Male Tribe - Why Being "Nice" Is Often a Strategy, Not a Virtue
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Many men pride themselves on being "nice". But niceness is often misunderstood - and sometimes it hides approval-seeking, conflict avoidance, and covert contracts.
It is not about becoming aggressive or disrespectful but rather recognising when "niceness" becomes a mask for fear, passivity, or manipulation. It's imperative to replace this with rounded integrity and clear standards.The goal here is authenticity, not performance.
### What We’ll Explore
- The difference between kindness, agreeableness, and weakness.
- Approval-seeking vs principled behaviour.
- Hidden expectations in relationships and friendships.
- Why conflict avoidance erodes respect.
- How clear standards create trust and attraction.
### Who This Is For
Men who:
- Struggle with being overlooked or undervalued.
- Want stronger boundaries and clearer communication.
- Value honesty over approval.
### Who This Is Not For
- Justifying rude or selfish behaviour.
- Blaming others for lack of assertiveness.
- Refusing to examine personal patterns.
Niceness seeks approval but character earns respect.
Wednesday 15th April 2026 @ 8.30pm
If you are keen to attend, please RSVP and add a reminder so that you do not forget or keep attendees waiting. Punctuality is imperative.
Link for the Google Meet can be found on this page - once you have RSVP'd
Thank you in advance and I look forward to seeing you on the call.
Curran Sareen