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Chinese Corner in Jing an
Chinese Corner in Jing an(Line 7 Changping Lu station) Please free free to join us. All levels are welcome! Don’t worry about your Chinese level, we have mandarin teachers here to help you, any questions free to ask. More informations
Welcome to add WeChat : ZoeMandarinClass
Adult Skateboard Lesson
Don't be afraid to try skateboarding for the first time, second time, or the 100th time!
Come out to the Iconx Indoor Skatepark for a fun time and enjoy having fun on a skateboard. Don't have a skateboard, helmet, or pads? Don't worry we have 187 Killer Pads which can protect you as you practice tricks and have fun.
Bring a group of people to make it an activity never to forget.
2025 Shanghai Pub Crawl (Bar-hopping/night life) - Ongoing! 15-30 ppl per event
Welcome to the Shanghai Pub Crawl! If you're someone who loves trying different drinks, making new friends, and exploring the nightlife of Shanghai, this group is made for you.
**Our Events:** Join us at 9 PM for our exciting pub crawl events that give you a chance to discover the coolest nightlife spots in Shanghai. Here's what you can expect:
* **Free shots** (one free shot at each bar)
* **Free club entry ticket** (usually priced at 100CNY and up)
* Bar-hopping (**3 Bars+1 Club, 4 hours tour**)
* People from all over the world (Usually 15-25 people.)
* Photos for attendees
* Free taxi transfers between bars
Who is this for? Everyone!!! Tourists / Expats / Locals / Students - Whether you're a night owl or just looking to try out different bars, all are welcome to join!
🔴 **Q&A**
1. **Q: Is it suitable for someone going alone?**
**A:** Absolutely! In fact, 90% of our guests come by themselves.
2. **Q: How many people usually join the event?**
**A:** On weekdays, around 15–25 people; on Saturdays, about 15–35 people.
3. **Q: Is there a dress code?**
**A:** No dress code, just avoid wearing flip-flops.
4. **Q: Do I need to bring my passport?**
**A:** No, it’s not necessary.
5. **Q: On which days do events take place?**
**A:** Usually on Thursdays and Saturdays, but please check the schedule on Meetup. Make sure to contact the organizer first, or you might end up at the wrong place.
6. **Q: I don’t drink. Is this event suitable for me?**
**A:** Of course! The event is all about socializing, not getting drunk. But the price is the same, and we can’t replace the free shots with drinks or anything else.
7. **Q: I saw that no one has signed up on the Meetup app. I was wondering if this is common until the day of the event, or if people usually don’t sign up there?**
**A:** There will be enough people for the event, most people just don't sign up here
🔴 **Ticket**:
1. Online: ¥***150 RMB = $ 20*** (https://www.eventbrite.hk/e/4-hour-shanghai-pub-crawl-bar-hoppingnightlife-tour-tickets-1048633911257?aff=meetup0eventinfo)
2. Pay on arrival: ***¥180***
🔴 **Contact**:
(Please be sure to contact the organizer before you come)
WeChat (ID): ***PubCrawl_Shanghai***
WhatsAPP: **8618101241515**
Official website: https://shanghaipubcrawl.com
**🔴** **Meeting location**: We will meet at a bar called “Side Bar,” which you can find on Google Maps.
Chinese address: 上海市 黄浦区 茂名南路 56号 食尚谷1层
**🔴** **As long as the event is listed on Meetup, we will definitely organize it. Most people actually don’t sign up through Meetup**
Jingan gymnasium Friday social badminton event
what is the best way to spend your weekend ? come to join us for badminton to have fun! please prepare racket by yourself , shuttlecock will be provided , add my WeChat : ellenliu12345 to sign up by our WeChat group . 60 RMB for 2 hours , we play double for fun game , 6 people share one court
Bailian Zhonghuan Shopping Mall
dear all, We will move to Bailian Zhongshan BEFORE jing’an opens. Welcome to join us
Please confirm with me first before you signed up
My WeChat is ellenliu12345
60rmb for 2 hours , 6 people share a court
小伙伴们, 所以我们在静安开放之前将会在百联中环打,欢迎加入我们
Language exchange @Jing an
Hi there,
Welcome to join our group to practice the new language with new friends.
WeChat: ZoeMandarinClass
jingan badminton social event
Add wechat ellenliu12345 if you want to join the event! sign up in advance is necessary.Welcome join us
50rmb for 2 hours , prepare racket by yourself
Free Thinker Events This Week
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Sunday Scribbles (Free-writing Time)
Get ready creative writers! Inkwell is proud to announce Sunday Scribbles, our latest event for the Shanghai writing community.
Sunday Scribbles is a low stress gathering for your Sunday afternoon creative writing. Join us to work, chat, and write to your heart's content. (Mostly write, though). Add Ryan (WechatID: texaswriter) to figure out where we are meeting this week and to ask any questions. I don't keep Meetup very up to date and everything Inkwell does is organized through wechat groups, so even if the number of attendees is low, there's likely an event still going on. Add Ryan, and you can join the wechat group where everything is happening.
