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International Student Exchange Talkspace
Meet other local people interested in Language Exchange: share experiences, inspire and encourage each other! Join our Shanghai Language Exchange group.
Do you speak Spanish🇪🇸, French🇫🇷, German🇩🇪, Hebrew, Portuguese🇵🇹, Italian🇮🇹, Russian🇷🇺, Japanese🇯🇵, Korean🇰🇷, Chinese🇨🇳, Arabic🇦🇪 or English🇬🇧🇺🇸?Practice your Spanish, French, German, Hebrew, Portuguese, French, Italian, Russian, Japanese, Korean, Chinese, Arabic, and English
All language levels are welcome!
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📆Saturday 【周六】
🟢 International Students Talkspace留学生交流会🟢
🎟#小程序://互动吧/Sl7QHUqQbsY1pHC
⏰:19:00-22:00 【Saturday】
🏠: 复旦科技园副楼一楼
📍Fudan science park
▶️location video guide: [https://maps.app.goo.gl/bmf1TkzZ45SUR2nX8](https://maps.app.goo.gl/bmf1TkzZ45SUR2nX8)
🎫:Early-bird: 35 RMB = 5$ 【set going before 】
normal 40 RMB = 6$
At the Door 50RMB = 7$【At the door buy 】
#公众号:说会英语
#视频号:说会英语
#小程序://互动吧/h1LX5oWSDmgO10v
#小程序://微博/H1VOJN21MjI0Tjx
#公众号:说会英语
#视频号:说会英语
#[小红书:说会英语](https://www.xiaohongshu.com/user/profile/5f2ccb430000000001000244)
Talkspace help visitors, international friends, business professionals, and newcomers integrate into local life, explore local culture, and build language and emotional connections.
Breaking language barriers · Creating spaces for dialogue.
Through cultural exchange and interactive communities, we connect the world, helping people quickly integrate into new cities and experience authentic local culture. By combining linguistic, physical, and cultural spaces, we promote both cultural development and individual growth.
Entrepreneurs Freelancers 创新创业交流
Meet and connect with other solo entrepreneurs who understand the unique challenges and rewards of running a business single-handedly
结识并联系其他独立创业者,他们了解独自经营企业的独特挑战和回报
Whether you're just starting out or have been on this journey for a while, our gathering is designed to provide you with valuable connections, insights, and resources. You'll have the chance to:
无论您是刚刚起步还是已经踏上征程一段时间,我们的聚会都旨在为您提供宝贵的联系、见解和资源。您将有机会:
* **Meet and Mingle:** Engage with fellow solo entrepreneurs from various industries. Share your stories, challenges, and triumphs in an environment that understands the solo journey.
* **Learn from Experts:** Hear from experienced entrepreneurs and industry experts who will offer actionable advice on key topics like time management, scaling your business, and building a personal brand.
* **Explore Collaboration Opportunities:** Discover potential collaborations and partnerships that can help expand your business, diversify your offerings, and reach new markets.
* **Boost Your Business Visibility:** Showcase your business, products, or services and gain visibility among a community that’s eager to support fellow entrepreneurs.
This networking event isn’t just about making connections; it’s about building a community of solo entrepreneurs who can grow and succeed together. Come, be a part of this empowering experience, and take your solo business to new heights!
**Who Should Attend:**
* Solo Entrepreneurs
* Freelancers
* Startup Founders
* Consultants
* Small Business Owners
* Creative Professionals
* Digital Nomads
* Aspiring Entrepreneurs
* Side Hustlers
* Business Coaches and Mentors:
🟩Please set(RSVP) You're going! We'll as you get early-bird ticket
🎫:Early-bird: 40 RMB = 6$
normal 50 RMB = 7$
At door 60 RMB = 8$
**豆瓣主办方** Douban version — RSVP there too:
[https://site.douban.com/307201/](https://site.douban.com/307201/)
手机(同微信号)Phone Number (Same for): +8617317121983
WhatsApp/WeChat:17317121983
活动地址:复旦科技园1楼
Weekend drink and mingle @ Calypso lounge
小酌消烦暑,人间正清欢
周末的时光,不应该空白!
炎炎夏日 | 微醺才是打开盛夏的正确方式
遇见·城市部落诚挚的邀请您参加:
和新老朋友一起假期小酌,邂逅漫时光。酒到微醺,开启夏日的时尚社交!
邀清风作陪,与明月对饮
这一刻,是独属于你的微醺!
时间:晚7:30-10点
地点:Calypso地中海酒廊
报名费含指定鸡尾酒或葡萄酒,啤酒一杯
Meetup Citywalk invite you to join our Holiday drink & mingle with fellows at Calypso Lounge this Saturday evening.
Meet and mingle with fellows, enjoy a drink or two and have fun! Don't be afraid to come alone. You'll make new friends quickly. See you there!
Ticket price RMB 68 including one drink(Cocktail or wine, beer)
Saturday Shanghai Board Games in Fudan University Science park
Connect with fun-loving, young-at-heart single players (ages 20–45) at a relaxed, board games-inspired evening.
Talkspace help visitors, international friends, business professionals, and newcomers integrate into local life, explore local culture, and build language and emotional connections.
Talkspace 帮助新到一个城市的旅游者、出差者、工作者能够更加快速的融入到这个新的城市和了解更加地道的当地文化。致力于帮助个人培养语言、沟通能力。建立人与人的语言链接与情感链接空间。
目前我们已经在中国6个城市 组织社群语言活动
🇳🇱🇦🇷🇬🇭🇿🇦🇧🇩🇫🇯🇦🇪🇷🇺🇵🇦🇯🇲🇵🇪🇵🇷🇹🇷🇬🇷🇺🇦🇦🇿
🍹🍻🥤🧉🍹🥤🥂🍇🍒
现场也会有一些零食和水果
There will also be some snacks and fruits available.
🎫:【All Tickets Includes One Drink】
STUDENT学生票¥30 【Show Us your Student Card or ID】
EARLY BIRD早鸟票¥40 = 6$ 【set going On meetup before is early bird 】
REGULAR 预售票¥50 = 7$
AT DOOR现场票¥60 = 8$【At the door buy 】
🍹🍻🥤🧉🍹🥤🥂🍇🍒
📆Saturday 【周六】Fudan Discount ticket特惠¥ 25 only tonight
🟢Talkspace International Students Language Exchange 复旦同济留学生交流会🟢
⏰:19:00-22:00 【Saturday】
🏠: 复旦科技园副楼一楼路演大厅
📍No 11, Guotai Road,Yangpu District, Shanghai
WeChat:17317121983
WhatsApp:+8617317121983
[https://wa.me/8617317121983](https://wa.me/8617317121983)
[https://maps.app.goo.gl/bmf1TkzZ45SUR2nX8](https://maps.app.goo.gl/bmf1TkzZ45SUR2nX8)
ShanghAI AI — 参加 #1 上海最佳活动 — Join #1 Top Best Event Talkspace
▶️ What we do / 我们聊什么?
我们不仅有AI活动 还有AI 茶话会 AI路演 还有复旦 大学创业 AI 项目展示
We meet to talk about AI and its impact on daily life and business(人工智能如何影响我们的生活和商业).
