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What we’re about

Welcome to The Real-Life Dating Club, a community for NYC singles who are ready to meet real people, in real life — not just swipe through endless apps. This group is hosted by Toi & Moi, a modern matchmaking and dating coaching service that helps ambitious, relationship-minded New Yorkers find genuine connection through curated events, mixers, and workshops.
Whether you’re newly single, dating with purpose, or simply want to expand your circle of like-minded singles, this group was created for you.

### 🌆 What We’re About

We believe dating should feel exciting, not exhausting.
Our mission is to bring together emotionally available, growth-oriented singles who are ready to build something real — with intention, confidence, and fun.
Expect a mix of:

  • NYC singles mixers in beautiful, low-pressure settings
  • Dating workshops on mindset, communication, and attraction
  • Themed events like wine nights, rooftop socials, and “dating detox” meetups
  • Opportunities for real conversations and meaningful connection

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### 💬 Who Should Join

This group is perfect for you if:

  • You’re single, and living in NYC or nearby
  • You’re tired of dating apps or you’re not seeing success
  • You value emotional maturity, ambition, and authenticity
  • You want to meet other singles who are serious about finding love

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### ❤️ Why Join The Real-Life Dating Club

  • Meet high-quality singles in a supportive, inclusive community
  • Learn to date with clarity, confidence, and purpose
  • Experience dating as it’s meant to be — personal, intentional, and fun

We’re not about gimmicks, forced matches, or endless swiping.
We’re about real people meeting real people, guided by the principles of modern matchmaking and heart-centered coaching.

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### 📍 Join Us

If you’re ready to experience dating that feels authentic and exciting again, join The Real-Life Dating Club today.
RSVP to our next event, meet incredible singles, get personalized advice for your dating life, and rediscover what connection can feel like — all right here in NYC.
Follow us on Instagram @toietmoimatch for event updates and dating insights.
Let’s make dating meaningful again — one real connection at a time.

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