Some Frequently Asked Questions:
What do we do here?: Mostly write and work quietly with some chatting
What to bring?: Something to work on
What we don't do?: Edit things for you, serve as writing consultants
What does it cost?: Free, but please order something to support the venue.
What is Inkwell?: There's a lot of information about the workshop located on the website: www.inkwell.asia.
Meet Writing Workshop veterans and other Workshoppers for the latest info on writing prompts and activities. It's also the perfect chance to make the Sunday night deadline for that week's Writing Workshop.
Sunday Scribbles is organized by Paula Willis who has been in Shanghai since early 2018 and a member of the writing group since fall 2019.
Bring something to write with and we'll see you there!
Weekend drink and mingle @ Calypso lounge
小酌消烦暑,人间正清欢
周末的时光,不应该空白!
炎炎夏日 | 微醺才是打开盛夏的正确方式
遇见·城市部落诚挚的邀请您参加:
和新老朋友一起假期小酌,邂逅漫时光。酒到微醺,开启夏日的时尚社交!
邀清风作陪,与明月对饮
这一刻,是独属于你的微醺!
时间:晚7:30-10点
地点:Calypso地中海酒廊
报名费含指定鸡尾酒或葡萄酒,啤酒一杯
Meetup Citywalk invite you to join our Holiday drink & mingle with fellows at Calypso Lounge this Saturday evening.
Meet and mingle with fellows, enjoy a drink or two and have fun! Don't be afraid to come alone. You'll make new friends quickly. See you there!
Ticket price RMB 68 including one drink(Cocktail or wine, beer)
Book club《The laws of human nature》 中文名《人性规则》,,Languanage exchange and mingle
✨ 每一本好书都值得反复阅读,每一次阅读都可能遇见新的自己。
欢迎参加2026年3月14日城市部落英文读书会,社交英✨ 每一本好书都值得反复阅读,每一次阅读都可能遇见新的自己。
欢迎参加2026年3月22日城市部落英文读书会,社交英语角 weekly Language exchange & bookclub meetup
Topic discussion主题讨论: 《The laws of human nature》 中文名《人性规则》,春季英文读书会。
After sign up, please add the host via wechat: Hawk_cn报名后请添加活动主持微信:Hawk_cn
Venue: People Square in Shanghai 上海人民广场
Cost: 早鸟小红书转发分享活动公益免费,空降票50元/人,.
Date & time: Mar 22nd 上午 10:00-12:30
From the [#1]() New York Times-bestselling author of The 48 Laws of Power comes the definitive new book on decoding the behavior of the people around youRobert Greene is a master guide for millions of readers, distilling ancient wisdom and philosophy into essential texts for seekers of power, understanding and mastery. Now he turns to the most important subject of all - understanding people's drives and motivations, even when they are unconscious of them themselves.
多数时候,你觉得自己理性?他人善良?
你以为职场都该正面积极,却看不懂明摆的尔虞我诈?为什么人总爱和人比较?渴望拥有别人的财富、地位甚至外表?为何有人会一再爱上不对的人?为什么英国公民宁愿脱欧?美国人民会挺狂人川普?
因为「人性」在下棋,我们不过是被摆布的棋子而已。
《人性18法则:认识自己、透视他人, 解码人类行为第一专书》第一本解码人类行为专书,让你浸淫在各式各样的人类行为中,并学会破解这些行为的密码。读完本书,你将彻底改变你看待自己、他人甚至世界的方式。
We are social animals. Our very lives depend on our relationships with people. Knowing why people do what they do is the most important tool we can possess, without which our other talents can only take us so far. Drawing from the ideas and examples of Pericles, Queen Elizabeth I, Martin Luther King Jr, and many others, Greene teaches us how to detach ourselves from our own emotions and master self-control, how to develop the empathy that leads to insight, how to look behind people's masks, and how to resist conformity to develop your singular sense of purpose. Whether at work, in relationships, or in shaping the world around you, The Laws of Human Nature offers brilliant tactics for success, self-improvement, and self-defense.
读完本书,你将:
变成更沉着、更有策略的人类观察者。
更精准判读他人不断释出的讯号,更有识人之明。
变得强大足以对抗人生中躲不掉的损友、小人或各种有毒人格者。
知道想激励人、影响人,要扳动哪一根杠杆才能事半功倍。
能挣脱低潮和困境,顺利摆脱负面行为模式。
变得更具同理心,让你与身边的人建立起更深刻、更满意的关系。
改变看待自身潜力的眼光,察觉内心更理想的自己,并着手去实践
看穿人的面具:
角色扮演法则
人往往会戴上面具来让自己展现出最好的一面──谦虚、自信、努力。他们会谨言慎行,会看起来对我们说的话充满兴趣。他们会学着隐藏自身的不安全感与羡慕之情。若把外表看到的他们当真,那我们就永远不会知道他们内心在想什么。甚至有的时候,我们会被他们突发的抗拒、敌意与操弄所蒙蔽。所幸,这张面具并不是滴水不漏地毫无缝隙。人会持续性地泄漏出自己的本性以及无意识的欲望,因为非语言的线索,如:脸部的表情、音色的转折、身体肌肉的张力与人紧张时的本能反应等并非他们能完全控制。你必须熟练于这种「非语言的语言」,让自己面对不论男人或女人都有一双火眼金睛,不会为他们的浮面所欺。有了这种神功护体,你就能对很多人事物防患于未然。反过来说,由于表象是别人用来评判你的根据,你也必须学着去表现出自己最好的一面,让角色扮 ▌人性和你想的不一样:你没有你想的理性,他没有你想的善良!
