Deep Healing to Be Done with Narcissists, Bullies, and Martyrs

It’s time to set ourselves free! Humanity can be done with the abusive personality types forever. How? By not waiting for other people to do what we wish they would! You have your own way of doing everything to keep you safe. You don’t need anyone else’s permission to live the way you want to live. You have the divine creator Source inside of you as much as it is everywhere else. All of humanity’s suffering is based on false negative beliefs that someone else must have the power, so victims wait while abusers hate, and no matter how much time goes by the false paradigm will never be true. Join us this Sunday Oct 12, 2025 for a free liberating look at just how weak negativity really is, and how powerful you are when you let yourself come alive.

We’ve all had experience with abusers, and it’s not because we did anything wrong to deserve the abuse. On the contrary, the foundation of life is that everyone deserves to be successful. The abusers want us to think that we’re hopelessly weak, so we’ll let them tell us what to think, feel, and do. There’s a whole negative version of life that keeps you negatively reacting to feed the negativity. So in that sense of taking the abuse you can do something wrong, but you’ve also already done something extraordinarily right. You just need to understand the purpose of your journey is to reclaim your true power. You came to Earth, congratulations! Oh gee, thanks. Yes, Earth is a planet of terrible suffering, more so than many places in the Universe. But Earth is also a planet of fantastic pleasures and prosperity, as seen in its many rich thriving ecosystems.

So how do we ensure we end up on the healthy fun side of life? Believe it or not, you can simply choose for yourself. Abusers fear the power of your own choice, because they know you would choose to leave them alone to their own misery. No need to feel sorry for them and stay any longer however, since they also have their own power to choose a better life. As they say, God doesn’t make mistakes. The Universe has already designed everyone to be totally successful forever. Solutions are always available from the present moment, so it’s simply not possible to get stuck or lost. This may be hard to imagine at the human level where we live in time and space to create story experiences for what’s true and what’s false. But the physicists and mystics both know that time and space are simultaneous projections from an eternal now. Whatever you need, the Universe has already had forever to plan the perfect solution for you. In fact, you would not even be able to imagine needing something if it weren’t already waiting for you.

Your needs and desires are signals that something wonderful is calling you. Your challenge is to believe that, no matter how good or bad things get, more happiness is always possible for you. Abusers don’t want you to think you can live without them, yet you always can. The secret to having your own happy path forward is mastering the belief systems that determine your emotions and reactions. Beliefs are the fundamental worldviews of consciousness, for how you think life works. You can’t expect and set goals for what you don’t believe is possible. Earth is a master class in belief systems, complete with plenty of positive and negative beliefs to try on. True positive beliefs show the goodness of life so you can be happy and thrive, while false negative beliefs tell abusive lies to make you give up and die. Your human self is built to seek happiness naturally, so by gathering your own experience and opinions you’re guaranteed to find your own way to live long and prosper.

For this meetup, recall some abusive people you’ve known, both near and far. What did they do or say that most upset you? Notice your reactions. Are you desperate for a way to stop them, as if their lifestyle choices must affect you? Can you imagine that you have your own choices to keep you safe? What helps you get back into your own values and gratitude? After some check-ins to share and relate, I’ll explain the origins of negativity as the non-path of no-self, in contrast to your own eternal life. We’ll see how false negative definitions of your emotions keep you separate from Source in four survival reactions of appease, freeze, flight, and fight. You’ll learn how to clear your own energy and separate your values from abusers. I’ll explain the negative personality types and how powerless they really are, then conclude with a guided meditation to reclaim your own desire to fully experience your own amazing human life.

Welcome! Our Inner Selves Mastery spiritual support group is free online every Sunday 11am-1pm EDT. You can signup here for this meeting, check www.meetup.com/Inner-Selves-for-Outer-Mastery for all events, and visit www.signupism.com for more quick links.

Best wishes,
Carl Johann Schroeder
Inner Selves Mastery
spiritual teaching and coaching
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