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➡️➡️➡️ To register, [sign up on here](https://www.lewagon.com/events/from-bootcamp-to-production-what-changes-in-real-engineering-teams-O9kJLh) ⬅️⬅️⬅️ **Overview** Bootcamp vs real engineering teams: learn what changes in production, what managers expect, and how to succeed as a junior developer. **🚀 From Bootcamp to Production: What Changes in Real Engineering Teams** Ever wondered what really changes when you move from a coding bootcamp into a professional engineering team? This workshop pulls back the curtain on how software is *actually* built, shipped, and maintained in production environments. We’re excited to host Eu-Loong, past Le Wagon student and an Engineering Manager from Eightcap, who will walk students through the real-world differences between learning to code and working as a professional software engineer. **🎯 What This Workshop Is About** Bootcamps teach you how to build features. Real engineering teams focus on building systems that last. In this session, we’ll explore what changes when you step into a production engineering environment, from code quality and collaboration to ownership and decision-making. **🧠 What You’ll Learn** * How engineering work differs between bootcamps and real companies * What “production-ready” code really means * How teams think about: * Code reviews & pull requests * Testing, monitoring, and reliability * Technical debt and trade-offs * The role of communication, documentation, and teamwork * What Engineering Managers look for in junior developers * Common mistakes early-career engineers make, and how to avoid them **👩‍💻 Who This Is For** This workshop is ideal for: * Bootcamp students and recent graduates * Computer science students * Junior developers preparing for their first role * Anyone curious about how real engineering teams operate No advanced experience required, just curiosity and an interest in software engineering. **🏢 About the Speaker** Our speaker is a past Le Wagon student and Engineering Manager at Eightcap, a global fintech company, with hands-on experience leading real production teams and mentoring early-career engineers. They’ll share practical insights from the industry, the kind you don’t usually get in tutorials or coursework. **🗓 What to Expect** * Real-world examples from production teams * Honest insights (no buzzwords, no fluff) * Time for Q&A with the speaker * Actionable advice you can apply immediately **✅ Why You Should Attend** If you want to: * Feel more confident transitioning into your first engineering role * Understand what employers *actually* expect * Learn how to think like a professional engineer

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### **New Year, New You: Your First 2026 Bachata Class is FREE! 💃✨** Welcome to your first midweek rhythm of the New Year on Lygon Street! Are you looking to learn a new skill, meet great people, and reinvent your social life for 2026? Whether you are a "Level 0" beginner or a seasoned dancer looking for a friendly community, this is your new Wednesday home. **✨ THE "ZERO-RISK" FIRST STEP** Not sure if Bachata is for you? Come and see for yourself with no commitment! * **Your FIRST 6:30 PM Fundamentals class is 100% FREE!** * No partner needed and no experience required. * Just show up, meet the crew, and have fun. **⭐ THE RISING STAR MEMBERSHIP SPECIAL** If you love your first class and want to stick with your New Year’s goal, we have an exclusive offer for our community: * **The Deal:** Grab our **Rising STAR Membership Card** for just **$50**. * **What’s Included:** This card covers your next **7 classes**! * **Total Value:** That's just **$7.14 per class**. It is officially the best value dance deal in Melbourne! **📅 THE WEDNESDAY SCHEDULE** * **6:00 PM - 8:00 PM:** Happy Hour! ($9 beers, wines, and basic spirits). * **6:30 PM:** Bachata Fundamentals (Beginners) — **FREE for first-timers!** * **7:00 PM:** Bachata Improvers. * **8:00 PM:** Bachata Intermediate. * **9:00 PM – Late:** Social dancing & community vibes. 👉 **Book your spot here:** **📍 WHERE WE ARE** **Club O'Werri** (160-162 Lygon St, Carlton). Look for our check-in table at the entrance. We are the friendly group making a lot of noise and having a great time! **Why join us?** We aren't just a dance school; we are a community. Since 2018, we have focused on connection, laughter, and making sure everyone—especially solo beginners—feels welcome from the moment they walk in. **Come as you are, bring a smile, and let’s make 2026 your year of dance! 🥂**

Today's meetup is about the book Dianetics the modern science of mental health. Dianetics is the original Drug Free **mental health phenomenon** that inspired the entire self-help movement. It has been positively and **permanently transforming millions of lives** for over six decades. Dianetics is indisputably the most widely read and influential book ever written about the human mind. Learn about the previously unknown source of nightmares, unreasonable fears, anxiety, upsets, and insecurities which enslave Man. Find out what it is that commands one to act irrationally against your own wishes and goals. Dianetics helps you to set and reach your goals. Dianetics will help you reveal to you the one person you've always wanted to know - YOU Ask for Pam or Donavan .

