Welcome to Freud meets Marquis De Sade!

We currently run a nonmono group (for 11 years) and a play party group (since about 2003). We've had a number of professionals in the groups over the years such as therapists, teachers, doctors, and others that are concerned with dual relationships. Due to concerns around sensitive occupations wanting to explore sexuality and kink, this group is meant to help address that. The idea is that we can have a smaller group of thoughtful folks interested in challenging their inhibitions and enjoying contact and sensuality while having control over who is in the group and who knows who is in the group.

I'm Coby, He/Him, I'm a sadistic Daddy Dom, ADHD, eternally curious engineer by nature fellow with a penchant for forming communities who is currently pursuing his masters in clinical counseling after two careers in bioinstrumentation R&D engineering and investment account management. My nesting partner and co-organizer of this group is Kim, She/Her, with a MA in MFT and most recently completing an associates in plant stuff. We are both fascinated by psychology, love relationships, enjoy fostering others growth, and are kinky.

This group is brand new and subject to change as we hone in on what all of us would like it to be. Participation and input from the members is not only welcome but invited; I'd love this to be a group effort in creation. For events we'll do both socials and play parties.

We have a play space on the main floor, and a well equipped dungeon/playroom for kink.

Partners are welcome and everyone has right of refusal for new folks coming in. More on that later.

Consent and privacy are critical; do *not* reveal who is in the group outside the group.

There's more to come; but for now welcome and we look forward to meeting you!

Freud meets Marquis de Sade

Events

February 2026