Loving What Is

I'm canceling my subscription as a Meetup organizer as of March 9th 2026. I have never made it a priority and I know anyone of you can do a better job than I did. I do believe that organizing like minded people together is important in the world we live in today. If any of you would like to take over the the leadership of this group and organize meetings for the members please let me know in the comments. I will contact you so we can transition the group to you.

This is a free, in person meeting. Burdened by a stressful relationship? Unhealthy relationships can trigger feelings of anger, despair or self-doubt. They can create dwindling spirals of fights and seeking to make-up, or trying to “pin the blame” on someone or something. If you don’t find the RIGHT reasons, or select the correct sources of the problem, the problem can just get worse and worse. Whether in love or personal ties, with friends or at work, our life really IS affected by the quality of our relationships. Good ones can promote pleasure and survival while less optimum ones can lead to annoyance, anger, self-doubt, stress, or even affect our health and ability to survive well. Whether you are suffering from a divorce, or a painful break-up, don’t know who to trust (or who to CHOOSE) as a partner, friend, boss or employee - the anxiety of relationship troubles can really make a mess of things. Maybe you’ve suffered a betrayal, or are dealing with hostility or criticalness or invalidation. Dwindling relationships can involve destructive behavior, where we hurt those we love, or start succumbing to self-destructive thoughts, attitudes or behaviors that spiral out of control and affect much more than our immediate relationship. Past losses in love or life can affect how we act or react to new people and situations and hold us back from even starting to create new, possibly great relationships! How can one get back onto a saner course of action? Come to our Meetup, where we can introduce you to some of the knowledge, tools and techniques of the breakthroughs in the field of the mind that we can apply to this ever important area of life: human relationships! Break free from self imposed limitations Here we will discuss: • How to “erase” the trauma of past hurts and betrayals so that one isn’t always repeating past mistakes. • Why and how do the negative emotions of others affect you? • Why is my partner withdrawing and what can I do about it? • Why do we sometimes feel compelled to hurt the ones we love? • Fights & arguments - what's really behind them? • What underlies “corrosive criticism” or the need to invalidate self or others? • How one can stably change one’s outlook on life so they can affect positive change? • Where do compulsive destructive behaviors come from and what can be done about them? • How to form closer bonds & keep growing the relationships with the people you care about? • How to enhance one’s own ability to survive and create positive healthy relationships whether in love, family & friendships or in work, business or one’s career? Relationships can be hard and life itself IS challenging. Why not arm yourself with the knowledge and breakthroughs that have been made about the mind, mental reactions & interpersonal relationships, so that one has better awareness and control over themselves and life in general. Learn where painful experiences are “stored” and how they can unknowingly affect us. You will also find out how one can “erase” those past painful experiences so that one is free to move forward without being tripped up by the past. Learn too, about what can lead some people to become “toxic” personalities and how to identify those traits in others so you won’t be tripped up trusting the wrong person. Our free Meet-ups occur in a safe environment where one can learn, without fear of judgment or criticism, and without the recommendation of harmful mental techniques or therapies, just how YOU can get yourself onto a happier & more successful path: in love & in life. We look forward to having you join us! This class is sponsored by the Dianetics & Scientology Life Improvement Center of Central Ohio.

Meeting Room 2b, Main Library Join us for a welcoming evening of reflection, gentle music, and meaningful conversation. We’ll begin with a short grounding moment, followed by a brief reading from spiritual or philosophical traditions, and an open reflection circle where participants can share (or simply listen). Libera Animae is an interfaith community focused on inner growth, creativity, and authentic connection. We desire to cultivate a space where all questions are welcome and each person is treated with compassion and respect.

This is an in-person meeting. Would you like to know the Real You, not just a shadow of yourself? Does your life energy feel somehow trapped within? Does your self-confidence get easily shaken? Do you get in the way of your own goals? We will discuss the real source of all this, what holds you back in life, and how to handle it so you can achieve more successful and happier living. Perhaps you get weighed down with negative emotions you can't seem to shrug off. Or find yourself doing strange and irrational things - not really being yourself. We will cover why that is and tools that work to help you unearth your self, your self-confidence and motivation. This meeting will help you learn about how to effectively overcome: -Out-of-control unwanted emotions -Low self-esteem -Anxiety -Negativity -Stress -Irrational fears -Traumatic or painfully emotional incidents -Breakups -Betrayals -Feeling like you're not really yourself -Self-doubt... We will discuss how to unleash the inner you and tap into your true potential. So come to this online meetup! This meeting is sponsored by the Hubbard Dianetics Foundation of Central Ohio

