About us
We are a collective of death doulas, end-of-life guides, funeral professionals, and grief guides offering compassionate support through one of life’s most sacred transitions.
With deep roots in tradition and an openness to what’s emerging, our network provides seamless care -from bedside to burial, from planning to parting. We believe in doing death differently - with intention,with care, and in ways that truly reflect a life well lived.
From lively gatherings like Death Cafe and Death over Drafts, to deep meaningful workshops that help to ease the conversation about death, dying and grief to workshops that help us integrate grief with yoga, creative writing and so much more - we are passionate about lifting the taboo about death, dying and grief!
Questions? email hello@dodeathdifferent.com
Hope to see you soon!
Penny
@thedeathnetwork
www.thedeathnetwork.com
Upcoming events
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Living with Grief - Guided Discussion and Support
South Park Yoga and Wellness, 2985 Beech St, San Diego, CA, USWe invite you to join us for a monthly gathering dedicated to exploring grief in all its complexity - gently, honestly, and in community.
This 90-minute session with Grief Coach Claudia Faerber offers a space for grief education, guided sharing, and meaningful connection. Together, we’ll explore a wide range of topics - from understanding the emotional and physical impact of grief, to navigating anxiety, redefining acceptance, building rituals, and even making space for hope, gratitude, and moments of joy along the way.
Grief is not linear, and neither are these conversations. Each gathering stands on its own while contributing to a larger, evolving understanding of what it means to live well while carrying loss, and how we can better care for ourselves and each other in the process.
Hosted by Grief Coach Claudia Faerber. All are welcome, wherever you are in your grief.
- RSVP is requested so we can prepare the space with intention.
- Not a Meet Up member? $10 Venmo @thedeathnetwork
- If you are unable to afford a ticket, please email hello@dodeathdifferent.com
- South Park Yoga kindly requests that shoes are removed to protect the wood floors. Feel free to bring socks or slippers.
8 attendees 
Death Cafe National City
Sweetwater Zen Center, 2727 Highland Ave., National City, CA, USAt a Death Cafe, people—often strangers—come together to openly discuss death. Our goal is to encourage greater awareness of death, helping us all to live more fully in the time we have.
We’re creating a warm, welcoming space where you can engage in meaningful conversations about a subject that, while often considered taboo, connects us all. Whether you’ve faced death personally or are simply curious about your own mortality, you’ll find authentic, lively discussions with individuals from diverse backgrounds.
Our gatherings are led by volunteer facilitators, with the aim of fostering positive, thoughtful dialogue within a supportive community. By coming together as a community, we forge meaningful connections that honor our shared curiosity about death.
FAQ:
- Is this a support or therapy group?
No, this is a volunteer-based community discussion group. - Is there a fee to attend?
Nope! Death Cafe is a free event hosted by volunteers. If you'd like to support our gatherings, we welcome your donations. Our venmo account is @thedeathnetwork. - Is there parking?
Yes, there is a parking lot, and it's OK to part at the Social Security Admin building next door. - Will food and drinks be provided?
Food is not allowed in the yurt, feel free to BYO water bottle and favorite beverage. - Is this event for kids?
No, Death Cafe is an adult only gathering. - Do I have to share?
Our Death Cafe is lively and collaborative, we hope you feel comfortable sharing but it’s not a requirement.
Please plan to arrive a few minutes early, we will begin promptly at 1:00. Given the sensitive nature of our discussions, late arrivals can disrupt the flow of conversation.
Thank you, we look forward to meeting you!
Please email questions to hello@dodeathdifferent.com. Follow us @thedeathnetwork
We meet in the yurt at Sweetwater Zen Center and kindly ask that shoes are removed prior to entering the yurt.Photography Notice: Photos may be taken at the Death Network event for marketing purposes. If you prefer not to be included in any photos, please inform your host before the event. Thank you!
18 attendees- Is this a support or therapy group?
Death Cafe - Encinitas Seaside Center for Spiritual Living
Seaside Center for Spiritual Living, 1613 Lake Dr, Encinitas, CA, USYou might be wondering - "What on earth is a Death Cafe?"
