We're Making Childhood Great Again

Our goal is preserving the innocence in childhood, or as per our sister country, ‘We’re making childhood great again!’—by trying 2 push a bill(s) yes plural into law(s), so 1st on our agenda is breaking down & breaking through why childs matter 2 Adult Apathy respectively.

This group will also discuss the perspective from every stage of healing from Childhood Sexual Abuse (CSA) eg teens, young adults, mature adults, as well as from the non-offending parents/caregivers & their children as well as delving into partners of pedophiles experiencing moral injury, to remove the stigma attached to all of the above.

Our meet up is a safe space for people to speak their truths… & while I’m not a therapist, I am the subject that therapist study to better comprehend what they are doing. So in order to hone their expertise, they need survivor experts 2 B @ease when treating those who’ll come after us. & as far as therapy goes, this would definitely B considered Artistic Therapy which will B evident in all the materials U C—one might even say child friendly.

I’m a great grandmother, so I’m a veteran at healing from CSA. So we will also address layering as it was one of the 1st lessons I learnt in group therapy when I was in my early 20’s. A coping method adult survivors of childhood sexual abuse use to protect themselves. We are layering adipose cells atop ourselves—these are fat cells we are using to buffer against feeling the pain from CSA & a bad habit I’d to break.

When my medical doctors couldn’t figure out how I gained weight based on my activity levels, as well as my clean vegan eating habits—as a Masters athlete, she never thought to consider layering, but as survivors, we already know that we layer because of the abuses & I was able to crack that code for myself and went from obese—as far as athletes are concerned, to what some would call quite slim & sexy in the passing of just a few short months.

If U R asking if this is a replicable strategy, I’ve no idea as I’ve never tested delayering on any one else, but myself. It’s my Endocronologist who’d informed me, by her shocked response, that I’d done something spectacular, when I’d said, I’d no more need for her help, nor her referral for me to pay for someone to scientifically help me to lose the weight.

However the science she was referring to, should be offered to survivors of CSA automatically—at least here in Canada and I’d said as much to the Ontario Ombudsman’s Office, where they’d clearly laid out the steps for me to take in order to make that a part of our legislature, but then I self cured & immediately returned for the kids who are in immediate danger.

For when I was a young mom, one of the 1st lessons I learnt in the parents group for child survivors of childhood sexual abuse was: If we can’t talk about good sex, we won’t be able to talk about bad sex, so get ready 2 start the conversation to heal & to delayer & as a template we’ll use one excerpt a month from the workbook: The Art of Valuing Resting In Our Feminine & Y Men Fight So Hard 2 Not B Roused From Their Masculine—4 Young Adult Survivors Of Childhood Sexual Abuse.

So long title & 2 reward U 4 reading through it, the 1st draft is open for free preview & if it pleases U 2 leave a review, please do. I must forewarn there's barely room 2 take in air 4 punctuations are barely NE where. 4 whenever I can simulate the discomfort & confusion in the minds of survivors 4 Adult Apathy 2 relate 2 I do.

https://books.apple.com/ca/book/the-art-of-valuing-resting-in-our-feminine/id6444541660

Members will always receive free material as we’ll never require U 2 purchase the workbooks, 4 it’ll all B covered in the mini lectures. & although a group that specifies, it’s for survivors of CSA, we are all survivors in that we are all touched by survivors of some form of abuse. We are however literally less than 6° of separation from survivors of CSA. We either sat beside someone who was on the train on our commute to work, or walked up to & spoke with one in the cafeteria, or played with one in the sandbox…🙁

Listen, we live closely with both survivors of CSA & pedophiles, so just know I banned Facebook in their heyday. That’s how I am. So we can band together to ban pedophiles in theirs.

MEETING AGENDA
-Acknowledging First Peoples & Traditional Territory
-check-in
-my story
-workbook topic lecture
-questions & suggestions
-your stories
-open discussion
-take away thoughts, activities &/or word of the month

Now we’ve got lots of ground to cover here, but most importantly our goal is to stand in solidarity with children worldwide. This group will meet on the 18th day of every month @8:00pm & in November we'll B celebrating having made childhood great again by preserving their innocence worldwide.