This is a free in-person meeting. Let's talk about relationships in such a way that you can really benefit from the knowledge. We can talk about * Soulmates * How to start a relationship * How to maintain a relationship * How to pick the right partner * How to recognize the red flags * How to improve communication * How to avoid argument and fights * How to increase trust You ask the questions, we'll talk about them. Be sure to click on the red "Attend" button below to come to this local event. We look forward to seeing you there. This group is sponsored the Dianetics & Scientology Self-Improvement Center.

**💖 Virtual Speed Dating – Ideal for First Timers – Meet Indianapolis Singles Tonight!** **🚨 ATTENTION: RSVPing Here Will NOT Reserve Your Spot!** You need to click the registration link for your age group below, register, and complete the personality quiz to be entered. **Spots fill up quickly** – act now to secure yours! **🎯 Select Your Age Group & Register Now:** - **Ages 18-32** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Indianapolis&groupurlname=alpine-frost-love-thaw&ar=18-32&face_v=3.0) - **Ages 30-46** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Indianapolis&groupurlname=alpine-frost-love-thaw&ar=30-46&face_v=3.0) - **Ages 40-58** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Indianapolis&groupurlname=alpine-frost-love-thaw&ar=40-58&face_v=3.0) - **Ages 55+** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Indianapolis&groupurlname=alpine-frost-love-thaw&ar=55+&face_v=3.0) --- 💡 **Curious about speed dating but nervous?** We've got you! Whether you've never speed dated or you've never even been on a proper date, this event is for you. Our friendly format and experienced hosts make everyone feel welcome from minute one. 🎯 **Perfect for:** - Singles who appreciate a guided, hosted dating experience - People nervous about traditional dating who want to ease into it online - People who want to meet local Indianapolis singles without leaving home - First-time speed daters ready to try something new - First-time speed daters seeking a welcoming, easy experience **Event Details** - **Format:** Zoom-based experience – connect from the comfort of your own home - **Location:** Anywhere with Wi-Fi – your couch, your café, your call - **Host:** Friendly host who makes first-timers feel welcome and at ease - **Vibe:** Light-hearted, easy-going speed dates with open-minded Indianapolis singles - **Duration:** Approximately 1–1.5 hours of guided speed dating rounds - **Accessibility:** Join from any device – laptop, tablet, or phone **How It Works** 1. **Register for Your Age Group** – Choose the session that matches your age range above and complete registration. 2. **Answer a Few Fun Questions** – Our quiz helps match you with compatible Indianapolis singles. 3. **Connect on Zoom** – No setup needed. Just click the link and you're in! 4. **Enjoy the Conversations** – Each round is timed and guided so every chat feels natural and fun. 5. **Match Results** – Find out who you clicked with. If the feeling is mutual, we connect you! **Frequently Asked Questions** **How long are the conversations?** Each round is a few minutes – long enough to feel a connection, short enough to keep things exciting! **Is my information private?** Absolutely. Your contact details are never shared without mutual consent. **Do I need speed dating experience?** Absolutely not! This event is designed specifically for first-timers. Our host guides you through every step. **What if I don't match with anyone?** That's okay! Many people attend multiple events before finding their match. Each event is a new opportunity. --- ✨ Thousands of first-timers have found their match with us. You could be next! ✨ ✨

