40+ SINGLES SUMMER MIXER | MELANCHOLY

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40s Single Summer Mixer tickets
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THURSDAY X MELANCHOLY: 40+ SINGLES SUMMER MIXER
Just a bar, everyone single. Because the world in 2026 is all about meeting IRL, not on dating apps!
✨ Welcome to Melancholy ✨
Step into Melancholy, a niche wine and cocktail bar in the heart of Salt Lake City—and the newest venue we’re bringing into our singles‑night lineup for the very first time. With natural wines you won’t find anywhere else in Utah, seasonal craft cocktails, and a space layered with vintage design and warm, textured ambience, the vibe is intimate, curated, and effortlessly cool. Whether you’re sipping something rare, settling into the cozy glow, or meeting someone new in a space made for slowing down and savoring, Melancholy sets the perfect backdrop for connection with character.
🌟Date by Shape Activity🌟
-📝 Take the 12 Shapes assessment when you arrive
-🔍 It’s not a personality test, it's a behavior profile based on your Values + Fears
-🧠 An expert will break down each Shape and explain relationship dynamics
-🤝 You’ll be matched with people who share similar behavioral drivers
-🔬 Built on Axiology, the science of how humans value the world
-✨ This insight changes how you see yourself, and how you connect with others
🌟NEW FREE Pre-Event Prep Session🌟
Want to walk into the event feeling prepared instead of just hoping it goes well?
This free 30‑minute pre‑event session gives you a clear, low‑pressure preview of what to expect. It's perfect for first‑timers and returning guests who want to get even more out of the experience. Everyone attending the event will receive a Google Meet link a day before the event to your email that you signed up with, please make sure to check your spam (Plan for Thursday June 4th in the afternoon, exact date and time will be added HERE soon).
To keep things comfortable and relevant, we’ll likely host separate male and female sessions. There’s zero pressure to turn your camera on, this session is not mandatory, and it's not a sneak people of who will be attending. It’s simply an optional resource to help you feel more confident walking in to help you get the most out of the event itself.
You'll walk in, the day of the event, feeling:
-More confident approaching new people
-Less awkward starting conversations
-Better prepared for real connection
-More aware of how you come across to others
-More relaxed before the event even begins
-Ready to get more value out of every interaction
We’ll cover practical, real‑world connection skills:
-First impressions that actually land
-Conversation dynamics that feel natural
-How your outfit shapes perception
-Icebreakers that don’t feel forced
-How to recognize different connection styles
-A preview of the 12 Shapes system so you know who you naturally click with
Think of it as backstage access before the main event — a quick, supportive warm‑up that helps you walk in with clarity, confidence, and a plan.
✨ Event Details ✨
📍 Melancholy, Salt Lake City
⏰ 6-9PM Please aim to arrive by 6!
💖 Ages 40+
🪪 PHYSICAL I.D. REQUIRED. State-issued ID or passport only
🪩 Date by Shape event
🍸 Drinks available for purchase
✨ Venue is ADA Accessible
🥰 Many attendees (40%) come by themselves, so even if you’re the only single in your friendship group, don’t hesitate to join us solo. You’ll find yourself in great company.
✨ Ticket Info below!
$22 early bird
$26 general admission tickets
$31 at the door IF we have capacity – do not purchase with out asking to ensure you’re allowed in!
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