’t feel creeped on, they feel met.

They feel choice. They feel your steadiness.

What You’ll Learn
How to Lead from Cultivation → Expression → Connection

• Regulate your emotions so your presence feels calm, not hungry
• Use voice, pacing, and touch that land in her nervous system as safe and strong
• Turn consent into attuned leadership instead of awkward negotiation
• Express desire clearly - without pressure, chasing, or entitlement
• Create polarity through grounded masculine presence, not performance
• Learn to flirt and create genuine connections at sexy events and in life

Because play spaces reward people who can:

Stand tall without dominating
Desire without demanding
Invite without collapsing

Taught by Men's Dating Coach Ross Lewin of Embodimen.com and Eden of TantraPhilly.com

Feel the difference between performative masculinity and grounded erotic leadership in real time.

If you want play party experiences that feel powerful, playful, and aligned…

Start by becoming the man whose presence makes people relax.

Address will be sent after ticket purchase.