At a Death Cafe, people, often strangers, gather to eat treats, drink tea and discuss death. Our objective is to increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their (finite) lives.
We are creating an inviting, safe space to share the heartfelt experience of diving into a taboo topic which unites us all. Whether you've experienced death first hand or you're exploring your mortality, you can expect authentic, engaging and lively conversation with people from all walks of life.
What are people saying about Death Cafe Encinitas? Watch this video
Our discussion groups are hosted by volunteer facilitators and the intention is to foster positive conversation within a like-minded community. Please be mindful and respectful of others. Remember, this is a discussion led by you. We want to hear as many voices as possible.
Things to note:
- Please plan to arrive around 9:50 am. We will begin promptly at 10:00 and will be locking the door at 10:05. If you are running late, please plan on joining us next time.
- We will split into small groups and begin our introductions in order to facilitate deeper discussions.
- No pets are allowed at this meeting - except for emotional support or registered service pets.
FAQs:
- Is this a support or therapy group?
No, this is a volunteer-based community discussion group. - Is there a fee to attend?
Nope! Death Cafe is a free event hosted by volunteers. If you'd like to support our gatherings, we welcome your donations. Our venmo account is @deathcafe. - Is there parking?
Yes, there is plenty parking in the lot. - Will food and drinks be provided?
Water, tea, and a small tasty treat will be available.
Please feel free to bring your water bottle or favorite mug for tea. - Is this event for kids?
Yes, children are welcome to attend. - Do I have to share?
Our Death Cafe is lively and collaborative, we hope you feel comfortable sharing but it’s not a requirement.
Thank you! We look forward to meeting you!
Photography Notice: Photos may be taken at the Death Network event for marketing purposes. If you prefer not to be included in any photos, please inform your host before the event. Thank you!
14 attendees
Death Over Drafts - Temecula CA
Truffle Pig Winery, 34567 Rancho California Rd, Temecula, CA, USDeath Over Drafts: A Social Gathering on Life, Death & Everything In Between 💀🍻
At The Death Network, we believe conversations about death, dying, and grief belong out in the open not hidden behind closed doors. After building community throughout San Diego, we’re excited to head north and partner with Dr. Kaishauna Guidry from Mourning Dove Medical for a night of connection, curiosity, and really good conversation at Truffle Pig Winery.This isn’t a lecture or a workshop - it’s a laid-back evening to mix, mingle, grab a drink, and connect with people who aren’t afraid to talk honestly about life, loss, autonomy, and what matters most. And with a room full of end-of-life professionals, there will be plenty of opportunities to ask those lingering questions you’ve been carrying around but never knew where to ask. Check out the KPBS story on Death over Drafts in San Diego and, the LA Time Daily Pilot story from Death over Drafts Anaheim.
We’re honored to welcome special guest Dr. Kaishauna Guidry, who will help guide discussion around the importance of having a healthcare roadmap at the end of life. Families are often left feeling blindsided when they don't understand the progression of illness or what to expect in the months ahead. Dr. Guidry advocates for clear, compassionate communication about a person's changing health, functional abilities, cognition, nutrition, and care needs so families can make informed decisions and plan with greater confidence. A healthcare roadmap isn't about predicting the exact moment of death—it's about ensuring that care remains aligned with what matters most to the individual and their loved ones.
Whether you’re death-curious, navigating grief, supporting aging parents, planning ahead, or simply craving more meaningful conversation, Death Over Drafts is a welcoming space to pull up a chair and join the dialogue.
We hope you can join us!
📍 Wednesday, July 29 5-7 pm
⏰ 5-5:20 check in, grab a drink, mix and mingle
💬 5:20 - 6:00 guided discussion with Dr. G
🍻 6:00 -7:00 hang out and chat
🃏 Play The Death Deck
🚗 We know traffic can cause delays - late arrivals are no problem!Bring your curiosity, your questions, and maybe a friend. Grab a drink, stay awhile, and help us continue lifting the taboo around death - one honest conversation at a time.
We hope to see you there!
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