This session is an invitation to people who would like to continue this meetup. The event will be a face to face, mainly social event with a view to Craig handing off stewardship to a new team of facilitators and contributors. \*\* Note; Venue change to Lanes Edge bar - beer garden part\*\*

Players of all skill levels are welcome to join us at Marché Board Games Cafe in the CBD for a casual night of mahjong - Right in the CBD. We'll start around 6:00pm till we all need to go home :) Our typical session concludes usually around 10:00pm. Please change your RSVP to not going if you're no longer able to attend, 24 hours prior the event. For those that have a record of non attendance without communicating, you will be moved to the waiting list for future events and be contacted directly to confirm that you indeed intend to turn up, at which you will be allotted a spot subject to availability. For more details on the rules of the game, please refer to: http://mahjongtime.com/hong-kong-mahjong-rules.html Marche has been kind enough to offer us a deal to play in their cafe. **⋆⋆⋆⋆⋆⋆⋆⋆⋆⋆ Cost ⋆⋆⋆⋆⋆⋆⋆⋆⋆⋆** Attendees who have registered for the event on Meetup can play at discounted rates, with the following payments to be made: * **$6 in total per session” to cover cafe costs. Payment of $6 should be made to Marche at the front counter upon notification to the staff member that you are here for the scheduled meetup. There is now no minimum spend on items at the cafe as there were before. The cafes menu can be found here https://mbgcafe.com.au/menu.pdf .

Easily Meet New People! Date: 7:00pm on Thursday the 29th of January. 🔹 What Makes This Different Curated guest list – balanced numbers, compatible age range, and a focus on quality over quantity. Less awkward conversations and more quality speed dates! No pressure, no games – just genuine conversations in a comfortable setting **Click below to Be Matched (limited places)** https://www.eventbrite.com/e/personalised-speed-dating-tickets-1980844386884?aff=ebdsoporgprofile 🔹 How It Works You’ll meet 8–12 potential matches in a relaxed, hosted format Each conversation lasts 8 minutes — just enough to gauge a spark After the event, you privately indicate who you’d like to see again Matches are only shared when interest is mutual 🔹 Who This Is For People aged 25–40 People who are wanting to pre-filter the kind of person they speed date Those who prefer real conversations over endless messaging 🔹 Event Details 📍 Venue: Father’s Office QV Little Lonsdale ⏰ Duration: \~90-120 minutes 🍸 Drinks available at the bar throughout 👥 Limited spots to maintain quality and balance Special Offer: Free drink for first 5 to register!

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Welcome to Elixir Melbourne's monthly meetup. Where we go over Elixir ecosystem news, listen to great talks, and socialise with other Elixir developers of all levels. We’re rebooting the meetup after a hiatus with new (and old) organisers, a new venue and emphasis on more time to socialise. There are still speaking spots open. If you want to talk about anything Elixir related, get in touch. **Agenda** * 6:00pm - Arrive, socialise * 6:30pm - Welcome; introduction; “who’s hiring” pitches. * 6:45pm - Nathan Yam (title TBC, but about $callers handling) * 7:15pm - Food, socialise * 7:45pm - Maybe another talk (speaking spot open!) * 8:15pm - Finish up and head to Saint & Rogue (down the street from SuperAPI at 582 Little Collins St, Melbourne) **Sponsor** Huge thanks to [SuperAPI](https://superapi.com.au/) for catering and venue.