Instead of worrying about being replaced by AI,我们一起探索:
How to benefit from AI, not be replaced by it (如何用好 AI,而不是被它取代)
Fun side projects, startup ideas, and real use cases
Tools, prompts, agents, automation… anything AI
▶️ Open, casual, for everyone / 轻松开放,欢迎所有人
Every Saturday 7:30pm, Anyone is welcome to:
give a short talk or demo(欢迎闪电分享 / 小分享)
share a story or idea about AI
or just come, listen, and chat over coffee
无论你是开发者、创业者、学生、设计师、投资人,还是刚开始对 AI 好奇,这里都有适合你的位置。No prior AI background required.
🏠: 复旦科技园副楼一楼
📍Fudan science park
▶️location video guide: [https://maps.app.goo.gl/bmf1TkzZ45SUR2nX8](https://maps.app.goo.gl/bmf1TkzZ45SUR2nX8)
🎫:Early-bird: 35 RMB = 5$ 【set going before 】
normal 40 RMB = 6$
At the Door 50RMB = 7$【At the door buy 】
#公众号:说会英语
#视频号:说会英语
#小程序://互动吧/h1LX5oWSDmgO10v
#小程序://微博/H1VOJN21MjI0Tjx
#公众号:说会英语
#视频号:说会英语
#[小红书:说会英语](https://www.xiaohongshu.com/user/profile/5f2ccb430000000001000244)
WeChat:17317121983 【Please be sure to add us to get the latest information】
Language Exchange - YouTube
🔴Facebook group:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/languageexchangeshanghai
🔴Whatsapp group which you can join here:
https://chat.whatsapp.com/BRscBnmLynICxeOQycSvWq
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Networking Mixer cocktail Party
Every Saturday night Cocktail Party
Well, i don’t update the information due to too many platform that i’m posting
So check the newest information
From m
1. #小程序://快团团/KeQWRGFayeYtG2z
2. #小程序://快团团/ZS0pi1NMXk5arjo
One of the two links are the newest
40~60 people every time Language Exchange& Social Party
小红书RedBook: TomEvents.
微信公众号wechat offical account: TomEvents.
wechat:lzy9138
First i should let you know That our Time and location could be changing from Time to time,sometimes we don’t update the information here in meetup, so pls add my wechat:Lzy9138 to confirm before you come, I’ll also add you in our wechat group where you ‘ll get the latest notifications
Hi There,
Welcome to our language exchange party
Our Event is devided into 3 parts.
1.Get your drink, grab a seat, and free talk
2.Hosting Part.(Ice-breaking Game,Lucky Draw etc.). Within half an hour.
3.Networking, Board Games, Industry Exchanges and mingling.different areas will be set, everyone Stand up, hold your drink and move freely~
About 1.5 hour
**How does it work:**
A. Done RSVP on meetup & payment before coming over
B. Use wechat to scan our QR code to check in & get a bracelet
C. Get your first free drink.
D. Grab a seats and follow the flow.
**Costs & Payment methods :**
**Online on WeChat mini-program 快团团**
Ticket Price Varies from ¥39.9-78
若想获得活动通知 最新照片,或其他疑问欢迎加 管理员微信入群:
**Tom-WeChat:lzy9138**
**小红书/微信公众号:上海英语角TomEvents**
周六活动:
@活动时间Time: 每周六下午Every Saturday afternoon 3-6pm
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免责声明:
本活动本着自愿参与的原则,参加活动者视为具有完全民事行为能力的人(18岁以上公民),对于任何原因造成的人身财产等一切伤害和损失完全自行负责,活动主办方不承担任何责任。所有现场参加者默认同意并接受本声明!
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Communication Skills Events This Week
Discover what is happening in the next few days
Book club, 《《Why Men Love Bitches》Languanage exchange and mingle
交流无国界,友谊亦无边,英缘际会,语挚情深, 欢迎参加2026年2月8日城市部落英文读书会,社交英语角 weekly Language exchange & bookclub meetup
Topic discussion主题讨论: **《Why Men Love Bitches》**中文译名:《“坏”女人有人爱》
✨**媒体评价**:
**"One of the ten most iconic relationship books of the past decade." --Yahoo News**
**Discover why men are attracted to strong, independent women with this straight-forward, accessible dating guide from New York Times bestselling author Sherry Argov.**
✨**畅销记录**:
**[#1]() INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER, NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER, TIMES OF LONDON BESTSELLER, TIMES OF INDIA BESTSELLER, LOS ANGELES TIMES BESTSELLER, and GLOBE AND MAIL BESTSELLER**
参加请扫码报名:
Venue: People Square in Shanghai 上海人民广场
Cost: 早鸟小红书转发分享活动公益免费,空降票50元/人,.
Date & time: Feb 8th 上午 10:00-12:3
Sherry Argov’s “Why Men Love Bitches” serves as a refreshing viewpoint on women’s relationships with men. The book dispenses advice on how to break from the cycle of being too accommodating in relationships. It challenges women to empower themselves and uphold their self-respect. Using humor and straightforward language, Argov clarifies the qualities of a “bitch”—a strong woman who knows her worth and stands firm in her identity. Focusing on relationship dynamics, she addresses the reasons men gravitate towards confident women instead of “nice girls.
💡**重新定义 BITCH**
书中赋予这个词全新含义:
**B.I.T.C.H = Babe In Total Control of Herself**
(完全懂得经营好自己的女性)
拆解来看,BITCH 可以是:
**B**rave · **I**ntelligent · **T**rendy · **C**harisma · **H**umorous
她并非真正意义上的“坏”,而是:
✅善良体贴,但不受摆布
✅独立自主,不牺牲自我
✅个性鲜明,赢得尊重
🔑 **“坏”女人吸引力法则**
* 保持独立,不围绕他转
* 不主动追求,保持神秘
* 重视自我价值与生活节奏
* 对身体与精神自律而珍视
* 保留空间,不咄咄逼人
* 思想独立,经济自足
* 温柔与坚定并存
💬**别急着“贤妻良母”。越容易得到越不愿意珍惜,人性如此。**
If you smother him, he’ll go into defense mode and look for anescape route to protect his freedom.A bitch gives a man plenty of space.
**保持自己的生活节奏,该锻炼的锻炼,该读书的读书,不要因为男人冷落了周围的朋友。盯着屏幕几个小时只为等他一条简讯一通电话毫无意义**。
Keep moving to your own rhythm.Live by your own rules.
**思想独立,财务独立,自尊自爱。**
Stand on your two feet financially.
Be an independent thinker.The most attractive quality of all is dignity.
**没有让你去做无坚不摧的女强人,请别忘了——温!柔!**
When you appear softer and more feminine, you appeal to his instinct to protect.
**别那么急着倾诉衷肠。问及前任,轻描淡写一句带过。唠唠叨叨让你不再神秘。偶尔聊聊相处感受,但注意频率和强度\~**
When you nag, he see weakness.Never pull out your guts on the first few dates.Never talk constantly.Keep cool and quiet.Talking about feelings to a man will feel like work.
“One of ‘The 10 Most Iconic Relationship Books of the Past Ten Years."
—Yahoo!
Do you feel like you are too nice? Sherry Argov'sWhy Men Love Bitches delivers a unique perspective as to why men are attracted to a strong woman who stands up for herself. With saucy detail on every page, this no-nonsense guide reveals why a strong woman is much more desirable than a "yes woman" who routinely sacrifices herself. The author provides compelling answers to the tough questions women often ask:
· Why are men so romantic in the beginning and why do they change?
