What we’re about
We are a collective of end-of-life guides and death educators. Like birth, death can be loud, messy, and unexpected—yet in our culture, we embrace one but not the other. End-of-life guides, also known as death doulas, can help you craft an authentic end-of-life plan that reflects your core values and personality.
Along with guiding people through end-of-life, we are also deeply engaged in our community. Educational workshops are one of our favorite offerings, and we host free gatherings every month to lift the taboo around talking about death. Our Grief Garden Club, Queer Death Network, and Death Café discussion groups are always in the monthly rotation.
Questions? email hello@dodeathdifferent.com
Hope to see you soon!
Penny, Selena, Tara & Kara
@thedeathnetwork
www.thedeathnetwork.com
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See all- The Death Network Discussion GroupSweetwater Zen Center, National City, CA
The Death Network Discussion Group is a guided (but not rigid) space for deeper, topic-driven conversations around death, dying, and the many ways we relate to them. Each month, our host team of experienced death workers bring thought-provoking prompts to help spark meaningful discussion. We’re here to explore real talk, in real time, with curious and open-hearted people.
What to expect:
⏳ A welcoming space to explore death through a different lens
⏳ Discussions hosted by a team of experienced death workers
⏳ Each month features thought-provoking prompts to spark deeper conversation (see below)
⏳ Not a workshop, not a class—just honest conversation
⏳ Come curious, leave connectedThis group is ideal for people who:
— Think about death and dying as part of life
— Want to connect with others in conversation that’s real, respectful, and human
— Aren’t seeking support or therapy, but want a space to talkWe’ll continue to host Death Cafes for those who enjoy open-format dialogue. This group simply offers something a little different for those ready to go deeper into the conversation.
✴August Topic: End-of-Life Expectations - And What Happens When They’re Not Met
This month, we’re exploring the quiet expectations we carry about how end-of-life “should” go, whether shaped by culture, past experiences, or our own hopes. What happens when those expectations clash with reality?
When someone won’t talk about death, or when a process we imagined as peaceful turns out to be complicated, messy, or unresolved?We’ll reflect on what we’ve learned from the deaths we’ve witnessed, how anticipatory grief shows up in our relationships, and how we navigate the gap between what we hoped for and what is.
Want to know more? Visit The Death Network @thedeathnetwork
We hope to see you soon!
Penny, Tara & KaraPS - We meet in the yurt at Sweetwater Zen Center, which is towards the back of the property. There is a map in the photo section of this invite - please take a look and get familiar with the space.
There is some visitor parking at Sweetwater Zen Center, we recommend giving yourself some time just in case you need to find street parking. Please do not park in spaces labeled Resident Parking 🙏 - Death Over Drafts - Novo Brazil Brewing Mission Valley San DiegoNovo Brazil Brewing Mission Valley, San Diego, CA
Death Over Drafts: A Social Gathering on Life, Death & Everything In Between 💀🍻
At The Death Network, you know we’re passionate about lifting the taboo around talking about death. Over the past year, we’ve loved connecting with so many of you at our Death Cafes and discussion groups across San Diego. This time, we’re excited to switch things up with a more casual gathering - an evening to mix, mingle, and share a drink with folks who appreciate some good, honest conversation about death and dying. Grab a drink, and come hang out with us for an evening of community, curiosity, and conversation - served with a side of good beer.Death Over Drafts is a laid-back night out where good drinks meet real talk. It’s a chance to connect with like-minded folks who aren’t afraid to go deep - chatting about life, loss, and everything in between. And, we’ll have The Death Deck on hand in case you're up for a few thought-provoking (and surprisingly fun) rounds of this thought provoking game.
This month, we’re teaming up with Savannah, owner of Orchid Cremations, a modern cremation provider—for a night that’s equal parts meaningful and laid-back. Savannah is a licensed funeral director, embalmer, and crematory operator, and she’ll be joining us as a special guest. If you’ve ever had questions about the funeral profession, she’s the perfect person to ask!
We will be gathering on the patio at Novo, drinks (beer, cider, kombucha, NA options) and food available for purchase. Participation is always optional, and everyone is welcome in our all-inclusive community. Drop in anytime between 5:00 and 8:00, we’d love to see you!
Penny, Selena, Tara, Kara & Savannah
@thedeathnetworkPS
💫 We will also be celebrating 3 birthdays within our collective The Death Network's very own Penny & Kara, along with Savannah from Orchid Cremations, all celebrate their birthdays in August... and you better believe we’re leaning into that bold Leo energy. 🦁Let's raise a glass to these trailblazing Leos who are helping us all do death a little differently!