罗伯·葛林(Robert Greene)身为多本国际畅销冠军书作者、全球千万读者追随的人生导师,他最善于从历史取材,将古老的智慧和哲理化为充满洞见的文本,供有心追求成功和影响力的人浸淫、汲取。这次他再将其如剃刀般锋利的文笔挥向「人性」,带你看清决定人类行为背后你所不知的强大力量,如何影响个体的成败,左右人类的命运。
葛林认为,人类是社会动物,我们的生活始终围绕着各种关系存在。理解人类的所作所为,可让我们更能在社会立足,也是我们所能想像得到最有用的工具,或说能力。少了这种能力,即使拥有异禀天赋,也无法带我们走得太远。
本书带你走入历史长河,汲取如雅典领袖伯里克利、苏联头子史达林、催眠之父艾瑞克森、时尚传奇香奈儿、英国女王伊莉莎白一世、人权斗士金恩博士、石油大亨洛克斐勒等多位传奇人物的经历,说明促成人类行为背后你我所不知的18种原始力量,如:不理性、自恋、短视、欣羡、强迫症、防卫心、从众、挫败感和攻击性等,如何导引出许多惊人成就或人为灾难,而透过这些精采绝伦的故事剖析,我们得以学会如何在关键时刻跳脱情绪的控制,培养出自我掌控力、如何通透人性弱点发展出高度同理心、如何看穿人类的面具,以及如何抗拒群体力量,避免随波逐流,找到专属于自己的人生意义与使命感。甚至轮到该你演戏时,知道如何演好、如何适时加入戏剧效果。
▌通透人性法则,人生不再撞墙!
人性比我们想的更复杂、神秘且引人入胜。然而,科技进步和社群媒体带来的巨变,使人类比以往更耽溺于自我世界,而其自恋程度也是前所未见。葛林认为,想让人生不再撞墙,或更进一步打进任何群体,发挥你想要的影响力,人性,都是你必须重新通透的一门学问。跟随本书揭示的人性18法则,彻底认识自己,打破负面行为模式,才能趋吉避凶;学会洞察人心,才能掳获人心:
‧不理性的法则:人生有多少决定,是你的情绪作主,而非你的理性?
‧自恋的法则:人人自恋的时代,学会把自恋炼成自信,再用同理心培养出圈粉超神力!
‧角色扮演的法则:很少人会有话直说,学会破解非语言线索,你也能像通灵一样善解人意!
‧强迫症行为的法则:人生不停鬼打墙?有时问题不在你,而在你身边的有毒性人格!
‧垂涎的法则:如何让人爱不释手?知道何时和如何有所保留,成为别人「渴望」而不可及的目标。
‧防卫心的法则:如何软化反对你的人?化身深度听众,学会善用对方的话和固执,把他拉到同一阵线!
▌人性和你想的不一样:你没有你想的理性,他没有你想的善良!
罗伯·葛林(Robert Greene)身为多本国际畅销冠军书作者、全球千万读者追随的人生导师,他最善于从历史取材,将古老的智慧和哲理化为充满洞见的文本,供有心追求成功和影响力的人浸淫、汲取。这次他再将其如剃刀般锋利的文笔挥向「人性」,带你看清决定人类行为背后你所不知的强大力量,如何影响个体的成败,左右人类的命运。
葛林认为,人类是社会动物,我们的生活始终围绕着各种关系存在。理解人类的所作所为,可让我们更能在社会立足,也是我们所能想像得到最有用的工具,或说能力。少了这种能力,即使拥有异禀天赋,也无法带我们走得太远。
本书带你走入历史长河,汲取如雅典领袖伯里克利、苏联头子史达林、催眠之父艾瑞克森、时尚传奇香奈儿、英国女王伊莉莎白一世、人权斗士金恩博士、石油大亨洛克斐勒等多位传奇人物的经历,说明促成人类行为背后你我所不知的18种原始力量,如:不理性、自恋、短视、欣羡、强迫症、防卫心、从众、挫败感和攻击性等,如何导引出许多惊人成就或人为灾难,而透过这些精采绝伦的故事剖析,我们得以学会如何在关键时刻跳脱情绪的控制,培养出自我掌控力、如何通透人性弱点发展出高度同理心、如何看穿人类的面具,以及如何抗拒群体力量,避免随波逐流,找到专属于自己的人生意义与使命感。甚至轮到该你演戏时,知道如何演好、如何适时加入
Event schedule
**活动环节安排:**
本活动参与人群定位为上海工作和生活的喜欢英语、热爱交流分享的青年白领,及高校师生。
Other Schedule 其它环节:
Heads up words guessing欢乐猜词,
MBTI自我介绍 What is your personality,
Never have I ever我有你没有,
Truth or Dare, 真心话大冒险 英文版
英文私董会 Mentor for each other.