· Why do men take nice girls for granted?
· Why does a man respect a woman when she stands up for herself?
Full of advice, hilarious real-life relationship scenarios, "she says/he thinks" tables, and the author's unique "Attraction Principles," Why Men Love Bitches gives you bottom-line answers. It helps you know who you are, stand your ground, and relate to men on a whole new level. Once you've discovered the feisty attitude men find so magnetic, you'll not only increase the romantic chemistry—you'll gain your man's love and respect with far less effort.
This book addresses the dynamics of modern relationships. Sherry Argov argues that men are attracted to strong, independent women. Instead of being a “doormat,” women can gain respect and love by valuing themselves and setting boundaries.
**An Overview of “Why Men Love Bitches”**
Sherry Argov’s “Why Men Love Bitches” serves as a refreshing viewpoint on women’s relationships with men. The book dispenses advice on how to break from the cycle of being too accommodating in relationships. It challenges women to empower themselves and uphold their self-respect. Using humor and straightforward language, Argov clarifies the qualities of a “bitch”—a strong woman who knows her worth and stands firm in her identity. Focusing on relationship dynamics, she addresses the reasons men gravitate towards confident women instead of “nice girls.”
**Understanding Men’s Behavior**
One central theme of Argov’s advice tackles men’s romantic behavior. Why do men often seem enamored at first, only to withdraw later? Argov claims that once they perceive a woman as a “sure thing,” they lose interest. Men are drawn to the hunt, frequently motivated by the challenge. She suggests that withholding certain intimate aspects initially can heighten his respect and interest. The book offers practical steps to maintain this intrigue. For example, the author recommends creating an air of mystery around feelings and availability. This doesn’t imply manipulation; it’s about being genuine while developing a healthy balance of interest. The advice also includes classic tricks, like introducing playful teasing to defuse tension during awkward moments, keeping the relationship exciting and vibrant.
*Why Men Love Bitches explores the dynamic of modern dating, shedding light on why independent and assertive women attract men more than those who are overly accommodating or submissive.*
*The book “Why Men Love Bitches” by Sherry Argov offers a fresh perspective into dating and relationships. The author breaks down the idea that many women mistakenly believe that being nice and overly accommodating will earn them the love and admiration of men. Instead, Argov argues that the opposite is often true. Men are attracted to women who exude confidence, independence, and assertiveness. This book emphasizes the importance of self-respect and self-worth in relationships, guiding readers toward fostering a personality that commands respect and attracts quality partners.*
*Why Men Love Bitches* (WMLB) has completely reshaped how woman approach relationships. In this fun & engaging read by *New York Times* bestselling author, Sherry Argov, women learn about the importance of standing your ground, knowing who you are, and holding your own in a relationship. Argov shares advice & stories that highlight the value of being a “bitch” in a relationship.
This book separates women into one of two categories: a nice girl vs a bitch.
A**“bitch”** in this book is not the stereotypical bitch most people automatically think of. In this book, being a bitch means you are sassy and confident. You are kind, yet strong and never chase a man. If he doesn’t want you — that’s fine, you don’t want him.
The**nice girl** is someone who gives too much and doesn’t receive anything back. She often overcompensates and will do anything to keep her man because she thinks she is nothing without him.
**The Balance of Independence and Togetherness**
This guide doesn’t just criticize the overly nice; it offers hope, encouragement, and reaffirmation of one’s individuality. While the book prioritizes independence, Argov also emphasizes the importance of partnership. A relationship flourishes when both partners can be secure within themselves while still supporting one another. By communicating clearly and confidently, each partner should celebrate the other’s space instead of monopolizing it. This balance deepens intimacy while simultaneously preserving individuality, which is the essence of healthy love. Argov completes her exploration of relationships by reinforcing a key takeaway. A happy woman is the most attractive person in the room. When partnered with someone who understands their significance, a woman becomes magnetic. Sherry Argov’s “Why Men Love Bitches” is an assertive manifesto that advises women to love themselves fiercely. Through this perspective, readers can harness confidence, self-love, and respect within love, ensuring that they are never seen as a mere doormat but rather as the queen of their life’s narrative.
阿尔戈列举了一般情况下分成两类的女人:乖乖女和坏女人。先不说什么是坏女人,来看一个典型的乖乖女—
♀对喜欢的男人象忠犬,招之即来挥之即去;又象电视机,他想开就开,想关就关;
♀本来周末已有安排,对方一个电话过来,就扔下一切,驱车几十公里赴约;
♀对于从来不同意事先约好见面时间的男人也十分顺从;
♀没车坐机场巴士也要去接远道而归的男人;
♀为了捧红心上人的作品自己从零开始学做经纪人;
1、“坏“女人从不立刻回应男人的短信和电话,即使手机就在她手边。
对策:无需等待她的回复,忙你自己的事情,但一定要通过社交网络,展示你充实且美好的生活。实际上一直在监控你社交网络的她,总会忍不住想融入其中。这时候,你的手机就会响起短信提示音了。
2、“坏”女人不肯改变自己的既定行程,时常拒绝你的诚挚邀约。
对策:这并代表她不在乎你,反而恰恰证明她把你当男朋友,而不是“男闺蜜”。被拒绝后,请绅士的祝她既定行程顺利,并表示愿意等她的聚会结束后,开车接送她回家,这比请她吃晚餐更贴心。
3、“坏”女人让男人们感觉到,她爱自己胜过一切。
对策:收起你的玻璃心,她最爱自己并不代表她不爱你。每一个成熟的人都应该先学会“自爱”,然后才有资格去爱别人。让“坏”女人认识到你也是爱自己胜过一切,因为她喜欢懂得爱自己的男人。
4、“坏”女人不断声明,对于犯错的男人,她随时都会转身离去。
对策:离开并不等于不会回来,你无需因为害怕失去,而受“坏”女人摆布。你需要提前做好工作的是,让“坏”女人明白,你是一个能够独立思考的人,是非准则不由她一人决定。
5、“坏“女人从不让男人掌控自己,谁都不能独有她。
对策:这是“坏”女人在故意激发男人的征服欲,她深谙“得不到才是最好的”这个道理。你要配合她演好这出戏,然后给她最多自由的你,渐渐就成了她最不舍得离开的“牢笼”。
6、“坏”女人喜欢玩“一个耳光加一个糖豆”的游戏。
对策:“坏”女人会以有事为由,拒绝明晚与你约会,可当晚她又会临时告知你,她可以赴约。因为她盘算着,你会像个心爱玩具失而复得的小孩,对她感激不尽。这种情况下,你的正确回应是,告诉她你已经约好朋友一起去打球了。
7、“坏”女人好像能看穿你的小心思,你的情话总被她冷漠应对。
对策:在恋爱博弈中,人人都难免犯贱,聪明的“坏”女人早已洞悉一切。所以你不要刻意的去讨好她,不要把甜言蜜语挂在嘴边。有事说事,没事就闭嘴,是与“坏”女人交往的最好模式。
8、“坏”女人的床总是很难上,在楼道里就与你道晚安。
对策:做爱之前,男人糊涂,女人清醒;做爱之后,男人清醒,女人糊涂。承认吧,如果第一次约会时,“坏”女人就把身体给了你,你反而会担心更多。保持你的耐心,按捺你的欲望,当她缓缓解开睡衣的那一瞬间,你会发现等待是值得的。
9、“坏”女人从不做出承诺,让你倍感不安。
对策:“坏”女人是只狡猾的狐狸,她很会装聋作哑,虽然嘴上不说,但她心里和明镜似的。不要强迫“坏”女人做承诺,但你要主动向她做承诺。虽然表面上,她对此只会轻蔑一笑,但这只狐狸心里已经吃到了甜葡萄。
10、“坏”女人似乎并不需要你,你感觉自己可有可无。
对策:“坏”女人和你在一起,并不是因为她“需要“你,而是因为她“选择”了你,你们是平等的伴侣。因此,你无需主动给她什么,只需向她展示你可以提
**[#Redefine]() the word BITCH#**
**She maintains her independence.**
**She doesn't pursue him.**
**She is mysterious.**
**She maintains a sense of humor.**
**She places a high value on herself.**
**She is passionate about something other than him.**
**She treats her body like a finely tuned machine**
**Event schedule活动环节安排:**
本活动参与人群定位为上海工作和生活的喜欢英语、热爱交流分享的青年白领,
Other Schedule 其它环节:
Heads up words guessing欢乐猜词,
MBTI自我介绍 What is your personality,
Never have I ever我有你没有,
英文私董会 Mentor for each other.
