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This meetup was formed to offer those who are interested in improving the quality of their romantic relationships a comfortable venue to talk about issues and gain feedback and support from each other.  We meet the first and third Saturday of each month, 11:45 AM to 1:00 PM, at The Water Garden Business Center, 23432 South Pointe Drive, Suite 130, Laguna Hills, CA  92653. The fee is $25.00 per group meting (payable via cash or check at the time of the meeting).  

As a psychologist in private practice for 17 years, I have worked with hundreds of persons with various types of relationship difficulties, most of whom were highly successful in other areas of their lives.  What I have commonly found is that people approach romantic relationships in ways not of their own conscious choosing.  Instead, it is our unconscious motivations -- of which we are seldom aware -- that often lead us to self-sabotaging and counterproductive tendencies and patterns.

Issues that we regularly address in group meetings include:

• Narcissistic and co-dependent dynamics 

• Communication breakdowns 

• Partner selection 

• Commitment

• Attraction 

• Gender roles 

• Conscious and unconscious communication 

Each group meeting consists of a brief presentation on a topic of interest that is then followed by a Q and A and open group discussion.  For more information, please contact me via phone (949-338-4388) or email (jt@jamestobinphd.com). 

James Tobin, Ph.D. 
Licensed Psychologist: PSY #22074 
5020 Campus Drive 
Newport Beach, CA 92660 
Phone: 949-338-4388 
Email: jt@jamestobinphd.com 
Web: www.jamestobinphd.com 

Disclaimer: Please note that this group and its contents are informational and didactic in nature. In no way is the group intended to constitute psychotherapy. Participants who would like to have their personal issues addressed in psychotherapy are encouraged to consult with Dr. Tobin for a referral to a licensed mental health clinician.