
What we’re about
This is a peer mentorship-based community for young men in their 20s and 30s who are looking to grow, connect, and become better versions of themselves. Whether you're navigating career choices, relationships, purpose, or personal discipline, this community offers support through conversations and mentorship.
At its core, The Becoming is about creating a space where young men from all backgrounds can talk openly, share life experiences, and encourage one another.
Many of us grow up without spaces to speak honestly about life and this group exists to change that. It’s a place to build character, integrity, and clarity together, especially for those who may not have strong support systems.
Through peer mentorship and conversations, we aim to create a supportive network where guys can lean on each other, ask questions, and grow in ways that might not be possible alone.
The name The Becoming reflects the belief that no one has it all figured out. We are all in the process of growing into better versions of ourselves each day. This is a place to grow in character, integrity, and clarity, especially for those who may not have strong support systems.
We host regular check-ins in casual settings online (for a start), in parks, or cafés. Each meetup may include:
- Open discussions on work, relationships, and personal growth
- Peer mentorship and shared life lessons
- Hikes, speaker nights, and hangouts
- Conversations around life skills like budgeting, communication, and leadership
We believe in becoming. Not perfection but progress. If you are looking for a place to grow alongside others, build connections and open up to peers, you are welcome here.
*Note: This is not a fraternity or fight club.