British Parliamentary Mini Debate, 小型英式辩论会
话题抽签,即兴发言 Topic lucky draw
Free talk for networking自由社交英语
Welcome to our weekly booking reading sharing + British Parliamentary Debate, language & cultural exchange meetup event which focus on informal and fun way to meet new people and cultural discussion. All learning levels are welcome to join. We organize weekly events such as book reading sharing, language & cultural exchange, topic presentation, speech and debate. Embrace the opportunity to mingle with like-minded individuals who share a passion for English language learning, cross culture communication and meeting new friend
我们是一群热爱中外跨文化交流的年轻人,致力于连接拥有相同志趣的朋友,通过组织基于英语交流的多元化的趣味活动,认识一群热爱学习,挑战自己舒适圈的小伙伴,一起探索语言的无限可能!
Are you a bookworm looking for a fun group to discuss your favorite reads with?If you’re interested in meaningful discussions with fellow readers. Look no further and join us! Our book reading meetup is the perfect place for book lovers to come together, share their thoughts, and enjoy an engaging discussion with fellow readers. Our book club sharing session is a great way to engage in lively and friendly discussions, share insights, and meet fellow book lovers. Besides presentation and group discussion about the book of the week, our meetup also includes time to guess words, language games, free talking, mingling and socializing. As always, there's no pressure to have finished the book, we're just here for vibes. Our gathering is not about analyzing the book like a seminar, but more about connecting, sharing ideas, and enjoying a relaxed, social afternoon with fellow book lovers. Also, our discussion topics may go beyond the book, touching on a variety of themes and interes
放下手机,拒绝宅家。读有趣的书,见有趣的人,欢迎参加本周六城市部落英文读书会,英式辩论赛,用知识链接彼此,让思想碰撞出火花,遇见与你同频共振的朋友。新的一年,给自己的心灵来一场洗礼。遇见城市部落英文读书会欢迎所有喜欢思考,热爱阅读和分享,希望寻求生命里积极的改变的朋友到来。通过阅读分享来进行一场跨越语言与时空的相逢,让我们在繁忙的生活中寻得一片宁静又充满趣味的阅读天地。读书会有团队讨论和自由分享环节,请自由分享自己的观点和看法,也许你就能遇见灵魂的知音。期待与你相遇在知识的殿堂,共同开启一段美好的旅途
Frequently asked questions:
**Do I have to finish the book to attend**?
Not at all. If you plan to read or have read it, that’s great; if you haven’t touched it, you’re still more than welcome to join. Come and meet like-minded people and connect over the topic as well as the book.
**How can I contribute to the discussion if I haven’t read the book?**
The book is simply a conversation starter - our discussions often branch out into related themes, personal experiences and broader topics of interest. Our gathering is more about socialising and engaging in decent conversations with book lovers, rather than a formal seminar.
**Can I also discuss my own fav book or the book I recently read?**
Absolutely! Our gatherings are all about open conversations, and we’d love to hear your thoughts on any book that’s been captivating to you.
**Is this group open to everyone?**
Yes - this is a friendly and inclusive group, welcoming everyone regardless of gender, sexuality, or background. The event is designed to make it easy to meet and connect with fellow book lovers in our community.
**What if I'm shy about speaking in front of the group?**
No pressure! You're welcome to participate in the way that feels most comfortable for you. Whether you share your views or just listen, your presence is valued. A lot of people come alone - so don't be shy!!
This event will be photographed for promotional purposes. By purchasing a ticket you are consenting to the team using these pictures for our social media channels but you are able to withdraw your consent at any time during the event.
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Weekly badminton
Time : 14:00-16:00
Venue: Oriental Sports Center
Cost: RMB 55/person
After sign up, Please add the host wechat via hawk_cn
Citywalkers Group invites you to play some badminton games. Do you have your rackets ready? Let's have some smashing fun! Enjoy the badminton!
Build friendship.
Spread the happiness.
We arrange two courts for the two hours and most of us are social players to have fun.
Most of time is playing double. Please prepare your own racket and we will prepare feathers shuttlecocks.
Advance booking and prepaid are required and RSVP will stop after all availble spaces have been filled! Please add tour leader wechat: hawk_cn to register for this event.
Cancellation:at least 24hrs before the session start time. This will ensure fair access for everyone.
Ignoring RSVPs: Anyone with 2 no-shows (signed up but not played) will be de-prioritized for future sessions, meaning their RSVPs won’t be taken seriously.
Badminton is a very intense and high demanding sport, players with heart disease, high blood pressure and other physical condition that may hinder their performance are discouraged from joining.
You will need correct shoes and clothing. Please ensure that you stretch and warm up before and after sessions to prevent injury. Your are responsible for your own well-being and we and the sports facility representatives will not be responsible for any injury, stolen or damaged property or any other occurrences during our sessions.
《Why Men Love Bitches》 英文读书会 bookclub, Language meetup
交流无国界,友谊亦无边,英缘际会,语挚情深, 欢迎参加2026年2月8日城市部落英文读书会,社交英语角 weekly Language exchange & bookclub meetup
Topic discussion主题讨论: **《Why Men Love Bitches》**中文译名:《“坏”女人有人爱》
✨**媒体评价**:
**"One of the ten most iconic relationship books of the past decade." --Yahoo News**
**Discover why men are attracted to strong, independent women with this straight-forward, accessible dating guide from New York Times bestselling author Sherry Argov.**
✨**畅销记录**:
**[#1]() INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER, NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER, TIMES OF LONDON BESTSELLER, TIMES OF INDIA BESTSELLER, LOS ANGELES TIMES BESTSELLER, and GLOBE AND MAIL BESTSELLER**
参加请扫码报名:
Venue: People Square in Shanghai 上海人民广场
Cost: 早鸟小红书转发分享活动公益免费,空降票50元/人,.