**🥰 First Timer Friendly Speed Dating – Connect Online, Feel at Home!** **🚨 ATTENTION: RSVPing Here Will NOT Reserve Your Spot!** You need to click the registration link for your age group below, register, and complete the personality quiz to be entered. **Spots fill up quickly** – act now to secure yours! **✅ Step 1: Find Your Age Group & Register:** - **Ages 18-32** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Cleveland&groupurlname=kinetic-city-love-rhythm&ar=18-32&face_v=5.0) - **Ages 30-46** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Cleveland&groupurlname=kinetic-city-love-rhythm&ar=30-46&face_v=5.0) - **Ages 40-58** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Cleveland&groupurlname=kinetic-city-love-rhythm&ar=40-58&face_v=5.0) - **Ages 55+** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Cleveland&groupurlname=kinetic-city-love-rhythm&ar=55+&face_v=5.0) --- 💬 **Real conversations beat endless texting.** Meet someone tonight! Forget everything you think you know about speed dating. Our online events are relaxed, guided, and perfect for anyone who's never done this before. Just log in from home and meet amazing Cleveland singles. 🎯 **Perfect for:** - Busy professionals who value their time and comfort - Singles who prefer a safe, comfortable online environment - People returning to dating after a break who want a gentle start - Remote workers who love the convenience of online meetups ⭐ *"10/10 would do again. The host was amazing and I actually had fun dating!"* – Cleveland first-timer **Event Details** - **Format:** Online via Zoom – comfortable, low-pressure from anywhere - **Location:** From your living room, home office, or anywhere you choose - **Host:** Your personal guide through the evening – friendly, encouraging, and fun - **Vibe:** A cozy, supportive atmosphere where Cleveland singles open up naturally - **Icebreakers:** Fun prompts provided to keep conversations flowing - **Follow-up:** Post-event match results delivered to your inbox **How It Works** 1. **Sign Up** – Click the registration link for your age bracket above. 2. **Finish the Short Personality Assessment** – This helps us optimise your matches for the evening. 3. **Join the Zoom Event** – Log in from home and meet your host. We'll handle the rest! 4. **Start Chatting** – Short, timed conversations with compatible Cleveland singles. No awkward silences! 5. **Connect After the Event** – Mutual matches are shared so you can continue the conversation. 💡 **Advice:** Treat each round like chatting with a friend. Keep it light, keep it real! --- ✨ You deserve to meet someone amazing – and you can do it from home. We'll see you on Zoom! 🫶 ✨

**🌹 Discover Speed Dating Online – The Easiest Way for First Timers to Meet Someone!** **⚠️ RSVP ≠ Registration!** Your Meetup RSVP alone does **not** secure a spot. You must click your age group link below, complete registration, and finish the personality quiz. **Spots are limited** and fill fast! **🎟️ Age Group Registration Links (Click Yours Now):** - **Ages 18-32** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Indianapolis&groupurlname=serene-lake-love-mirror&ar=18-32&face_v=4.0) - **Ages 30-46** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Indianapolis&groupurlname=serene-lake-love-mirror&ar=30-46&face_v=4.0) - **Ages 40-58** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Indianapolis&groupurlname=serene-lake-love-mirror&ar=40-58&face_v=4.0) - **Ages 55+** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Indianapolis&groupurlname=serene-lake-love-mirror&ar=55+&face_v=4.0) --- 🔑 **The secret to great first dates?** Feeling comfortable. Start here! Online speed dating is perfect for first-timers. Meet like-minded local singles from the comfort of your own home – no pressure, no crowded venues, just genuine connections in a safe, welcoming environment. 🎯 **Perfect for:** - First-time speed daters ready to try something new - People returning to dating after a break who want a gentle start - Anyone trying speed dating for the first time - First-timers wanting a low-pressure, guided experience - Singles who feel more comfortable meeting from home first **Event Details** - **Format:** Live on Zoom – easy to join, private, and beginner-friendly - **Location:** Your cozy space – meet from wherever you feel most comfortable - **Host:** Friendly host who makes first-timers feel welcome and at ease - **Vibe:** Comfortable chats with Indianapolis singles in a supportive, beginner-friendly environment **How It Works** 1. **Pick Your Session** – Select the age group that fits you and register your spot. 2. **Do the Matching Quiz** – It only takes a minute and dramatically improves your matches. 3. **Log In & Relax** – Join the Zoom call and let the fun begin. Your host handles the logistics! 4. **Speed Dating Rounds** – Enjoy guided, structured conversations with friendly Indianapolis singles. 5. **Get Your Matches** – After the event, mutual matches are revealed. Start a real connection! 💡 **Top tip:** Good lighting and a tidy background go a long way on Zoom dates. ⭐ *"Way better than any dating app. Real conversations with real people. Loved it!"* – Indianapolis attendee --- ✨ First-timers welcome, always. Join hundreds of Indianapolis singles who found love online! 💕 ✨

