How To Value and Believe in Yourself More Than Society Can

Did you know that you are infinitely more valuable than you know? That may not sound logical, but it’s totally true! You’re a divine creator consciousness who is learning to become the Creator of your own Universe. In fact, you are the Universe experiencing itself through your perspective. That means you have eternity to discover and enjoy all of your limitless powers to make the most wonderful life for you and your friends. In divine timing there is nothing you can’t do! So why aren’t you getting the love and respect you deserve? Join us this Sunday, March 1, 2026 for a free liberating talk on how to value and believe in yourself so you can stop waiting for others to like and want you.

Not that there’s anything wrong with wanting to be liked and wanted by other people! It’s fine to be human; be proud! Human beings are social creatures who need to love and be loved in safe joyful communities. The problem is we won’t get there by waiting for somebody else. Creation starts with how we treat ourselves. This is good news! Your self-care is your control panel on the whole Universe. The law of attraction or resonance says the lifestyle patterns you set for yourself determine the kind of people and opportunities you meet. This is more than just having a subjectively good attitude to make the best of things. Different possibilities will objectively not even exist until you practice them in how you believe in yourself. “You can do it, my human being! I believe in you!”

Many people can’t accept the law of attraction for reasons that can get quite emotional. “Are you saying the world will fix itself around me if I learn to take better care of myself?” Yes! “That’s ridiculous and shameful! You’re just blaming me for all the problems!” But no, this is not about blame. Blame is what keeps people fearing punishments, so they’d rather react in survivalism than take responsibility, which only makes matters worse. The challenge is to master what I call the bathtub effect. Human emotions will keep escalating so long as we don’t know how to de-escalate. Each one of us is in our own Universe (bathtub) of energy that we keep stirring around. If you push out a lot of fear, anger, and blame, you’ll see a lot of fearful angry people blaming you back. People reflect and project each other. Life is a dance of synchronicity, not causality. That’s why Jesus said judge not lest you be judged (by yourself).

You see how this works in your own life; it’s not logical, it’s energy that grows until changed. You’re angry that you’re so angry, you’re so afraid that you’re still afraid. Primary unresolved emotions like hurt, fear, anger, and grief will compound into secondary emotions like depression, anxiety, guilt, and shame. Soon, the society that didn’t teach you how to run your own life has taught you to act dysfunctional and feel worthless. It’s hard to value yourself and believe in your dreams when you can’t get past your own emotional mess.

So then life goes on and people must cope to survive. The popular dysfunctions get normalized in failed paradigms like materialism and domination. Since your feelings are such a mess, your feelings don’t matter! Power is action, just get the job done. Do what you’re told or else you’ll get hurt. Now a violent society is not only failing to show you how to value yourself, it’s teaching that you are bad. People may be bullies and victims on the outside, but inside everyone is a victim of a system that makes them never good enough. Everyone who waits for someone else to appreciate them will wait and suffer forever. Only when we step in to love and appreciate ourselves, then everything changes. The more we value and believe in ourselves, the more we meet others who do as well.

For this meetup, recall your potentials for happiness that you still want to experience. What’s holding you back? Do you feel a lack of resources, wellness, opportunities, safety, confidence, ideas, energy? What if all of those come after you believe in your own value more? After check-ins to share and relate, we’ll study the human and spirit partnership we must heal in ourselves to choose our own life. We’ll see how false belief systems teach us to feel powerless and never good enough, until we get stuck on waiting for fellow needy humans to fill our own human needs. We’ll learn the secrets of self-esteem and self-worth to reclaim our our own Universe, and conclude with a guided meditation to let our higher self teach us how to thrive in the limitations of current society.

Welcome! Our Inner Selves Mastery spiritual support group is free online every Sunday 11am-130pm EST, with the last 30 minutes for a guided meditation. If you can’t stay you can get the recording. You can signup here for this meeting and visit www.signupISM.com for all events, newsletter, videos, and more.

Best wishes,
Carl Johann Schroeder
Inner Selves Mastery
spiritual teaching and coaching
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