Date & time: Feb 8th 上午 10:00-12:3
Sherry Argov’s “Why Men Love Bitches” serves as a refreshing viewpoint on women’s relationships with men. The book dispenses advice on how to break from the cycle of being too accommodating in relationships. It challenges women to empower themselves and uphold their self-respect. Using humor and straightforward language, Argov clarifies the qualities of a “bitch”—a strong woman who knows her worth and stands firm in her identity. Focusing on relationship dynamics, she addresses the reasons men gravitate towards confident women instead of “nice girls.
💡**重新定义 BITCH**
书中赋予这个词全新含义:
**B.I.T.C.H = Babe In Total Control of Herself**
(完全懂得经营好自己的女性)
拆解来看,BITCH 可以是:
**B**rave · **I**ntelligent · **T**rendy · **C**harisma · **H**umorous
她并非真正意义上的“坏”,而是:
✅善良体贴,但不受摆布
✅独立自主,不牺牲自我
✅个性鲜明,赢得尊重
🔑 **“坏”女人吸引力法则**
* 保持独立,不围绕他转
* 不主动追求,保持神秘
* 重视自我价值与生活节奏
* 对身体与精神自律而珍视
* 保留空间,不咄咄逼人
* 思想独立,经济自足
* 温柔与坚定并存
💬**别急着“贤妻良母”。越容易得到越不愿意珍惜,人性如此。**
If you smother him, he’ll go into defense mode and look for anescape route to protect his freedom.A bitch gives a man plenty of space.
**保持自己的生活节奏,该锻炼的锻炼,该读书的读书,不要因为男人冷落了周围的朋友。盯着屏幕几个小时只为等他一条简讯一通电话毫无意义**。
Keep moving to your own rhythm.Live by your own rules.
**思想独立,财务独立,自尊自爱。**
Stand on your two feet financially.
Be an independent thinker.The most attractive quality of all is dignity.
**没有让你去做无坚不摧的女强人,请别忘了——温!柔!**
When you appear softer and more feminine, you appeal to his instinct to protect.
**别那么急着倾诉衷肠。问及前任,轻描淡写一句带过。唠唠叨叨让你不再神秘。偶尔聊聊相处感受,但注意频率和强度\~**
When you nag, he see weakness.Never pull out your guts on the first few dates.Never talk constantly.Keep cool and quiet.Talking about feelings to a man will feel like work.
“One of ‘The 10 Most Iconic Relationship Books of the Past Ten Years."
—Yahoo!
Do you feel like you are too nice? Sherry Argov'sWhy Men Love Bitches delivers a unique perspective as to why men are attracted to a strong woman who stands up for herself. With saucy detail on every page, this no-nonsense guide reveals why a strong woman is much more desirable than a "yes woman" who routinely sacrifices herself. The author provides compelling answers to the tough questions women often ask:
· Why are men so romantic in the beginning and why do they change?
· Why do men take nice girls for granted?
· Why does a man respect a woman when she stands up for herself?
Full of advice, hilarious real-life relationship scenarios, "she says/he thinks" tables, and the author's unique "Attraction Principles," Why Men Love Bitches gives you bottom-line answers. It helps you know who you are, stand your ground, and relate to men on a whole new level. Once you've discovered the feisty attitude men find so magnetic, you'll not only increase the romantic chemistry—you'll gain your man's love and respect with far less effort.
This book addresses the dynamics of modern relationships. Sherry Argov argues that men are attracted to strong, independent women. Instead of being a “doormat,” women can gain respect and love by valuing themselves and setting boundaries.
**An Overview of “Why Men Love Bitches”**
Sherry Argov’s “Why Men Love Bitches” serves as a refreshing viewpoint on women’s relationships with men. The book dispenses advice on how to break from the cycle of being too accommodating in relationships. It challenges women to empower themselves and uphold their self-respect. Using humor and straightforward language, Argov clarifies the qualities of a “bitch”—a strong woman who knows her worth and stands firm in her identity. Focusing on relationship dynamics, she addresses the reasons men gravitate towards confident women instead of “nice girls.”
**Understanding Men’s Behavior**
One central theme of Argov’s advice tackles men’s romantic behavior. Why do men often seem enamored at first, only to withdraw later? Argov claims that once they perceive a woman as a “sure thing,” they lose interest. Men are drawn to the hunt, frequently motivated by the challenge. She suggests that withholding certain intimate aspects initially can heighten his respect and interest. The book offers practical steps to maintain this intrigue. For example, the author recommends creating an air of mystery around feelings and availability. This doesn’t imply manipulation; it’s about being genuine while developing a healthy balance of interest. The advice also includes classic tricks, like introducing playful teasing to defuse tension during awkward moments, keeping the relationship exciting and vibrant.
*Why Men Love Bitches explores the dynamic of modern dating, shedding light on why independent and assertive women attract men more than those who are overly accommodating or submissive.*
*The book “Why Men Love Bitches” by Sherry Argov offers a fresh perspective into dating and relationships. The author breaks down the idea that many women mistakenly believe that being nice and overly accommodating will earn them the love and admiration of men. Instead, Argov argues that the opposite is often true. Men are attracted to women who exude confidence, independence, and assertiveness. This book emphasizes the importance of self-respect and self-worth in relationships, guiding readers toward fostering a personality that commands respect and attracts quality partners.*
*Why Men Love Bitches* (WMLB) has completely reshaped how woman approach relationships. In this fun & engaging read by *New York Times* bestselling author, Sherry Argov, women learn about the importance of standing your ground, knowing who you are, and holding your own in a relationship. Argov shares advice & stories that highlight the value of being a “bitch” in a relationship.
This book separates women into one of two categories: a nice girl vs a bitch.
A**“bitch”** in this book is not the stereotypical bitch most people automatically think of. In this book, being a bitch means you are sassy and confident. You are kind, yet strong and never chase a man. If he doesn’t want you — that’s fine, you don’t want him.
The**nice girl** is someone who gives too much and doesn’t receive anything back. She often overcompensates and will do anything to keep her man because she thinks she is nothing without him.
**The Balance of Independence and Togetherness**
This guide doesn’t just criticize the overly nice; it offers hope, encouragement, and reaffirmation of one’s individuality. While the book prioritizes independence, Argov also emphasizes the importance of partnership. A relationship flourishes when both partners can be secure within themselves while still supporting one another. By communicating clearly and confidently, each partner should celebrate the other’s space instead of monopolizing it. This balance deepens intimacy while simultaneously preserving individuality, which is the essence of healthy love. Argov completes her exploration of relationships by reinforcing a key takeaway. A happy woman is the most attractive person in the room. When partnered with someone who understands their significance, a woman becomes magnetic. Sherry Argov’s “Why Men Love Bitches” is an assertive manifesto that advises women to love themselves fiercely. Through this perspective, readers can harness confidence, self-love, and respect within love, ensuring that they are never seen as a mere doormat but rather as the queen of their life’s narrative.
