
What we’re about
Film Club is an evening for people who love getting immersed in movies and then discussing what they experienced.
Most of the films we watch have a link to the representation of masculinity. Our shared goal is to let the power of visual storytelling inspire a healthy masculine energy and to confront the shadow sides of our experiences as men.
One night at a time in a safe space, together.
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Upcoming events
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Film Club: Demolition | Screening & Discussion
The Gathering of Men, 12 Naritaweg, 1043 BZ, Amsterdam, NLHey There!
I'm Misi, a film enthusiast and dedicated member of The Gathering of Men community. I'm excited to invite you for an event merging my passions: Movies & chatting about masculinity!
After watching Demolition together, we will discuss the movie through topics ranging from cinematography to its deeper psychological themes.
What to expect?
- Director insight: Before the screening, I will introduce the director (Jean-Marc Vallée) and share a few aspects of his life and artistic influences that could have shaped Demolition.
- Quick sharing round: After a brief open discussion, each of you will get about 2 minutes to share your ratings (1–5), in these areas:
🎥 Cinematography & Soundtrack (visuals, music, and atmosphere)
📖 Content (theme, storyline, and characters)
🎭 Acting (performances and how they convey emotional depth)
3. Group discussion: We’ll dive into the film’s exploration of masculinity, such as male archetypes portrayed (King, Warrior, Magician, Lover), & how grief, numbness, and dismantling and rebuilding reshape male identity.
4. Personal takeaways: We will close the night with everyone sharing what they take away for their own lives from the movie or the discussion!
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I hope this evening will be a good chance for all of us to not just engage with the film as entertainment, but as a mirror for our shared (hu)man experience!
P.S. Bring your own dinner to enjoy during the movie. Feel free to arrive a bit earlier, as doors open at 5:00 PM, so we can start promptly at 5:30 PM!
The film will be screened in English with English subtitles.1 attendee