British Parliamentary Mini Debate, 小型英式辩论会
话题抽签,即兴发言 想想签英文版 Question Shaker
Free talk for networking自由社交英语时间
Welcome to our weekly booking reading sharing + British Parliamentary Debate, language & cultural exchange meetup event which focus on informal and fun way to meet new people and cultural discussion. All learning levels are welcome to join. We organize weekly events such as book reading sharing, language & cultural exchange, topic presentation, speech and debate. Embrace the opportunity to mingle with like-minded individuals who share a passion for English language learning, cross culture communication and meeting new friend.
我们是一群热爱中外跨文化交流的年轻人,致力于连接拥有相同志趣的朋友,通过组织基于英语交流的多元化的趣味活动,认识一群热爱学习,挑战自己舒适圈的小伙伴,一起探索语言的无限可能!
Are you a bookworm looking for a fun group to discuss your favorite reads with?If you’re interested in meaningful discussions with fellow readers. Look no further and join us! Our book reading meetup is the perfect place for book lovers to come together, share their thoughts, and enjoy an engaging discussion with fellow readers. Our book club sharing session is a great way to engage in lively and friendly discussions, share insights, and meet fellow book lovers. Besides presentation and group discussion about the book of the week, our meetup also includes time to guess words, language games, free talking, mingling and socializing. As always, there's no pressure to have finished the book, we're just here for vibes. Our gathering is not about analyzing the book like a seminar, but more about connecting, sharing ideas, and enjoying a relaxed, social afternoon with fellow book lovers. Also, our discussion topics may go beyond the book, touching on a variety of themes and int
放下手机,拒绝宅家。读有趣的书,见有趣的人,欢迎参加本周六城市部落英文读书会,英式辩论赛,用知识链接彼此,让思想碰撞出火花,遇见与你同频共振的朋友。新的一年,给自己的心灵来一场洗礼。遇见城市部落英文读书会欢迎所有喜欢思考,热爱阅读和分享,希望寻求生命里积极的改变的朋友到来。通过阅读分享来进行一场跨越语言与时空的相逢,让我们在繁忙的生活中寻得一片宁静又充满趣味的阅读天地。读书会有团队讨论和自由分享环节,请自由分享自己的观点和看法,也许你就能遇见灵魂的知音。期待与你相遇在知识的殿堂,共同开启一段美好的旅程。
Frequently asked questions:
**Do I have to finish the book to attend**?
Not at all. If you plan to read or have read it, that’s great; if you haven’t touched it, you’re still more than welcome to join. Come and meet like-minded people and connect over the topic as well as the book.
**How can I contribute to the discussion if I haven’t read the book?**
The book is simply a conversation starter - our discussions often branch out into related themes, personal experiences and broader topics of interest. Our gathering is more about socialising and engaging in decent conversations with book lovers, rather than a formal seminar.
**Can I also discuss my own fav book or the book I recently read?**
Absolutely! Our gatherings are all about open conversations, and we’d love to hear your thoughts on any book that’s been captivating to you.
**Is this group open to everyone?**
Yes - this is a friendly and inclusive group, welcoming everyone regardless of gender, sexuality, or background. The event is designed to make it easy to meet and connect with fellow book lovers in our community.
**What if I'm shy about speaking in front of the group?**
No pressure! You're welcome to participate in the way that feels most comfortable for you. Whether you share your views or just listen, your presence is valued. A lot of people come alone - so don't be shy!!
This event will be photographed for promotional purposes. By purchasing a ticket you are consenting to the team using these pictures for our social media channels but you are able to withdraw your consent at any time during the event.
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《The laws of human nature》 中文名《人性规则》 英文读书会 bookclub, Language meetup
✨ 每一本好书都值得反复阅读,每一次阅读都可能遇见新的自己。
欢迎参加2026年3月22日城市部落英文读书会,社交英语角 weekly Language exchange & bookclub meetup
Topic discussion主题讨论: 《The laws of human nature》 中文名《人性规则》,春季英文读书会。
After sign up, please add the host via wechat: Hawk_cn报名后请添加活动主持微信:Hawk_cn
Venue: People Square in Shanghai 上海人民广场
Cost: 早鸟小红书转发分享活动公益免费,空降票50元/人,.