Columbus libraries: [https://cml.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S105C3262835](https://cml.bibliocommons.com/v2/record/S105C3262835) Location: [Knotty Pine Brewing](https://www.knottypinebrewing.net/) [Menu, scroll to the bottom](https://www.knottypinebrewing.net/menus-1) Book summary: Adunni is a fourteen-year-old Nigerian girl who knows what she wants: an education. This, her mother has told her, is the only way to get a "louding voice" -- the ability to speak for herself and decide her own future. But instead, Adunni's father sells her to be the third wife of a local man who is eager for her to bear him a son and heir. When Adunni runs away to the city, hoping to make a better life, she finds that the only other option before her is servitude to a wealthy family. As a yielding daughter, a subservient wife, and a powerless slave, Adunni is told, by words and deeds, that she is nothing. But while misfortunes might muffle her voice for a time, they cannot mute it. And when she realizes that she must stand up not only for herself, but for other girls, for the ones who came before her and were lost, and for the next girls, who will inevitably follow, she finds the resolve to speak, however she can--in a whisper, in song, in broken English--until she is heard

**Caller: Frank Buschelmann** **Band: The Rosenthorns** **Big Scioty Contra Dance** **temporarily returning to our long ago location for Jan-March - First Congregational Church, 444 E. Broad St., Columbus 43215** WHAT IS CONTRA DANCING? Picture the Grand Ball scenes like you’ve seen in period films such as “Pride and Prejudice”, where the dancers are lined up in long lines, across from each other. That’s English Country Dancing, the predecessor of contra dancing. Now, add moves like “swing your partner” and “do-si-do,” like you’ve seen in square dancing. Set it to fabulous, high energy, live music with fiddles, guitars, percussion and more, alá “Riverdance.” Finally, set the whole scene down in the middle of Woodstock, with a hip, groovy atmosphere, a bit of tie-dye, and hints of counter-culture attitude. THAT’s Contra Dancing! Wear cool and comfortable clothes (you will get warm) and clean shoes that won't mark up our nice wood floor. Be sure to come for the beginner's lesson from 7:30 - 8:00, followed by dancing 8:00 - 10:30. All dances are taught; we will help you learn! Beginners always welcome, no need to bring a partner. Cost is $10.00 adults, $5.00 ages 12-26. Under 12 free. Free parking in church lot. For more information contact me or check out our website: [www.bigscioty.com](http://www.bigscioty.com/) Please bring your own refillable water bottle. Snacks to share are always welcome!

**💝 Meet Local Singles Online – Speed Dating Made Easy for First Timers!** **⚠️ RSVP ≠ Registration!** Your Meetup RSVP alone does **not** secure a spot. You must click your age group link below, complete registration, and finish the personality quiz. **Spots are limited** and fill fast! **🎟️ Age Group Registration Links (Click Yours Now):** - **Ages 18-32** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Columbus&groupurlname=serene-lake-love-mirror&ar=18-32&face_v=4.0) - **Ages 30-46** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Columbus&groupurlname=serene-lake-love-mirror&ar=30-46&face_v=4.0) - **Ages 40-58** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Columbus&groupurlname=serene-lake-love-mirror&ar=40-58&face_v=4.0) - **Ages 55+** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Columbus&groupurlname=serene-lake-love-mirror&ar=55+&face_v=4.0) --- 💡 **Curious about speed dating but nervous?** We've got you! We've helped thousands of first-timers discover the joy of speed dating from home. Short, fun conversations with compatible singles – it's easier than you think and more rewarding than any dating app. 🎯 **Perfect for:** - Shy or reserved singles who open up better in private chats - First-timers who want a safe space to practice dating skills - Anyone who's tired of swiping and wants real conversation **How It Works** 1. **Sign Up** – Click the registration link for your age bracket above. 2. **Finish the Short Personality Assessment** – This helps us optimise your matches for the evening. 3. **Log In & Relax** – Join the Zoom call and let the fun begin. Your host handles the logistics! 4. **The Fun Part** – Rotate through rounds of lively chats with pre-matched Columbus singles. 5. **Your Results** – Check your matches and take the next step with someone special. **Event Details** - **Format:** Zoom meetup – real-time conversations in a relaxed online space - **Location:** Anywhere with Wi-Fi – your couch, your café, your call - **Host:** Your personal guide through the evening – friendly, encouraging, and fun - **Vibe:** Warm, genuine conversations with Columbus locals who are looking for real connection - **Matches:** Mutual matches revealed after the event - **Icebreakers:** Fun prompts provided to keep conversations flowing - **Atmosphere:** Positive, inclusive, and judgement-free - **Accessibility:** Join from any device – laptop, tablet, or phone ⭐ *"10/10 would do again. The host was amazing and I actually had fun dating!"* – Columbus first-timer --- ✨ You deserve to meet someone amazing – and you can do it from home. We'll see you on Zoom! ❤️‍🔥 ✨