阿尔戈列举了一般情况下分成两类的女人:乖乖女和坏女人。先不说什么是坏女人,来看一个典型的乖乖女—
♀对喜欢的男人象忠犬,招之即来挥之即去;又象电视机,他想开就开,想关就关;
♀本来周末已有安排,对方一个电话过来,就扔下一切,驱车几十公里赴约;
♀对于从来不同意事先约好见面时间的男人也十分顺从;
♀没车坐机场巴士也要去接远道而归的男人;
♀为了捧红心上人的作品自己从零开始学做经纪人;
1、“坏“女人从不立刻回应男人的短信和电话,即使手机就在她手边。
对策:无需等待她的回复,忙你自己的事情,但一定要通过社交网络,展示你充实且美好的生活。实际上一直在监控你社交网络的她,总会忍不住想融入其中。这时候,你的手机就会响起短信提示音了。
2、“坏”女人不肯改变自己的既定行程,时常拒绝你的诚挚邀约。
对策:这并代表她不在乎你,反而恰恰证明她把你当男朋友,而不是“男闺蜜”。被拒绝后,请绅士的祝她既定行程顺利,并表示愿意等她的聚会结束后,开车接送她回家,这比请她吃晚餐更贴心。
3、“坏”女人让男人们感觉到,她爱自己胜过一切。
对策:收起你的玻璃心,她最爱自己并不代表她不爱你。每一个成熟的人都应该先学会“自爱”,然后才有资格去爱别人。让“坏”女人认识到你也是爱自己胜过一切,因为她喜欢懂得爱自己的男人。
4、“坏”女人不断声明,对于犯错的男人,她随时都会转身离去。
对策:离开并不等于不会回来,你无需因为害怕失去,而受“坏”女人摆布。你需要提前做好工作的是,让“坏”女人明白,你是一个能够独立思考的人,是非准则不由她一人决定。
5、“坏“女人从不让男人掌控自己,谁都不能独有她。
对策:这是“坏”女人在故意激发男人的征服欲,她深谙“得不到才是最好的”这个道理。你要配合她演好这出戏,然后给她最多自由的你,渐渐就成了她最不舍得离开的“牢笼”。
6、“坏”女人喜欢玩“一个耳光加一个糖豆”的游戏。
对策:“坏”女人会以有事为由,拒绝明晚与你约会,可当晚她又会临时告知你,她可以赴约。因为她盘算着,你会像个心爱玩具失而复得的小孩,对她感激不尽。这种情况下,你的正确回应是,告诉她你已经约好朋友一起去打球了。
7、“坏”女人好像能看穿你的小心思,你的情话总被她冷漠应对。
对策:在恋爱博弈中,人人都难免犯贱,聪明的“坏”女人早已洞悉一切。所以你不要刻意的去讨好她,不要把甜言蜜语挂在嘴边。有事说事,没事就闭嘴,是与“坏”女人交往的最好模式。
8、“坏”女人的床总是很难上,在楼道里就与你道晚安。
对策:做爱之前,男人糊涂,女人清醒;做爱之后,男人清醒,女人糊涂。承认吧,如果第一次约会时,“坏”女人就把身体给了你,你反而会担心更多。保持你的耐心,按捺你的欲望,当她缓缓解开睡衣的那一瞬间,你会发现等待是值得的。
9、“坏”女人从不做出承诺,让你倍感不安。
对策:“坏”女人是只狡猾的狐狸,她很会装聋作哑,虽然嘴上不说,但她心里和明镜似的。不要强迫“坏”女人做承诺,但你要主动向她做承诺。虽然表面上,她对此只会轻蔑一笑,但这只狐狸心里已经吃到了甜葡萄。
10、“坏”女人似乎并不需要你,你感觉自己可有可无。
对策:“坏”女人和你在一起,并不是因为她“需要“你,而是因为她“选择”了你,你们是平等的伴侣。因此,你无需主动给她什么,只需向她展示你可以提
**[#Redefine]() the word BITCH#**
**She maintains her independence.**
**She doesn't pursue him.**
**She is mysterious.**
**She maintains a sense of humor.**
**She places a high value on herself.**
**She is passionate about something other than him.**
**She treats her body like a finely tuned machine**
**Event schedule活动环节安排:**
本活动参与人群定位为上海工作和生活的喜欢英语、热爱交流分享的青年白领,
Other Schedule 其它环节:
Heads up words guessing欢乐猜词,
MBTI自我介绍 What is your personality,
Never have I ever我有你没有,
英文私董会 Mentor for each other.
British Parliamentary Mini Debate, 小型英式辩论会
话题抽签,即兴发言 Topic lucky draw
Free talk for networking自由社交英语
Welcome to our weekly booking reading sharing + British Parliamentary Debate, language & cultural exchange meetup event which focus on informal and fun way to meet new people and cultural discussion. All learning levels are welcome to join. We organize weekly events such as book reading sharing, language & cultural exchange, topic presentation, speech and debate. Embrace the opportunity to mingle with like-minded individuals who share a passion for English language learning, cross culture communication and meeting new friend
我们是一群热爱中外跨文化交流的年轻人,致力于连接拥有相同志趣的朋友,通过组织基于英语交流的多元化的趣味活动,认识一群热爱学习,挑战自己舒适圈的小伙伴,一起探索语言的无限可能!
Are you a bookworm looking for a fun group to discuss your favorite reads with?If you’re interested in meaningful discussions with fellow readers. Look no further and join us! Our book reading meetup is the perfect place for book lovers to come together, share their thoughts, and enjoy an engaging discussion with fellow readers. Our book club sharing session is a great way to engage in lively and friendly discussions, share insights, and meet fellow book lovers. Besides presentation and group discussion about the book of the week, our meetup also includes time to guess words, language games, free talking, mingling and socializing. As always, there's no pressure to have finished the book, we're just here for vibes. Our gathering is not about analyzing the book like a seminar, but more about connecting, sharing ideas, and enjoying a relaxed, social afternoon with fellow book lovers. Also, our discussion topics may go beyond the book, touching on a variety of themes and interes
放下手机,拒绝宅家。读有趣的书,见有趣的人,欢迎参加本周六城市部落英文读书会,英式辩论赛,用知识链接彼此,让思想碰撞出火花,遇见与你同频共振的朋友。新的一年,给自己的心灵来一场洗礼。遇见城市部落英文读书会欢迎所有喜欢思考,热爱阅读和分享,希望寻求生命里积极的改变的朋友到来。通过阅读分享来进行一场跨越语言与时空的相逢,让我们在繁忙的生活中寻得一片宁静又充满趣味的阅读天地。读书会有团队讨论和自由分享环节,请自由分享自己的观点和看法,也许你就能遇见灵魂的知音。期待与你相遇在知识的殿堂,共同开启一段美好的旅途
Frequently asked questions:
**Do I have to finish the book to attend**?
Not at all. If you plan to read or have read it, that’s great; if you haven’t touched it, you’re still more than welcome to join. Come and meet like-minded people and connect over the topic as well as the book.
**How can I contribute to the discussion if I haven’t read the book?**
The book is simply a conversation starter - our discussions often branch out into related themes, personal experiences and broader topics of interest. Our gathering is more about socialising and engaging in decent conversations with book lovers, rather than a formal seminar.
**Can I also discuss my own fav book or the book I recently read?**
Absolutely! Our gatherings are all about open conversations, and we’d love to hear your thoughts on any book that’s been captivating to you.
**Is this group open to everyone?**
Yes - this is a friendly and inclusive group, welcoming everyone regardless of gender, sexuality, or background. The event is designed to make it easy to meet and connect with fellow book lovers in our community.
**What if I'm shy about speaking in front of the group?**
No pressure! You're welcome to participate in the way that feels most comfortable for you. Whether you share your views or just listen, your presence is valued. A lot of people come alone - so don't be shy!!
