About us
We are a collective of end-of-life guides and death educators. Like birth, death can be loud, messy, and unexpected—yet in our culture, we embrace one but not the other. End-of-life guides, also known as death doulas, can help you craft an authentic end-of-life plan that reflects your core values and personality.
Along with guiding people through end-of-life, we are also deeply engaged in our community. Educational workshops are one of our favorite offerings, and we host free gatherings every month to lift the taboo around talking about death. Our Grief Garden Club, Queer Death Network, and Death Café discussion groups are always in the monthly rotation.
Questions? email hello@dodeathdifferent.com
Hope to see you soon!
Penny, Selena, Tara & Kara
@thedeathnetwork
www.thedeathnetwork.com
Upcoming events
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Creative Writing for Grief
Sweetwater Zen Center, 2727 Highland Ave., National City, CA, USGrief touches every part of us, yet no two experiences of it are the same. Like a fingerprint, it is entirely our own. Finding ways to move with grief, rather than against it, often means exploring what helps us express, process, and integrate loss into our lives.
Join us for an intimate and interactive workshop with author Laing Rikkers, whose own grief journey began with the death of her sister. In the aftermath, she found an unexpected companion in creative writing, eventually leading to her book Morning Leaves. Through her story, Laing will share how poetry and time in nature became a pathway for navigating life after loss, offering moments of clarity, connection, and even beauty.
Together, we’ll explore how creativity can serve as a gentle outlet for grief. This experience includes guided discussion, quiet time in nature to reflect and notice what arises, and an opportunity to engage in your own writing or creative expression. We’ll close by gathering in community to share reflections on the experience of slowing down, turning inward, and tapping into creativity as a tool for grief. Sharing is always optional.
We’ll provide blank notebooks, pens, and markers, or you’re welcome to bring your own journal.
This is not about doing it “right.” It’s about discovering what feels true for you.
We hope to see you soon! @thedeathnetwork @morning_leaves_and_poetry22 attendees- $5.00

Thinking About Becoming a Death Doula? Q&A with The Death Network
·OnlineOnline💻 Death Doula Community Conversations (Monthly Zoom)
Hosted by The Death Network San Diego Collective
Are you curious about becoming a death doula - or navigating the early stages of building your practice? Whether you’re just starting out or looking for guidance as you grow, this monthly gathering is for you.The Death Network Collective invites you to join us for an open, supportive conversation about the realities of death doula work: the highs, the lows, and everything in between.
Each month we’ll dive into common questions like:- How do I connect with my community as a new death doula?
- Do I need a website or social media presence?
- Who/what/where/why and how do I network?
- How do I set pricing and talk about money with potential clients?
This is not a class or a lecture - it’s a casual space for doulas, by doulas, where you can ask questions, share experiences, and learn from each other.
📅 When: 2nd Monday of every month
⏰ Time: 6:00–7:00 pm PST
📍 Where: Zoom (link provided upon RSVP)
💜 Who: Anyone interested in death doula work or building their practiceThe recording will be provided to all who RSVP for this event.
Questions? email penny@thedeathnetwork.com
@thedeathnetwork
www.TheDeathNetwork.comCome as you are, bring your questions, and let’s grow together as a community.
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Past events
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