The Best is Yet to Come! Heal Insecurities from Past Failure and Shame

The opportunities keep growing to heal permanently from the wounds of past failures that can make your own positive destiny seem out of reach. Negative thoughts and energy patterns will try to keep you feeling ashamed, helpless, and never good enough, but they simply aren’t true. You have the final say in your lifestyle. You can just get tired of feeling bad and quit the old choices that kept you stuck. Keep choosing instead to be the happy healthy creator of your own life, and you will learn the life lessons you need to thrive. Join us this Sunday May 17, 2026 for a free leading-edge talk on the deepest origins and highest solutions for the problems in your life, starting with the redefining of all problems as opportunities to grow consciousness. Become more aware of your higher self and soul family for the proof of a future that has always loved and guided you.

They say misery loves company, but you don’t have to agree as you seek better company. There are many false negative beliefs about how life works that society will offer you to join in its misery. When you agree to play your dramatic part in the struggle then you’ll be given a busy however miserable life. When you disagree with the suffering paradigm, you’ll face a lot of rejection and invalidation that can really hurt until you wean off that belief culture. Many spiritual people, and visionaries in general, feel unsupported, insecure, and even persecuted by a world that doesn’t want to improve. So why not let the past go? You’re told to fight for your dream or die in defeat. But in truth, the fight is the failure itself. If you really want to set yourself free, you must dig deeper beneath the culture of perpetual failure and hurt, until you can just quietly calmly walk away as a different healed person.

Negative emotions like hurt, fear, anger, and loneliness are only negative when they stay stuck. So of course, the negative culture teaches you to stay stuck rather than heal into positive emotional states. Negative depleting energy comes from negative beliefs that say your life is against you thus you need to fight back, which is depleting of course. Positive energy comes from positive beliefs that say your life is helping you, so you just need to pay more attention to feel inspired and great. Be mindfully guided by the Universe to learn the ways of energized love from your own higher self.

Your higher self is the greater You who has all the answers you’ll ever need to have a great life. If you knew that you’d always be successful forever with health and happiness to spare, wouldn’t you become a kinder gentler confident person? Of course you would! So obviously all the combative people who pretend to be so smart and powerful are really just being dumb and weak. Underneath the drama is the simple fact that human beings may have good intentions and then choose the wrong actions. The greatest triumph of negativity has been to convince people to use more negativity to fight negativity, which only keeps people habitually stuck in more false beliefs. When you understand how life really works, then you drop false belief habits automatically. People aren’t bad after all; it’s the beliefs that were bad. Shame is a lie that says you’re a broken failure. The truth is that as a consciousness seeking answers you will make mistakes, but you’re never the mistake.

For this meetup, think about where you have felt or still feel stuck and broken. Can you separate your ability to make a failure from your feelings of being a failure? You see, actually you are a success in creating that failure experience. You could use your emotions to identify exactly what you did and make different choices. When you end the negativity cycles in your assumptions and behavior, then you’ll see how to run your life differently. In the past you got yourself into complicated indirect failures that negative inner voices could shame you for. “Oh you’re so stupid, bad, wrong, hopeless, unliked, unlovable, embarrassing, unfit to exist, etc!” You have to catch these thoughts before they ruin your energy. You’re used to suffering the effects of negative thoughts unconsciously, but you could consciously disagree when they arise to get a great life instead. We’ll look at strategies for doing this, to convert negative to positive energy, and conclude with a guided meditation to choose the brighter tomorrow beginning today with your soul family in your own astral heaven of super happy fun energy.

Welcome! Our Inner Selves Mastery spiritual support group is free online every Sunday 11am-130pm EDT, with the last 30 minutes for a guided meditation. If you can’t stay you can get the recording. You can signup here for this meeting and visit www.signupISM.com for all events, newsletter, videos, and more.

Best wishes,
Carl Johann Schroeder
Inner Selves Mastery
spiritual teaching and coaching
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