About us
We are a collective of end-of-life guides and death educators. Like birth, death can be loud, messy, and unexpected—yet in our culture, we embrace one but not the other. End-of-life guides, also known as death doulas, can help you craft an authentic end-of-life plan that reflects your core values and personality.
Along with guiding people through end-of-life, we are also deeply engaged in our community. Educational workshops are one of our favorite offerings, and we host free gatherings every month to lift the taboo around talking about death. Our Grief Garden Club, Queer Death Network, and Death Café discussion groups are always in the monthly rotation.
Questions? email hello@dodeathdifferent.com
Hope to see you soon!
Penny, Selena, Tara & Kara
@thedeathnetwork
www.thedeathnetwork.com
Upcoming events
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The Sacred Transition: Incorporating Vigils into the Hospice Experience
Orchid Cremations, 6120 Paseo Del Norte Ste. A-2, Carlsbad, CA, USVigils: Bridging the gap between hospice & end-of-life providers
We invite our local hospice partners to join us for an open house to learn about vigils, and how death doulas can act as a seamless extension of the care they provide. A vigil creates a calm, grounded presence during one of the most tender moments in care. When a death doula is present, the emotional atmosphere tends to stabilize—families feel supported, oriented, and less overwhelmed.Choosing cremation should never mean setting aside time to honor a loved one. A vigil is a non-denominational, intentionally held period of time—typically about 90 minutes - before, during, or shortly after death. It’s a chance for loved ones to gather, slow down, and be present with the transition. Orchid Cremations is honored to offer vigils alongside their flame and water cremation packages.
Pop in anytime between 10 am and noon
Here's what we'll be chatting about:- Cremation: More people are opting for direct cremation which makes the need for intentional ritual and holding space more important than ever.
- Vigils: A vigil creates a calm, grounded presence during one of the most tender moments in care. It's a time to pause, reflect and connect with authenticity and intention.
- Collaborative Care: Our team acts as a professional extension of your hospice mission, providing the non-medical, emotional bedside presence that busy clinical teams often wish they could offer.
Savannah from Orchid Cremations, along with the death doula vigil guides, will be on hand to share about this exciting new offering and answer questions.
Vigils are offered through Orchid Cremations and facilitated by knowledgeable death doulas who are part of The Death Network. Each vigil guide is a certified Death Doula and certified Funeral Arranger. Learn more about vigils here
This event is intended for hospice and end-of-life providers in the professional community.
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Medical Aid in Dying - a deep dive into this important end-of-life option
Sweetwater Zen Center, 2727 Highland Ave., National City, CA, USMedical Aid in Dying (MAiD) is a legal end-of-life option in California for eligible terminally ill patients, yet many people have questions about what it is, how it works, and how it’s accessed.
Join us for an open, educational conversation about Medical Aid in Dying with Donald Moore MD of Autonomy Health. We'll unpack what MAiD is, how it works, and how access is navigated. This workshop offers transparent, accurate information in a calm, respectful space, whether you’re planning ahead for yourself, supporting a loved one, or simply wanting to understand this important end-of-life option.
Together, we’ll discuss eligibility for terminally ill patients, how MAiD works, the role of medical providers, and how the medication is obtained. There will be time for questions, reflection, and thoughtful dialogue.This is an educational event, not a support group, and all are welcome.
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We meet in the yurt at Sweetwater Zen Center - please see photo below for additional information. Sweetwater ZC kindly asks that shoes are removed before entering the yurt.20 attendees- $5.00
Thinking About Becoming a Death Doula? Q&A with The Death Network
·OnlineOnline💻 Death Doula Community Conversations (Monthly Zoom)
Hosted by The Death Network San Diego Collective
Are you curious about becoming a death doula - or navigating the early stages of building your practice? Whether you’re just starting out or looking for guidance as you grow, this monthly gathering is for you.The Death Network Collective invites you to join us for an open, supportive conversation about the realities of death doula work: the highs, the lows, and everything in between.
Each month we’ll dive into common questions like:- How do I connect with my community as a new death doula?
- Do I need a website or social media presence?
- Who/what/where/why and how do I network?
- How do I set pricing and talk about money with potential clients?
This is not a class or a lecture - it’s a casual space for doulas, by doulas, where you can ask questions, share experiences, and learn from each other.
📅 When: 2nd Monday of every month
⏰ Time: 6:00–7:00 pm PST
📍 Where: Zoom (link provided upon RSVP)
💜 Who: Anyone interested in death doula work or building their practiceThe recording will be provided to all who RSVP for this event.
Questions? email penny@thedeathnetwork.com
@thedeathnetwork
www.TheDeathNetwork.comCome as you are, bring your questions, and let’s grow together as a community.
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