**We’re back! 🚀** If you’re reading this, chances are you’re not just after small talk and swipes. We’re not products on a dating app. There are no algorithms here, just proper hellos and a bit of good old-fashioned eye contact. After some remodification, Slow Dating 2.0 is back after several requests! Thank you for your patience and support. It means a lot to us! 💞 If you never heard of us, no worries! We welcome new people and souls! 🐢 ### **💫 Who is this event for?** This session is thoughtfully curated for **singles aged 43–59**. We believe romance doesn’t belong to one age group — it evolves. With experience comes confidence, depth, emotional intelligence, and a clearer sense of what truly matters. This is dating for people who know themselves, value meaningful conversation, and are ready for connection that feels grounded and real. **GET YOUR TICKET HERE** 👉👉 👉\*\*[YOUR TICKET](https://www.eventbrite.com.au/e/prepare-for-valentine-slow-dating-age-43-59-collingwood-sunday-registration-1980803426370?aff=oddtdtcreator)\*\* 👈👈👈 ### **Venue Partner: Paradise Alley** We’re taking over one of Melbourne’s most **romantically lit and character-filled bars**. Think: * Warm, low lighting * Intimate lounge seating and cosy corners * A relaxed, slightly sexy atmosphere where conversations linger * Even a pool table in the background — casual, playful, unpretentious Paradise Alley feels like the kind of place where time slows down, guards come down, and genuine connection feels natural — not forced. Perfect for a Slow Dating experience. ### **So how does it work?** At slow dating events, you will have **more time AND multiple chances** to build some more connections with the ones you are interested in. **🍹 You can claim your welcome drink when you arrive.** **🗣 One-on-one rotations** to spark conversations with your handpicked matches. 🎴 **Conversation cards are provided if you need.** **🤙Private matching system**—no awkward rejections on the spot :) You will be notified of your matches afterwards. ### **💞 What we focus on at Slow Dating** 👥 **Intimate experiences** — limited numbers, because quality matters more than quantity 🎟️ **Unrushed dating** — the pace is slow, but tickets tend to go fast 💬 **Real conversations** — no pressure, no performance, just presence If you’re ready to step away from the apps and into something more human, this might just be your kind of afternoon.

**This is a *free event*, but registration via *[Humanitix](https://events.humanitix.com/the-web-meetup-first-edition-for-2026)* is essential to help us manage capacity for all attendees.** 🚀 **The Web Meetup – First Event of 2026!** 📅 **5 February 2026 - 5:30pm start** 📍 **Rooftop, The Metropolitan Hotel (Melbourne CBD)** 🎟 **Free – Registration essential via the Humanitix link below** We’re kicking off 2026 very differently. Instead of the usual panel or long-form talks, this time we’ve locked in 10+ speakers, standout thinkers, and innovators who will go head-to-head in fast, fiery, and fun mini-debates on topics like: * You can create a healthy team in a dysfunctional company * Returning to the office is amazing * AI changed my life in 2025 … and many more Expect short, sharp opinions, plenty of laughs, and a few takes that might flip your perspective. Come hang out on the rooftop, grab a drink, meet new folks, reconnect with that ex-colleague you secretly miss, and start 2026 in a community that’s curious, collaborative and inclusive. **Register now via** [Humanitix](https://events.humanitix.com/the-web-meetup-first-edition-for-2026)**, tickets are free, but spots are limited!** **This event is brought to you by [Melbourne CTO School](https://www.meetup.com/cto-school-melbourne/),** [The Web Meetup](https://www.meetup.com/the-web/) **and [Forward talent](https://www.linkedin.com/company/forward-talent-group)**

