Male Tribe - Hypergamy & Manipulation: Redefining What Women Really Want

Following conversations on the demise of Men, the family unit and a world with ever-growing distractions, we meet again to discuss a topic that crosses over with a variety of these topics. Are we oversimplifying what women truly want from men? In a society that often pushes blanket ideas about hypergamy and female nature, this discussion explores the complexities of modern dating, the flaws in ‘red pill’ generalisations, and how men can refocus on authentic strength, purpose, and self-worth—regardless of external validation.

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Agenda:
1. Introduction and Recap of Last Conversation (10 minutes)
2. Understanding Hypergamy: Fact, Fiction, or Outdated Concept? (15 minutes)
· What is hypergamy and where did it come from?
· Does it still apply this ‘western’ world?
· Has the ‘male provider’ concept become obsolete or just redefined?

3. What do Women Actually Want From Men? (15 minutes)
· Dispelling the myth of the universal woman – women can be placed in categories in terms of what they value.
· What role do values, purpose, and emotional maturity play in attraction?
· The modern masculine edge: strength and emotional depth.

4.Manipulation, Misdirection, and the Content We Consume (15 minutes)
· The dangers of over-consuming Red Pill, Black Pill, or pop-psychology narratives.
· Why ‘alpha vs. beta’ is a broken model for real-world relationships.
· How confusion breeds resentment – and how we move beyond it.

5. The Way Forward: Men of Value on Their Own Terms
· What does being a ‘high-value’ man actually mean today? Is there even such a thing as ‘high-value’?
· Anchoring yourself in truth: purpose, discipline, and your moral code.
· Focus on the internal win: not trying to be chosen, but choosing yourself.

N.B. the above is a guide, please ensure that you are respectful of others' opinions and do maintain a level of courtesy and confidentiality in these conversations. These meetups provide a safe space for Men to say what they wish to say without anything being personally directed towards others.

MONDAY 2 JUNE 2025 @ 8.30pm

If you are keen to attend, please RSVP and add a reminder so that you do not forget or keep attendees waiting.
Link for the Google Meet can be found on this page.
Thank you in advance and I look forward to seeing you on the call.
Curran Sareen