
What we’re about
Welcome to The Real-Life Dating Club, a community for NYC singles who are ready to meet real people, in real life — not just swipe through endless apps. This group is hosted by Toi & Moi, a modern matchmaking and dating coaching service that helps ambitious, relationship-minded New Yorkers find genuine connection through curated events, mixers, and workshops.
Whether you’re newly single, dating with purpose, or simply want to expand your circle of like-minded singles, this group was created for you.
### 🌆 What We’re About
We believe dating should feel exciting, not exhausting.
Our mission is to bring together emotionally available, growth-oriented singles who are ready to build something real — with intention, confidence, and fun.
Expect a mix of:
- NYC singles mixers in beautiful, low-pressure settings
- Dating workshops on mindset, communication, and attraction
- Themed events like wine nights, rooftop socials, and “dating detox” meetups
- Opportunities for real conversations and meaningful connection
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### 💬 Who Should Join
This group is perfect for you if:
- You’re single, and living in NYC or nearby
- You’re tired of dating apps or you’re not seeing success
- You value emotional maturity, ambition, and authenticity
- You want to meet other singles who are serious about finding love
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### ❤️ Why Join The Real-Life Dating Club
- Meet high-quality singles in a supportive, inclusive community
- Learn to date with clarity, confidence, and purpose
- Experience dating as it’s meant to be — personal, intentional, and fun
We’re not about gimmicks, forced matches, or endless swiping.
We’re about real people meeting real people, guided by the principles of modern matchmaking and heart-centered coaching.
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### 📍 Join Us
If you’re ready to experience dating that feels authentic and exciting again, join The Real-Life Dating Club today.
RSVP to our next event, meet incredible singles, get personalized advice for your dating life, and rediscover what connection can feel like — all right here in NYC.
Follow us on Instagram @toietmoimatch for event updates and dating insights.
Let’s make dating meaningful again — one real connection at a time.
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