What we’re about
Welcome to The Real-Life Dating Club, a community for NYC singles who are ready to meet real people, in real life — not just swipe through endless apps. This group is hosted by Toi & Moi, a modern matchmaking and dating coaching service that helps ambitious, relationship-minded New Yorkers find genuine connection through curated events, mixers, and workshops.
Whether you’re newly single, dating with purpose, or simply want to expand your circle of like-minded singles, this group was created for you.
### 🌆 What We’re About
We believe dating should feel exciting, not exhausting.
Our mission is to bring together emotionally available, growth-oriented singles who are ready to build something real — with intention, confidence, and fun.
Expect a mix of:
- NYC singles mixers in beautiful, low-pressure settings
- Dating workshops on mindset, communication, and attraction
- Themed events like wine nights, rooftop socials, and “dating detox” meetups
- Opportunities for real conversations and meaningful connection
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### 💬 Who Should Join
This group is perfect for you if:
- You’re single, and living in NYC or nearby
- You’re tired of dating apps or you’re not seeing success
- You value emotional maturity, ambition, and authenticity
- You want to meet other singles who are serious about finding love
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### ❤️ Why Join The Real-Life Dating Club
- Meet high-quality singles in a supportive, inclusive community
- Learn to date with clarity, confidence, and purpose
- Experience dating as it’s meant to be — personal, intentional, and fun
We’re not about gimmicks, forced matches, or endless swiping.
We’re about real people meeting real people, guided by the principles of modern matchmaking and heart-centered coaching.
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### 📍 Join Us
If you’re ready to experience dating that feels authentic and exciting again, join The Real-Life Dating Club today.
RSVP to our next event, meet incredible singles, get personalized advice for your dating life, and rediscover what connection can feel like — all right here in NYC.
Follow us on Instagram @toietmoimatch for event updates and dating insights.
Let’s make dating meaningful again — one real connection at a time.
Upcoming events
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SINGLES 30s to 50s Holiday MIXER in NYC with a TWIST| IRL Matchmaking
Evalyn's Tap House, 236 Butler St,,, Kings County, NY, USJoin us for a sophisticated singles mixer designed specifically for vibrant New Yorkers in their 30s to their 50s. If you're looking for genuine connections, meaningful conversations, and a fun way to meet other singles in the city, this event is for you!
### What to Expect at This Exclusive Event for Singles 30s to 50s:
- Speed connections with a twist! In this unique, fast-paced event, you'll meet someone new every 15 minutes. After each brief encounter, you’ll use a simple card to indicate if you're interested in a friendship or open to exploring a romantic connection. It’s quick, fun, and takes the pressure off, giving you the chance to make meaningful connections in a relaxed setting! At the end of the night, turn in your card. If you match with someone on your intentions, we'll set you up, free of charge!
- Exclusive Networking: Whether you’re looking for love, new friendships, or business connections, this event is the perfect opportunity to meet diverse, interesting singles in New York City.
- Bring a friend for 15% off the price of two tickets!
### Why Attend This Singles Mixer for 30s-50s:
- Matchmaking Support: Need extra help? We offer professional matchmaking and dating coaching services for those interested in getting a personalized touch on their dating journey.
- Located in NYC: Held in the heart of New York, this event will offer you a chance to meet local singles in a central, convenient location.
Limited Spots Available – Secure Your Ticket Today!
Don’t miss out on this exclusive event! Whether you're looking for a meaningful connection, love, or just to expand your social circle, this unique NYC singles holiday mixer is the perfect opportunity to meet people who are also ready for something real. Reserve your spot now and start your journey toward a new connection!1 attendee - $25.00
SINGLES 40s & 50s Mixer NYC
The Folly, 92 West Houston St., New York, NY, USAn Exclusive Networking & Dating Event for Vibrant New Yorkers Looking for Love
Join us for a sophisticated singles mixer designed specifically for vibrant New Yorkers in their 40s and 50s. If you're looking for genuine connections, meaningful conversations, and a fun way to meet other singles in the city, this event is for you!
Whether you're navigating the New York dating scene for the first time, getting back into the dating world, or seeking a deeper connection, our matchmaking event offers a relaxed yet engaging atmosphere to meet like-minded individuals. Say goodbye to superficial online dating apps and meet people in person who are also ready for real love and long-term relationships.
What to Expect at This Exclusive Event for Singles 40s & 50s:
Themed Name Tags: We’ve designed interactive name tags that help spark meaningful conversations from the moment you arrive.
Exclusive Networking: Whether you’re looking for love, new friendships, or business connections, this event is the perfect opportunity to meet diverse, interesting singles in New York City.
Bring a friend for 15% off the price of two tickets on Eventbrite!
Everyone has a chance to win a free drink or a FREE 1-hour dating coaching session!
Why Attend This Singles Mixer for 40s-50s:
Targeted for Mature Singles: This event is specifically designed for individuals in their 40s and 50s seeking long-term relationships and meaningful connections.
Matchmaking Support: Need extra help? We offer professional matchmaking and dating coaching services for those interested in getting a personalized touch on their dating journey.
Located in NYC: Held in the heart of New York, this event will offer you a chance to meet local singles in a central, convenient location.
Limited Spots Available – Secure Your Ticket Today!
Don’t miss out on this exclusive event! Whether you're looking for a meaningful connection, love, or just to expand your social circle, this NYC singles mixer is the perfect opportunity to meet people who are also ready for something real. Reserve your spot now and start your journey toward a new connection!1 attendee
Past events
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