What we’re about
We are a collective of end-of-life guides and death educators. Like birth, death can be loud, messy, and unexpected—yet in our culture, we embrace one but not the other. End-of-life guides, also known as death doulas, can help you craft an authentic end-of-life plan that reflects your core values and personality.
Along with guiding people through end-of-life, we are also deeply engaged in our community. Educational workshops are one of our favorite offerings, and we host free gatherings every month to lift the taboo around talking about death. Our Grief Garden Club, Queer Death Network, and Death Café discussion groups are always in the monthly rotation.
Questions? email hello@dodeathdifferent.com
Hope to see you soon!
Penny, Selena, Tara & Kara
@thedeathnetwork
www.thedeathnetwork.com
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Queer Death Network Discussion Group - May: Gender & Identity at the End of LifeBravo Family Mortuary, San Diego, CA
Queer Death Network is a community space dedicated to exploring end-of-life care and options through a queer lens so that you can design your end-of-life journey as authentically as you’ve lived your life.
🪦🌈 Queer Death Network – May Meetup 🌈🪦
Gender & Identity at the End of Life: What Shows Up on the Death Certificate?
This month, we’re taking a closer look at how gender and identity are reflected—or not—on the California death certificate. While many of us live in beautifully self-defined and chosen identities, the legal system doesn’t always keep up. This can be painful to confront, especially when what's required at death may not reflect how we lived.Together, we’ll gently unpack what data is legally required on the death certificate in California, and explore what can be populated to reflect your chosen identity and gender. This session is led by queer-affirming death care professionals who’ve walked alongside many families through this process—and who are committed to helping you understand your rights, your options, and where change is still needed.
This workshop is led by LGBTQIA+ community members and queer-affirming death care professionals who are committed to creating a supportive and inclusive space. Each month, we’ll explore a new end-of-life topic relevant to the LGBTQIA+ community. Join us regularly, and over time, you’ll create a comprehensive guide for your loved ones—ensuring your wishes, identity, and values are honored when the time comes.
Hosted by:
Jesse Greenfield (they/them)
Penny Waugh (she/her)
Tara Novak (she/her)
Kara Hallet (she/her)
We can’t wait to see you!
Questions? hello@dodeathdifferent.com
Visit The Death NetworkPlease note: We are not attorneys, and this session is not legal advice. We’re volunteers and end-of-life professionals sharing our experience working with these documents.
This is a NO PHOTOGRAPHY Death Network event to ensure a safe and anonymous space for all attendees. Thank you for respecting this policy!
- Grief and Renewal: A Kundalini Yoga and Sound Healing ExperienceBravo Family Mortuary, San Diego, CA
You are invited to an evening of free Kundalini yoga movement, chanting, and song accompanied with sound healing for grief led by Lena Bravo-Olsher. This event will take place in the beautiful chapel of her family-owned business, Bravo Family Mortuary. This event is for all yogis - seasoned and beginners - no experience necessary!
We recognize that life can be especially challenging for those navigating the journey of grief, and having a safe space for emotional release is important. Join us for an evening of renewal and transformation, a sacred space to honor your emotions and step into life with a sense of rebirth and hope.
Lena Bravo-Olsher is the owner of Bravo Family Mortuary along with her husband Steve. She's passionate about providing personalized, compassionate care to the families she serves as a Funeral Director and Embalmer. Lena is also a Kundalini Yoga Instructor and will be guiding us through movement, songs and chanting at this event.
PLEASE BRING YOUR OWN YOGA MAT AND A BLANKET!
We will be set up in the chapel of the mortuary and do not have extra supplies, so please be sure to bring your own yoga mat and blanket.PLEASE ARRIVE EARLY!
Please plan to arrive a few minutes early, we will begin promptly at 6:30PM. Given the sensitive nature of our event, as late arrivals can disrupt the flow. We will lock the doors promptly at 6:35 PM.We are excited for this evening of community, connection and healing. Many of those who work in the death care industry are drawn to holistic ways of grieving and healing. We're excited to share the 'other side' of our death care team at this event and provide this free service for the community.
We hope to see you there!
@bravofamilymortuary
@thedeathnetworkFAQ:
- Is this a grief support group?
No, this is not a support group specifically. We are not therapists, mental health professionals, or grief counselors. - Is there a fee to attend?
Nope! This is a free event. - Is there parking?
Yes, there is a parking lot, street parking, and it’s OK to park at McDonalds next door. - Is this event for kids?
No, this is an adults only gathering.
Photography Notice: Photos may be taken at the Death Network event for marketing purposes. If you prefer not to be included in any photos, please inform your host before the event. Thank you!
- Is this a grief support group?