This event will be photographed for promotional purposes. By purchasing a ticket you are consenting to the team using these pictures for our social media channels but you are able to withdraw your consent at any time during the event.
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Stuckness as Protection
🚀What if feeling stuck isn’t a problem—but a powerful form of self-protection?
Feeling stuck is often seen as a failure or weakness, yet stuckness can actually serve as a powerful form of protection. In this MOTIVATE Community Sunday webinar, Stuckness as Protection, you’ll explore how feeling immobilized or uncertain can prevent impulsive decisions, emotional overwhelm, and unhealthy situations.
Led by Harald Bartisch, Coach/Consultant and NLP Master Practitioner, this session reframes stuckness as a meaningful pause—one that invites reflection, clarity, and balance. You’ll learn how stuckness can arise from fear, self-doubt, low self-esteem, or external constraints, and how recognizing its protective role can reduce frustration and self-judgment.
Through practical insights and NLP-informed strategies such as setting boundaries, gaining clarity, and seeking support, this webinar will help you move from stuckness to empowered, intentional action.
🗓️Join us on **February 8, 2025**, for the MOTIVATE Community Sunday webinar “**Stuckness as Protection**” with **Harald Bartisch**, Coach/Consultant and NLP Master Practitioner, as we explore how feeling stuck can guide meaningful change.
🎯 **Key Points / Takeaways for the Audience**
✅Stuckness is not always negative—it can be a form of protection that prevents rash decisions and supports reflection and healing.
✅Getting unstuck begins with identifying the true source of stuckness, whether it’s fear, self-doubt, protection, or external factors, and applying intentional strategies to address it.
🎯 **Additional Key Points / Takeaways / Benefits**
✅Stuckness as a signal: Learn to see stuckness as useful information rather than resistance or failure.
✅Boundaries restore balance: Discover how healthy boundaries reduce burnout and support forward movement.
✅Clarity creates momentum: Gain tools to clarify values and goals, reducing indecision and fear.
✅Small steps matter: Break overwhelm into manageable actions that rebuild confidence.
✅Support accelerates growth: Understand the role of coaches, mentors, and community in navigating stuckness effectively.
**ABOUT THE SPEAKER**🎤
Harald Bartisch has more than 30+ years of experience in engineering, industrial plant construction projects, thereof 20+ years in managing production companies, leading staff members in China.
Lately he decided to change his profession and work with people and touch people’s hearts, supporting them to move to the next level.
He is a Coach/Consultant/Advisor, NLP Master Practitioner and Elite Mentorship Trainer.
**CONTACT DETAILS**
**Email**: harald.bartisch@bbasci.com
**Wechat ID**: message3334
**Facebook**: https://www.facebook.com/harald.bartisch
**Website**: https://www.bbasci.com
⏰February 08, 2026 (Sunday), 1.5 Hour
5:00 PM GMT+8 China/Indo/PH
7:00 PM GMT+10 Brisbane
8:00 PM GMT+11 Sydney/Canberra
4:00 AM GMT-4 New York
10:00 AM GMT+1 Barcelona
📌For first-time attendees please scan the QR code on the flyer or click the following link to register and become part of our enriching live discussion, all at no cost: https://adriancahill.agilecrm.com/forms/6002900926529536
📌Zoom Link: https://zoom.us/j/86301571361
Log-in: 86301571361
Password: #motivate
🔗 Secure your spot and register now!
Weekend Language Exchange Talkspace
International Friends & Language Exchange Shanghai.
Mingle events - Meet people - Make friends - Speak languages
Join us and create strong connections with international participants while enriching your circle of friends.
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**小红书 搜: 说会英语**
公众号:说会英语
[Facebook:Shanghai Language Changers](https://www.facebook.com/ShanghaiLanguageExchange)
**WeChat:17317121983 【Please be sure to add us to get the latest information】**
[Language Exchange - YouTube](https://www.youtube.com/@ChinaLanguageExchange)
🔴Facebook group:
[https://www.facebook.com/groups/languageexchangeshanghai](https://www.facebook.com/groups/languageexchangeshanghai)
🔴Whatsapp group which you can join here:
[https://chat.whatsapp.com/BRscBnmLynICxeOQycSvWq](https://chat.whatsapp.com/BRscBnmLynICxeOQycSvWq)
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🕙时间:14:00\~16:00【每周 周日 节假日为假期最后一天】
🏠 F3, No.399 Nanjing West Road, Huangpu District Tomorrow Square, Shanghai:[南京西路399号3楼【机遇中心 X-Meta bar](https://maps.app.goo.gl/YVbhgLiUSnFyAoG6A)】
🎫费用: early bird 40 RMB On-site:50RMB
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Sunday Afternoon World Mates Meetup
Hi There,
60+ Expats, Tourists, and locals join us to make new friends, have fun and learn new things, stay in company and share views and opinions on different topics.
Don't worry about your language level or being new, Hosts will welcome you warmly at the venue and introduce you to a few other attendees so long as you come early. You'll soon feel at home!!
**We have our area booked for Meetup. Please ask the cafe staff for language Exchangers Shanghai, they will help you find us.**
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**Special thanks to our partners**
**HSBC,** a British [universal bank](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Universal_bank) and [financial services](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Financial_services) group headquartered in [London](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/London), England, with historical and business links to [East Asia](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/East_Asia) and a [multinational](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Multinational_corporation) footprint. It is the [largest Europe-based bank by total assets](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_banks_in_Europe), ahead of [BNP Paribas](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BNP_Paribas), with US$2.953 trillion as of December 2021.
**italki**, the global language learning platform offering 1-on-1 online lessons with qualified native-speaking teachers
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**How does it work:**
A. Done RSVP on meetup & payment before coming over
B. Show hosts ticket you bought to check in & get a wristband
C. Get your first free welcome drink, or order something else you’d love to have
D. Grab seats, make a self-introduction, start topics discussion,
and at 4:15 PM stand-up free networking chat
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**Costs & Payment methods :**
**Online on WeChat mini-program (Get ¥10 Refund on-site** if you RSVP on meetup)
**Female**
¥40 / person ( Only 15 Early bird Spots )
¥50 / person
**Male**
¥50 / person ( Only 15 Early bird Spots )
¥60 / person
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**At Door** ¥70/ person(all genders)
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Add **Eric's WeChat: 15026652832 to score tickets via WeChat Mini Program. Registration is valid after payment is made.**
\*\***All tickets include one free drink**.\*\* Refunds only if the event is canceled. Your credit will be switched to the very next event on the same day of next week once only if couldn't make the one which u already paid for
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**Check-in Time:** **3:00-3:30 pm,** (@Eric with a word of I’ll be late on group chat if u arrive during 3:30-4:00 pm, **Do Not accept any check-in after** 4:00 **pm**)
Plz don’t forget to update your RSVP to free up space if you can’t make it anymore, thanks.
