How to Be Happy! Why Life isn't Fair So You Can Make It Fair

Most human beings are miserable today because they think life isn’t fair. And they’re right, life isn’t fair! Mean uncaring people are getting all kinds of success in destroying the planet, while the good kind folks remain deprived, neglected, and abused. The problem isn’t that nice people were meant to suffer. The challenge is to understand how NOBODY is created to suffer. You can get from the Universe whatever you need to be happy, as long as you don’t try to control other people’s choices. Control ruins everything by locking you in with exactly the kinds of people you’re trying to get away from.

This doesn’t make sense at first to those of us raised on good old negative Earth. Materialism says we’re already stuck with each other, so of course we need to stop bad guys from killing good guys. Killing is wrong! Unless you’re a good guy who must kill bad guys, then you’re good, right? Actually no. That’s called a justification for control from inconsistent internally conflicted belief systems that cause suffering. So how can we find happiness in a world that sells endless control by addictive rules and laws? Heck, even the most moral people scream golden rules and laws of attraction. No wonder human beings are control freaks terrified of each other!

Join us Sunday May 10, 2026 for fresh new perspective on how the Universe really works so you can finally set yourself free. You’ll learn the four ways that life is unfair so you can make it fair. You can consciously choose to live happily ever after and show others the way, just like the Universe knew that you eventually would.

You see, the Universe is a very generous wonderful loving place. So generous in fact that everyone is supported to do whatever they want. And that just makes our human ethics scream, for good reason of course. “What!? God will help people become horrible monsters who lie, steal, and kill?” TRIGGER WARNING: Yes! But remember, EVERYBODY can get whatever they want. So nobody has to get hurt if they don’t want to get hurt.

“Wait, are you saying I wanted to get hurt?” Of course not! Nobody in their right mind consciously plans to get hurt. So please don’t think this is about victim blaming; this is about victim empowering. We’ve all been hurt because we weren’t in our right minds. That’s “right” as in sensibly correct, not a political right of course. We all do well to see what we’re saying and what beliefs we imply. Inconsistent negative belief systems keep people unconsciously confused, so they vote against their own interests and expose themselves to all kinds of abuse. Predators will say who’s to blame (not themselves of course), so humanity gets herded, divided and conquered against itself.

Is this a conspiracy? Not exactly. It’s just how false belief systems work. If you know a snake is poisonous then you don’t cuddle with it. But if you don’t know - and worse, if someone tells you to pick up the snake - you can get really hurt. Negative people tell you to pick up the snake that’s already bitten them. People who like to lie, steal, and kill are leading you to their own doom in a pit of bad belief snakes. And because single-minded narcissists are so confident, their power can seem supernatural and worth following. Well sure, like a mentally ill sociopath is worth following if you want to become mentally ill too. The power of cruel people is just a dumb force of nature that you do well to avoid. True friends will show you which snakes are harmless and fun to play with.

“But if nobody wants to be a victim of abuse, and abusers are free to abuse someone, then who will their victims be?” Themselves! How? Forget human prisons and fallible laws, divine design is impenetrable. Imagine everybody gets their own tropical island where they can do whatever they want because it will only affect themselves. “Oh, well, I guess that would be ok…” That’s personal reality creation. Your life is always your own jail or paradise. Learn how to choose.

For this meetup, notice how your mind handles conflict between your own creation and creator sides. How does the creature in you that wants to feel good deal with the spiritual self that would like to believe you chose your own life? Do you feel trapped with others to blame and change? Or do you blame yourself and feel life is hopeless for you? We’ll look at the paradoxes of reality creation and why the world can seem so conflicted today. You’ll learn how to unravel the mess in the eternal time of your own higher self, so you can finally choose consciously the life you prefer.

Welcome! Our Inner Selves Mastery spiritual support group is free online every Sunday 11am-130pm EDT, with the last 30 minutes for a guided meditation. If you can’t stay you can get the recording. You can signup here for this meeting and visit www.signupISM.com for all events, newsletter, videos, and more.

Best wishes,
Carl Johann Schroeder
Inner Selves Mastery
spiritual teaching and coaching
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