Date & time: Mar 22nd 上午 10:00-12:30
From the [#1]() New York Times-bestselling author of The 48 Laws of Power comes the definitive new book on decoding the behavior of the people around youRobert Greene is a master guide for millions of readers, distilling ancient wisdom and philosophy into essential texts for seekers of power, understanding and mastery. Now he turns to the most important subject of all - understanding people's drives and motivations, even when they are unconscious of them themselves.
多数时候,你觉得自己理性?他人善良?
你以为职场都该正面积极,却看不懂明摆的尔虞我诈?为什么人总爱和人比较?渴望拥有别人的财富、地位甚至外表?为何有人会一再爱上不对的人?为什么英国公民宁愿脱欧?美国人民会挺狂人川普?
因为「人性」在下棋,我们不过是被摆布的棋子而已。
《人性18法则:认识自己、透视他人, 解码人类行为第一专书》第一本解码人类行为专书,让你浸淫在各式各样的人类行为中,并学会破解这些行为的密码。读完本书,你将彻底改变你看待自己、他人甚至世界的方式。
We are social animals. Our very lives depend on our relationships with people. Knowing why people do what they do is the most important tool we can possess, without which our other talents can only take us so far. Drawing from the ideas and examples of Pericles, Queen Elizabeth I, Martin Luther King Jr, and many others, Greene teaches us how to detach ourselves from our own emotions and master self-control, how to develop the empathy that leads to insight, how to look behind people's masks, and how to resist conformity to develop your singular sense of purpose. Whether at work, in relationships, or in shaping the world around you, The Laws of Human Nature offers brilliant tactics for success, self-improvement, and self-defense.
读完本书,你将:
变成更沉着、更有策略的人类观察者。
更精准判读他人不断释出的讯号,更有识人之明。
变得强大足以对抗人生中躲不掉的损友、小人或各种有毒人格者。
知道想激励人、影响人,要扳动哪一根杠杆才能事半功倍。
能挣脱低潮和困境,顺利摆脱负面行为模式。
变得更具同理心,让你与身边的人建立起更深刻、更满意的关系。
改变看待自身潜力的眼光,察觉内心更理想的自己,并着手去实践
看穿人的面具:
角色扮演法则
人往往会戴上面具来让自己展现出最好的一面──谦虚、自信、努力。他们会谨言慎行,会看起来对我们说的话充满兴趣。他们会学着隐藏自身的不安全感与羡慕之情。若把外表看到的他们当真,那我们就永远不会知道他们内心在想什么。甚至有的时候,我们会被他们突发的抗拒、敌意与操弄所蒙蔽。所幸,这张面具并不是滴水不漏地毫无缝隙。人会持续性地泄漏出自己的本性以及无意识的欲望,因为非语言的线索,如:脸部的表情、音色的转折、身体肌肉的张力与人紧张时的本能反应等并非他们能完全控制。你必须熟练于这种「非语言的语言」,让自己面对不论男人或女人都有一双火眼金睛,不会为他们的浮面所欺。有了这种神功护体,你就能对很多人事物防患于未然。反过来说,由于表象是别人用来评判你的根据,你也必须学着去表现出自己最好的一面,让角色扮 ▌人性和你想的不一样:你没有你想的理性,他没有你想的善良!
罗伯·葛林(Robert Greene)身为多本国际畅销冠军书作者、全球千万读者追随的人生导师,他最善于从历史取材,将古老的智慧和哲理化为充满洞见的文本,供有心追求成功和影响力的人浸淫、汲取。这次他再将其如剃刀般锋利的文笔挥向「人性」,带你看清决定人类行为背后你所不知的强大力量,如何影响个体的成败,左右人类的命运。
葛林认为,人类是社会动物,我们的生活始终围绕着各种关系存在。理解人类的所作所为,可让我们更能在社会立足,也是我们所能想像得到最有用的工具,或说能力。少了这种能力,即使拥有异禀天赋,也无法带我们走得太远。
本书带你走入历史长河,汲取如雅典领袖伯里克利、苏联头子史达林、催眠之父艾瑞克森、时尚传奇香奈儿、英国女王伊莉莎白一世、人权斗士金恩博士、石油大亨洛克斐勒等多位传奇人物的经历,说明促成人类行为背后你我所不知的18种原始力量,如:不理性、自恋、短视、欣羡、强迫症、防卫心、从众、挫败感和攻击性等,如何导引出许多惊人成就或人为灾难,而透过这些精采绝伦的故事剖析,我们得以学会如何在关键时刻跳脱情绪的控制,培养出自我掌控力、如何通透人性弱点发展出高度同理心、如何看穿人类的面具,以及如何抗拒群体力量,避免随波逐流,找到专属于自己的人生意义与使命感。甚至轮到该你演戏时,知道如何演好、如何适时加入戏剧效果。
▌通透人性法则,人生不再撞墙!
