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We often spend an enormous amount of time trying to change people—explaining, persuading, accommodating, tolerating, hoping.

And most of the time, we call that effort love, loyalty, or patience.

This event is about doing something far more powerful:

Seeing the people in front of you clearly—and responding accordingly.
Drawing from three influential frameworks:

  • Let Them by Mel Robbins
  • Games People Play by Eric Berne
  • How to Choose a Man: A Criminologist’s Guide

we’ll break down why people repeat the same patterns, how manipulation and “games” actually work, and why your job is not to fix, rescue, or convert anyone—but to accurately assess them.

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## What We’ll Explore

### 1. The “Let Them” Principle (Mel Robbins)

  • Why letting people be who they are is not passive—it’s strategic
  • How resistance to reality keeps people trapped in unhealthy dynamics
  • The difference between acceptance and self-abandonment

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### 2. Games People Play (Eric Berne)

  • What psychological “games” actually are
  • How people unconsciously repeat scripts for power, validation, or control
  • Why clarity ends games faster than confrontation

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### 3. Criminal Profiling & Relationship Vetting

  • How to observe behavior instead of believing narratives
  • Why patterns matter more than promises
  • How people reveal their character under pressure, not comfort

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### 4. The Urge to Change People

  • Why the desire to “help” often masks discomfort with reality
  • How trying to change someone keeps you emotionally invested longer than you should be
  • When effort is growth—and when it’s avoidance

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## Key Takeaways

You don’t need better communication with the wrong people.
You need better recognition.
This event is about:

  • Reducing confusion
  • Ending emotional games
  • Building relationships based on reality, not hope

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## Event Format

  • 45–60 minute presentation (frameworks, examples, profiling insights)
  • 60–90 minute open Q&A + group discussion
  • Optional post-event networking & Patreon continuation discussion

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## Who This Event Is For

  • Anyone tired of repeating the same relationship patterns
  • People who feel “confused” after interactions with certain individuals
  • Those who want clarity without cynicism
  • Anyone ready to stop negotiating with reality

## Final Thought

When you stop trying to change people, you start seeing them.
And when you see them clearly, your decisions get easier.

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