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Welcome to The Gay Sober

Who are we :

A social group for Gay Men in and around London who are sober and who do not use drugs. 

We meet on a regular basis to socialise and to support each other in leading Sober Lifestyles 

Our Meet-Up events are Social and Interactive and are held in Gay friendly venues in London 

We aim to support and inspire each other in leading healthy SOBER Gay Lifestyles.

Having a socially active Gay life should not mean having to drink and use drugs and being Gay & Sober should not mean living in isolation.

Come and join us at our next event !


These events are for people who are already leading or wishing to lead sober lifestyles. 

They are not for people looking for a sober night out or for help in actually stopping drinking or using.

These events are for mixing and to socialise with each other they are not 12 step support groups.

We also request that you attend events alone and not with people that you already know. 

This has encouraged us to talk with strangers and get to know new people rather than staying in the comfort of familiar company and friends we already know.