人性比我们想的更复杂、神秘且引人入胜。然而,科技进步和社群媒体带来的巨变,使人类比以往更耽溺于自我世界,而其自恋程度也是前所未见。葛林认为,想让人生不再撞墙,或更进一步打进任何群体,发挥你想要的影响力,人性,都是你必须重新通透的一门学问。跟随本书揭示的人性18法则,彻底认识自己,打破负面行为模式,才能趋吉避凶;学会洞察人心,才能掳获人心:
‧不理性的法则:人生有多少决定,是你的情绪作主,而非你的理性?
‧自恋的法则:人人自恋的时代,学会把自恋炼成自信,再用同理心培养出圈粉超神力!
‧角色扮演的法则:很少人会有话直说,学会破解非语言线索,你也能像通灵一样善解人意!
‧强迫症行为的法则:人生不停鬼打墙?有时问题不在你,而在你身边的有毒性人格!
‧垂涎的法则:如何让人爱不释手?知道何时和如何有所保留,成为别人「渴望」而不可及的目标。
‧防卫心的法则:如何软化反对你的人?化身深度听众,学会善用对方的话和固执,把他拉到同一阵线!
▌人性和你想的不一样:你没有你想的理性,他没有你想的善良!
罗伯·葛林(Robert Greene)身为多本国际畅销冠军书作者、全球千万读者追随的人生导师,他最善于从历史取材,将古老的智慧和哲理化为充满洞见的文本,供有心追求成功和影响力的人浸淫、汲取。这次他再将其如剃刀般锋利的文笔挥向「人性」,带你看清决定人类行为背后你所不知的强大力量,如何影响个体的成败,左右人类的命运。
葛林认为,人类是社会动物,我们的生活始终围绕着各种关系存在。理解人类的所作所为,可让我们更能在社会立足,也是我们所能想像得到最有用的工具,或说能力。少了这种能力,即使拥有异禀天赋,也无法带我们走得太远。
本书带你走入历史长河,汲取如雅典领袖伯里克利、苏联头子史达林、催眠之父艾瑞克森、时尚传奇香奈儿、英国女王伊莉莎白一世、人权斗士金恩博士、石油大亨洛克斐勒等多位传奇人物的经历,说明促成人类行为背后你我所不知的18种原始力量,如:不理性、自恋、短视、欣羡、强迫症、防卫心、从众、挫败感和攻击性等,如何导引出许多惊人成就或人为灾难,而透过这些精采绝伦的故事剖析,我们得以学会如何在关键时刻跳脱情绪的控制,培养出自我掌控力、如何通透人性弱点发展出高度同理心、如何看穿人类的面具,以及如何抗拒群体力量,避免随波逐流,找到专属于自己的人生意义与使命感。甚至轮到该你演戏时,知道如何演好、如何适时加入
Event schedule
**活动环节安排:**
本活动参与人群定位为上海工作和生活的喜欢英语、热爱交流分享的青年白领,及高校师生。
Other Schedule 其它环节:
Heads up words guessing欢乐猜词,
MBTI自我介绍 What is your personality,
Never have I ever我有你没有,
Truth or Dare, 真心话大冒险 英文版
英文私董会 Mentor for each other.
British Parliamentary Mini Debate, 小型英式辩论会
话题抽签,即兴发言 想想签英文版 Question Shaker
Free talk for networking自由社交英语时间
Welcome to our weekly booking reading sharing + British Parliamentary Debate, language & cultural exchange meetup event which focus on informal and fun way to meet new people and cultural discussion. All learning levels are welcome to join. We organize weekly events such as book reading sharing, language & cultural exchange, topic presentation, speech and debate. Embrace the opportunity to mingle with like-minded individuals who share a passion for English language learning, cross culture communication and meeting new friend.
我们是一群热爱中外跨文化交流的年轻人,致力于连接拥有相同志趣的朋友,通过组织基于英语交流的多元化的趣味活动,认识一群热爱学习,挑战自己舒适圈的小伙伴,一起探索语言的无限可能!
Are you a bookworm looking for a fun group to discuss your favorite reads with?If you’re interested in meaningful discussions with fellow readers. Look no further and join us! Our book reading meetup is the perfect place for book lovers to come together, share their thoughts, and enjoy an engaging discussion with fellow readers. Our book club sharing session is a great way to engage in lively and friendly discussions, share insights, and meet fellow book lovers. Besides presentation and group discussion about the book of the week, our meetup also includes time to guess words, language games, free talking, mingling and socializing. As always, there's no pressure to have finished the book, we're just here for vibes. Our gathering is not about analyzing the book like a seminar, but more about connecting, sharing ideas, and enjoying a relaxed, social afternoon with fellow book lovers. Also, our discussion topics may go beyond the book, touching on a variety of themes and int
放下手机,拒绝宅家。读有趣的书,见有趣的人,欢迎参加本周六城市部落英文读书会,英式辩论赛,用知识链接彼此,让思想碰撞出火花,遇见与你同频共振的朋友。新的一年,给自己的心灵来一场洗礼。遇见城市部落英文读书会欢迎所有喜欢思考,热爱阅读和分享,希望寻求生命里积极的改变的朋友到来。通过阅读分享来进行一场跨越语言与时空的相逢,让我们在繁忙的生活中寻得一片宁静又充满趣味的阅读天地。读书会有团队讨论和自由分享环节,请自由分享自己的观点和看法,也许你就能遇见灵魂的知音。期待与你相遇在知识的殿堂,共同开启一段美好的旅程。
Frequently asked questions:
**Do I have to finish the book to attend**?
Not at all. If you plan to read or have read it, that’s great; if you haven’t touched it, you’re still more than welcome to join. Come and meet like-minded people and connect over the topic as well as the book.