📚 #InPursuit is a book club for entrepreneurs, creatives, and curious minds who know personal growth fuels business growth. **See a lot of RSPVPs and wonder how it works? We'll break up into groups of 6-8 to share our insights, then swap groups after 30-45min so you can maximise learning from everybody!** *Note: this even is not organised by or affiliated with The State Library of Victoria* **That's what #InPursuit is all about** It’s not a traditional book club, it’s a space for people who are actively designing a better life through the pursuit of business, creativity, and personal growth. This event is for anyone #InPursuit of better business, life and relationships. Instead of reading the same book, we each come prepared to share one powerful insight from something we’ve read in the past 3-months. Anything non-fiction that’s moved us forward. Whether it’s a mindset shift, a productivity system, a new philosophy, or just a truth that punched us in the gut. This is a place to unpack it together and hear what others are learning too. We’re not just here to *read*. We’re here to *integrate*. Because when we grow, our business and our lives grow too. **🔍 Why Join? You'll leave with:** * 5–10 fresh insights from books you may never have picked up * Deeper awareness of how others think, lead, and evolve * New connections with people walking a similar path toward purpose, results, and impact This isn’t a lecture. It’s a room full of people building themselves while they build the thing. **📖 How It Works** First time? No pressure to share, just come curious. We'll break up into groups of 6-8 and share our insights, then swap groups so you can maximise the learning! Returning? Bring one idea you’ve read about in the last 3-months and be ready to speak on: 1. What did you learn? 2. How did it shift your perspective about the world or yourself? 3. How has it changed the way you show up or behave? We keep it structured, but flexible. After sharing, we open up to Q&A, personal stories, challenges, and deep dives. Some of the best insights come from the conversations *after* the share. **🧠 Who This Is For** * Entrepreneurs or side-hustlers finding their footing * Business owners, and doers building toward better * Curious minds who love ideas but care more about action * People tired of shallow conversations and hungry for growth If you’re working on something—or becoming someone—this space is for you. It’s a practice ground for people who want to grow forward. We’re all #InPursuit of mastery, momentum, and the kind of success that starts from within. **Map on how to get there** We're in the Create Quarter on the ground level (back right of the Quad as you enter from Swanson St). We'll likely be on a long table together. https://www.slv.vic.gov.au/sites/default/files/SLV-EnglishMap_Jan25.pdf *If there is no room at a table I'll post on the event page that we'll be going to Mr. Tulk Cafe, which is on the corner of the library at Swanson St and La Trobe St.*

Practice speaking at SmashSpeak. Obtain copious stage time. No agenda, technicalities, etc - Just come along, have some fun & speak! Be on time, as entry door automatically locks close to start time. BONUS - SmashSpeak is not a Toastmasters Club Multicultural Hub, 506 Elizabeth St (Opposite Queen Vic Market) Level 1, Purple Room (End of corridor) More to come...

I love my job and one of the main things I do is help customers get going with any of the data technologies at Microsoft. Right now there are a lot of my customers asking about Microsoft Fabric. It's hard to weave across all the shiny new options across the Fabric landscape, let alone figure out where it fits into your organization. In this session we'll focus on answering one question - how can I get data into Fabric? We'll talk through the "it depends" options and see some of the options in live demos.

**People Analytics 101: Making Sense of Compensation Data** Compensation data is one of the most widely used and widely misunderstood forms of people analytics. The session will cover where compensation data comes from, including market pricing data, internal payroll data, and benchmarking sources, and how companies think about structuring and analyzing that information. We will explore how compensation data is leveraged to set salary ranges, manage internal equity, support hiring and retention, and align pay with business strategy. A portion of the session will address common data challenges and limitations, such as market noise, inconsistent job matching, and incomplete datasets, while keeping the primary focus on practical use rather than technical depth. The session will also look ahead at where the space is going, including the growing impact of pay transparency laws, expanding pay equity requirements, and emerging regulations in the US and Europe that require organizations to report on gender and pay gaps. The goal is to give attendees a clear mental model for how compensation analytics works today and why getting it right is becoming increasingly critical. (note: we are back at Rev1 this month!) **About Our Speaker** [Alex Moore](https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexscottmoore/) is the founder of [Moore Cooperative](https://moorecooperative.com/), where he advises organizations on compensation strategy, pay equity, and people analytics. His work focuses on helping organizations like the Ohio Supreme Court design, analyze, and communicate compensation systems that are data-informed, defensible, and aligned with organizational goals. Alex lives in Granville, Ohio and has three little kiddos. More info at [cbusdaw.com](https://cbusdaw.com)

Dave Bland will be starting off the 2026 year presenting his SQL Server Dashboard. This meeting will be a Hybrid event, To attend in person use this link : [Attend in Person](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/chicago-data-professionals-february-10th-meeting-tickets-1980275232528?aff=oddtdtcreator) To attend online use this link: [Attend Online](Chicago Data Professionals February 10th Meeting | Meeting-Join | Microsoft Teams) 5:45 to 6:00 PM Members can ask questions, do networking, discuss SQL Server related issues currently facing, and get advice from the chapter leaders and from other members. Also, report if you have job openings or looking for a job. 6:00 to 7:00 PM The feature presentation of the day 7:00 to 7:30 PM Members can ask questions of the speaker and network with each other.