**l Venue:** **TsingTao 1903 Beer Bar(Jing An Temple Branch)**
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**l Address:** No. 315 Yuyuan Rd, Jing’An District, Shanghai
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**l Subway:** **Exit 1 of Jing An Temple station of Line 2,7,14**
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**l Event Time: 3:00 - 6:00 PM** Every Sunday(Plz arrive on time or a bit early, leave anytime)
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We’d also love to know what you expect from this group, and what types of activities you’d be into. open to all propositions for the meet-ups activities
By participating in our events, you agree to be photographed and/or filmed. The photos and videos will be shared on our social networks
You may be removed from the group if rude, aggressive, harassing, or coming only to date
Any questions Just add **Eric's WeChat: 15026652832**
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If you would miss Saturday’s event, feel free to join our Friday (Link below)
https://www.meetup.com/language-exchangers-shanghai/events/
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Disclaimer:
Each person who participates accepts responsibility for making their own determinations and for their own safety, conduct, and well-being; recognizes that possibly attend activities, and agrees to participate solely at their own risk. The hosts shall not be held liable for any inconvenience, accidents, rescues, injuries, etc.
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感谢了解我们活动,如果你的英语已经达到能进行基本日常生活、工作交流水平,并希望持续保持活跃度,你就来对地方了。
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若想获得活动最新照片,或其他疑问欢迎加 管理员微信入群:
**Eric - WeChat:15026652832 或**
**小红书 搜 language Exchangers Shanghai**
周日活动:
@活动地点: TsingTao 1903 (愚园路店)
@活动地址: 上海市静安区愚园路315号1楼103室
@活动时间: 每周日下午3:00-6:00(可提前5-10分钟到场,随时离场)
@交通方式: **2,7,14 号地铁 到 静安寺 地铁站下 从1号口出 步行5分钟**
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免责声明:
本活动本着自愿参与的原则,参加活动者视为具有完全民事行为能力的人(18岁以上公民),对于任何原因造成的人身财产等一切伤害和损失完全自行负责,活动主办方不承担任何责任。所有现场参加者默认同意并接受本声明!
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欢迎参加周五晚场次(链接如下)
https://www.meetup.com/language-exchangers-shanghai/events/
Communication Skills Events Near You
Connect with your local Communication Skills community
Public Speaking and Communication Skills
Our next club meeting is on Sunday will start at 2:15, please join early. if you're coming in-person, parking is free and usually ample at the Community College on Sundays, and most of us park where the spaces are designated for staff and have never had a problem.
👉 Everyone is welcome to join our meeting, participate and practice. You'll get a chance to hear our club members speak and then have an opportunity to play the table topics game.
**Agenda for the Meeting:**
1. Warm Up
2. Prepared Speeches (By club members)
3. Table Topics Game (Learn to think on your feet)
4. Feedback
**Online - Join us via Zoom**
https://us05web.zoom.us/j/86218205188
If you haven't used Zoom before, watch this short video on how to join our meeting - https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=45&v=vFhAEoCF7jg
**In-Person** **\- Join us at Montgomery Community College**
Meet us at Science Building, room SC 152. The room is located on the ground floor.
The exact building address is https://goo.gl/maps/ZEgQH7bKLvzdqtSQ9
For help, please text or call, 301-917-4202.
Public Speaking and Communication Skills
Our next club meeting is on Sunday will start at 2:15, please join early. if you're coming in-person, parking is free and usually ample at the Community College on Sundays, and most of us park where the spaces are designated for staff and have never had a problem.
👉 Everyone is welcome to join our meeting, participate and practice. You'll get a chance to hear our club members speak and then have an opportunity to play the table topics game.
**Agenda for the Meeting:**
1. Warm Up
2. Prepared Speeches (By club members)
3. Table Topics Game (Learn to think on your feet)
4. Feedback
**Online - Join us via Zoom**
https://us05web.zoom.us/j/86218205188
If you haven't used Zoom before, watch this short video on how to join our meeting - https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=45&v=vFhAEoCF7jg
**In-Person** **\- Join us at Montgomery Community College**
Meet us at Science Building, room SC 152. The room is located on the ground floor.
The exact building address is https://goo.gl/maps/ZEgQH7bKLvzdqtSQ9
For help, please text or call, 301-917-4202.
Public Speaking and Communication Skills
Our next club meeting is on Sunday will start at 2:15, please join early. if you're coming in-person, parking is free and usually ample at the Community College on Sundays, and most of us park where the spaces are designated for staff and have never had a problem.
👉 Everyone is welcome to join our meeting, participate and practice. You'll get a chance to hear our club members speak and then have an opportunity to play the table topics game.
**Agenda for the Meeting:**
1. Warm Up
2. Prepared Speeches (By club members)
3. Table Topics Game (Learn to think on your feet)
4. Feedback
**Online - Join us via Zoom**
https://us05web.zoom.us/j/86218205188
If you haven't used Zoom before, watch this short video on how to join our meeting - https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=45&v=vFhAEoCF7jg
**In-Person** **\- Join us at Montgomery Community College**
Meet us at Science Building, room SC 152. The room is located on the ground floor.
The exact building address is https://goo.gl/maps/ZEgQH7bKLvzdqtSQ9
For help, please text or call, 301-917-4202.
Club Meeting - In Person Component - Dolley Madison Library - Meeting Room #2
\*\*\* Note: Our Feb 10, 2026, meeting will be our semi-annual club speech contest. As a result, guests who attend will not experience a typical Toastmasters meeting. Guests are more than welcome to experience a speech contest. \*\*\*
At Toastmasters, we empower individuals to become more effective communicators and leaders. Our meetings provide a supportive and positive learning environment where members grow through prepared speeches, impromptu speaking (Table Topics), and constructive evaluations.
Whether you're looking to overcome your fear of public speaking, enhance your work communication, or develop leadership skills, you're welcome here. Guests are always invited to observe first. If you'd like to speak, we’ll ask before inviting you to participate - no pressure at all.
See how Toastmasters can help you build confidence, develop new skills, and connect with a community focused on growth.
Club Meeting - In Person Component - Dolley Madison Library - Meeting Room #1
At Toastmasters, we empower individuals to become more effective communicators and leaders. Our meetings provide a supportive and positive learning environment where members grow through prepared speeches, impromptu speaking (Table Topics), and constructive evaluations.
Whether you're looking to overcome your fear of public speaking, enhance your work communication, or develop leadership skills, you're welcome here. Guests are always invited to observe first. If you'd like to speak, we’ll ask before inviting you to participate - no pressure at all.
See how Toastmasters can help you build confidence, develop new skills, and connect with a community focused on growth.
Club Meeting - In Person Component - Dolley Madison Library - Meeting Room #2
At Toastmasters, we empower individuals to become more effective communicators and leaders. Our meetings provide a supportive and positive learning environment where members grow through prepared speeches, impromptu speaking (Table Topics), and constructive evaluations.
Whether you're looking to overcome your fear of public speaking, enhance your work communication, or develop leadership skills, you're welcome here. Guests are always invited to observe first. If you'd like to speak, we’ll ask before inviting you to participate - no pressure at all.
See how Toastmasters can help you build confidence, develop new skills, and connect with a community focused on growth.
Club Meeting - In Person Component - Dolley Madison Library - Meeting Room #1
At Toastmasters, we empower individuals to become more effective communicators and leaders. Our meetings provide a supportive and positive learning environment where members grow through prepared speeches, impromptu speaking (Table Topics), and constructive evaluations.
Whether you're looking to overcome your fear of public speaking, enhance your work communication, or develop leadership skills, you're welcome here. Guests are always invited to observe first. If you'd like to speak, we’ll ask before inviting you to participate - no pressure at all.
See how Toastmasters can help you build confidence, develop new skills, and connect with a community focused on growth.



