**How can I contribute to the discussion if I haven’t read the book?**
The book is simply a conversation starter - our discussions often branch out into related themes, personal experiences and broader topics of interest. Our gathering is more about socialising and engaging in decent conversations with book lovers, rather than a formal seminar.
**Can I also discuss my own fav book or the book I recently read?**
Absolutely! Our gatherings are all about open conversations, and we’d love to hear your thoughts on any book that’s been captivating to you.
**Is this group open to everyone?**
Yes - this is a friendly and inclusive group, welcoming everyone regardless of gender, sexuality, or background. The event is designed to make it easy to meet and connect with fellow book lovers in our community.
**What if I'm shy about speaking in front of the group?**
No pressure! You're welcome to participate in the way that feels most comfortable for you. Whether you share your views or just listen, your presence is valued. A lot of people come alone - so don't be shy!!
This event will be photographed for promotional purposes. By purchasing a ticket you are consenting to the team using these pictures for our social media channels but you are able to withdraw your consent at any time during the event.
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【Authentic China Tastes】Cooking Class with Michelin Chef
**\*\*About Activity\*\***
Unlock the flavors of authentic Chinese cuisine in our exclusive Private Cooking Class! Learn to create irresistible dishes like Kung Pao Chicken and Shepherd's Purse Wonton using traditional techniques that bring bold, fresh flavors to life.
**\*\*Highlights\*\***
\*\*\*\*\*Kung Pao Chicken highlights the bold and exciting flavors of Sichuan cuisine, where tender chicken is stir-fried with a medley of crunchy peanuts, fresh vegetables, and fiery Sichuan peppercorns.
With its origins in Sichuan province, Kung Pao Chicken showcases the art of combining bold flavors with a satisfying crunch, making it a beloved classic in Chinese cuisine.
\*\*\*\*\*Shepherd's Purse Wonton presents a delicate yet flavorful blend of traditional Chinese ingredients, with plump wontons filled with fragrant Shepherd’s Purse leaves, minced meat, and seasonings. The wontons are gently steamed or boiled to perfection, it highlights the harmony between fresh herbs and tender fillings, making it a cherished comfort food with a timeless appeal.
**\*\*About Chef\*\***
\- Chef Tony Jiang Founder & Director of Chinese Famous Media Chef Michelin\-Star Restaurant Associator Principle Director of Zwilling Gourmet SchoolVice President of Disciples Escoffier China
Awards:
\- 2025 Michelin Bib Gourmand Hong Kong \- 2021 Outstanding Chef of the Year\, The Best Restaurant Awards \- 2019 Authoritative Chef of the Year The Best Restaurant Awards\- 2017 Best Contributor Discuples Escoffier China Delegation \- 2015 French Gastronomic Spirit \- Sopexa
**\*\*Itinerary\*\***
\- 4:45pm: Gathering & Introduction
\- 5:30pm: Chef's Demostration
\- 6:30pm: 3\-4pax/station\, each team to prepare
\- 7:00pm: Food appreciation & Photo Taking
**\*\*Detailed Info\*\***
**Time&Date: 16:30 - 19:00 Every Wednesday & Sunday, 2026**
**Meet up Location:** Jing An Temple Metro Station (Line2) Exit 1
**Activity Duration:** 2 - 3 Hours
**Price:** 500 RMB / Pax
**Group size:** 4-20 People
**What's included in the price:**
· Food Ingredients
· Cooking Utensils
· Apron
· Tableware
· Chef instruction service
· Complimentary Water + Soft Drinks
· First-Aid Kit
**What's not included in the price:**
· Your own expenses
**\*\*Trip Inquiry\*\***
Telephone/WhatsAPP:0086 15001791355
Wechat: OKDealTravel
Email: [contact@okdealtravelchina.com](http://mailto:contact@okdealtravelchina.com/)
**\*\*Full payment** is required when signing up for this activity. If cancel above 3 days prior to departure, full refund will be offered; if cancel 0-3 days prior to departure, 100rmb cancellation fee will be charged.
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我将把您加入微信群。您也可以扫描上方图片中的二维码直接添加我。所有最终安排及活动详情都会通过微信公布。活动将以中英文进行,您也可借此机会练习商务英语。
诚邀您参加在人民广场举行的轻松交流活动。
您可以展示自己的产品或服务,拓展人脉关系,或者只是来放松一下。
参与费用为人民币50元,包含充足的啤酒与软饮,以及高质量的交流机会。
无需压力,无需正装。只需带上您的智慧、创意与积极的能量。
让我们共同 **建立联系、携手合作、创造价值**!