Join members of the local UX and Digital Design community for a casual monthly breakfast. There _might_ be a little snow, but there _will_ be effectively infinite serve-yourself coffee, so it evens out if you ask me. Just a reminder, while the other locations are great too, we’re at the Lane Ave one this time.

This is a FREE, in-person workshop about mastering the science of reading people and predicting their behavior. **Stop guessing and start LEADING.** Join us for a FREE and highly interactive seminar, where you will learn to use the Emotional Tone Scale to read people, predict behavior and handle any objection with ease. The edge you'll gain: * ****Read People**:** Instantly decode human behavior. * * **Predict Actions:** Know their next move before they make it. * * **Influence Others:** Master the tools to win in work and life. * * **Build Trust:** Know exactly who to trust and how to handle them. * Attend this workshop and start developing the mindset of success! **Seats are limited. Reserve your spot today!** Hosted by: Church of Scientology of Central Ohio 1266 Dublin Rd, Columbus, OH 43215

Our monthly PHP meetup. A virtual shindig courtesy of Zoom. Check back here for the details around 6:15 pm

This is a free, in-person meeting on the subject of betrayals, losses and how to get over them so you can build lasting relationships. Burdened by a stressful relationship? Unhealthy relationships can trigger feelings of anger, despair or self-doubt. They can create dwindling spirals of fights and seeking to make-up, or trying to “pin the blame” on someone or something. If you don’t find the RIGHT reasons, or select the correct sources of the problem, the problem can just get worse and worse. Whether in love or personal ties, with friends or at work, our life really IS affected by the quality of our relationships. Good ones can promote pleasure and survival while less optimum ones can lead to annoyance, anger, self-doubt, stress, or even affect our health and ability to survive well. Whether you are suffering from a divorce, or a painful break-up, don’t know who to trust (or who to CHOOSE) as a partner, friend, boss or employee - the anxiety of relationship troubles can really make a mess of things. Maybe you’ve suffered a betrayal, or are dealing with hostility or criticalness or invalidation. Dwindling relationships can involve destructive behavior, where we hurt those we love, or start succumbing to self-destructive thoughts, attitudes or behaviors that spiral out of control and affect much more than our immediate relationship. Past losses in love or life can affect how we act or react to new people and situations and hold us back from even starting to create new, possibly great relationships! How can one get back onto a saner course of action? Come to our Meetup, where we can introduce you to some of the knowledge, tools and techniques of the breakthroughs in the field of the mind that we can apply to this ever important area of life: human relationships! Break free from self imposed limitations Here we will discuss: • How to “erase” the trauma of past hurts and betrayals so that one isn’t always repeating past mistakes. • Why and how do the negative emotions of others affect you? • Why is my partner withdrawing and what can I do about it? • Why do we sometimes feel compelled to hurt the ones we love? • Fights & arguments - what's really behind them? • What underlies “corrosive criticism” or the need to invalidate self or others? • How one can stably change one’s outlook on life so they can affect positive change? • Where do compulsive destructive behaviors come from and what can be done about them? • How to form closer bonds & keep growing the relationships with the people you care about? • How to enhance one’s own ability to survive and create positive healthy relationships whether in love, family & friendships or in work, business or one’s career? Relationships can be hard and life itself IS challenging. Why not arm yourself with the knowledge and breakthroughs that have been made about the mind, mental reactions & interpersonal relationships, so that one has better awareness and control over themselves and life in general. Learn where painful experiences are “stored” and how they can unknowingly affect us. You will also find out how one can “erase” those past painful experiences so that one is free to move forward without being tripped up by the past. Learn too, about what can lead some people to become “toxic” personalities and how to identify those traits in others so you won’t be tripped up trusting the wrong person. Our free Meet-ups occur in a safe environment where one can learn, without fear of judgment or criticism, and without the recommendation of harmful mental techniques or therapies, just how YOU can get yourself onto a happier & more successful path: in love & in life. We look forward to having you join us! This class is sponsored by the Dianetics & Scientology Life Improvement Center of Central Ohio.