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Free Thinker Events Near You
Connect with your local Free Thinker community
Libera Animae - Freeing the Soul
Main Library, Meeting Room 2B
Join us for a welcoming evening of reflection, gentle music, and meaningful conversation. We’ll begin with a short grounding moment, followed by a brief reading from spiritual or philosophical traditions, and an open reflection circle where participants can share (or simply listen).
Libera Animae is an interfaith community focused on inner growth, creativity, and authentic connection.
All backgrounds are welcome.
ASH UU Topic: TBD
ASH is Atheists, Skeptics and Humanists of First Unitarian Universalists of Columbus Ohio
TBD
Snacks are usually available, and you are welcome to bringing something to share!
French conversation at La Chatelaine in Worthington.
This event is 2:30 - 4 pm Sunday.
Conversation tends toward intermediate/advanced,
but everybody is welcome.
If you come and don't see us right away, keep looking. We could be anywhere in the restaurant.
Using Philosophy to Cope with Current Events
So this month's prompt is more general. I think we can all agree that we are living in "unique" times that require coping skills. I think that one role and/or purpose of philosophy is to help us deal with our daily lives and our "unique" times. So, let's share our feelings and thoughts about which philosopher/philosophy we turn to in order to deal with our crazy events. Who/what helps you stay focused in your daily life and helps you sleep at night. I find that Stoicism with a little philosophical pessimism mixed in goes a long way in helping me deal with what I see as very destructive, fearful and mean spirited public policies at both the state and federal levels. Hope to see you on March 28th!
Friday Night at Junto - French Conversation Group
Friday Night French Conversation Hour
Bonjour tout le monde!
(English Below)
Je vous propose une soirée, ce vendredi qui vient, à l'hôtel Junto à Columbus. 19hr. 20 Mars (Vendredi) 2026.
C'est très bien située avec de l'espace extérieur et intérieur, un feu, un café (cafe se ferme à 19h; arrivez tot si ca vous interesse), un resto, et un bar.
Le parking est payé est juste en face au musée des sciences COSI. Il y'en a aussi dans les rues mais un peu plus loin.
Vous n'êtes pas obligé d'acheter quelque chose, car l'ensemble de l'espace c'est vraiment un grand lobby et de l'hôtel, mais c'est cool.
J'ai parlé avec le management et ils sont ravis de nous accueillir, mais il n'y a pas de place particulière réservé pour nous.
Ce sera à partir de 19h jusqu'à ?
Moi, je suis Brandon. J'aimerais que ce soit un évènement mensuel et si l'espace ne vous convient pas, on peut discuter d'autres options.
Je vais porter une casquette bleue et blanche qui dit "Québec."
Venez nombreux!
A tres bientot
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Hello everyone!
It’s been a long time since we’ve had a Friday night French meetup.
I suggest that we meet at the Junto Hotel in Columbus this coming Friday, 20 March (friday) 2026 at 7PM.
There’s a great spot with both outdoor and indoor areas, a café (which closes at 7 p.m., come a bit early if that interests you), a restaurant, and a bar.
Parking is paid and is located right across from the science museum called COSI. There is additional free and paid street parking around at varying distances.
It’s a bit expensive, but you don’t have to buy anything since the area is really just a large hotel lobby. It's nice though.
I spoke with management, and they’re happy to welcome us, though there’s no specific space reserved just for us.
It’ll start at 7 p.m. and go until whenever.
I’d like this to become a monthly event, and if this space doesn’t suit us well, we can discuss other options.
Speaking and understanding French well is ideal but there may be learners there as well.
I’m Brandon. I’ll be wearing a blue and white cap that says “Québec.”
Come find us.
The Graduate
This 1967 film is widely regarded as one of the best American movies ever made. Now remembered almost as much for its Simon and Garfunkel music as its deadpan comedy and being the role that established Dustin Hoffman as the hottest actor in Hollywood. It became a cultural icon for capturing the spirit of 60s angst of a young man on the make, while garnering a batch of Oscar nominations.
After watching the movie on your own, join us to relive (or experience!) those feelings at our discussion.
Omnipresent Atheists Weekly Meetup (4th Tues)
Jimmy V's Grill & Pub in Grandview Heights. You are responsible for your own meal/drinks. We usually don't have any agenda other than eat, drink and talk. :) If the weather is nice we will be on the back patio, otherwise we are in the cigar room.
This group has been meeting every Tuesday evening for over a decade. Many attendees do not RSVP on meetup. Please don't let the small number here discourage you. Anyone/everyone is welcome to come. We'd love to have you join us.
COTA bus #5 comes to W. 5th and Wyandotte Rd. And it's a minute walk to the restaurant.




