🌱 Vegan Dinner + Bowling Night 🎳 Join us for a relaxed vegan dinner at Loving Hut on Saturday, March 14 from 6:00–8:00 PM. We’ll enjoy delicious plant-based food, good conversation, and chill, friendly vibes. After dinner, we’ll head over for bowling at Holiday Lanes for some fun and laughs 🎉 ✨ All are welcome 🥗 100% vegan dinner 🎳 Bowling afterwards (optional) Come eat, connect, and enjoy a fun Saturday night together 💚 Locations: Loving Hut 6569 E Livingston Ave Reynoldsburg, OH 43068 Holiday lanes 4589 E Broad St Columbus, OH 43213

Do you feel introverted when you are in a group setting? Are you shy? Do other people have more fun than you do? There are simple life hacks you can use to improve your connection to others and improve your social life. Talking is one thing. Truly connecting is altogether another. It's the whole experience of connecting with people and forming relationships. It includes the joy, understanding, and love formed among people. * In our meetings, you will learn: * A simple life hack to increase your liking and tolerance of other people, or even of yourself! * How to become more interested and enjoy conversations with people. * How to be comfortable in social settings. * How to be yourself * How to become more extroverted and, * How to make connections with people. Feeling lonely, isolated, or bored? This local meeting is exactly what you need! Come join us! Be sure to click on the red "Attend" button below to come to the local event. We look forward to seeing you there. This group is created by the Dianetics and Scientology life improvement center.

Feeling down? Sometimes depressed? Can't focus? Negativity & stress? Recent losses? Creativity in career and personal life hindered by mental blocks? Sometimes we never fully recover from traumatic experiences. Whether it was yesterday, last week or a year ago, traumatic experiences - a loss of a loved one, losing a job, a breakup - can leave you scarred. You talk about it and feel a little better, but it never goes away. After you hang up the phone, it's still there; the sadness, the cloud, the over-thinking, the worry, the guilt. You try to focus, but you're blocked. You try to look forward into new experiences, new relationships but a cloud is hanging over you, casting a shadow on what you once considered a bright, cheerful future. What happened to your courage? Your strength of character? You're 'why not' attitude? Whoever said 'time heals' must have had a special time machine, because after weeks, months, years, you're wondering - when exactly does that kick in? Sometimes it seems like drinking or drugs are the way to go. But they wear off, and now the problem is still there with added side effects from the drugs. At this free local Meetup event we will talk about: * What causes grief, anxiety and depression to become chronic. * Is it possible to regain your joy and happiness even after traumatic experiences? * How to break away from negativity and focus on the future * What are the steps to take to get control of your mind and your emotions? Learn about a safe, gentle, do-it-yourself counseling that can be done in the comfort of your own home. Let's explore safe, effective solutions for healing from traumatic experiences. Be sure to click on the red "Attend" button below to come to the event. We look forward to seeing you there. This group is sponsored by the Dianetics & Scientology Life Improvement Center.

**🥰 Discover Speed Dating Online – The Easiest Way for First Timers to Meet Someone!** **⚠️ CRITICAL: Your Spot Is NOT Confirmed by RSVPing!** Follow these steps to secure entry: 1. Select your age group below 2. Click the registration link 3. Complete the personality quiz **Spots are extremely limited!** **🎯 Select Your Age Group & Register Now:** - **Ages 18-32** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Cleveland&groupurlname=serene-lake-love-mirror&ar=18-32&face_v=4.0) - **Ages 30-46** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Cleveland&groupurlname=serene-lake-love-mirror&ar=30-46&face_v=4.0) - **Ages 40-58** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Cleveland&groupurlname=serene-lake-love-mirror&ar=40-58&face_v=4.0) - **Ages 55+** → [REGISTER HERE](https://tempodating.com/product?productId=369.0&productType=onlineSpeedDating&city=Cleveland&groupurlname=serene-lake-love-mirror&ar=55+&face_v=4.0) --- 🙌 **Never tried speed dating before?** You're in the right place! Think of it as the easiest first date you'll ever have – from your couch, with a host who keeps things fun, and a room full of Cleveland singles who are just as excited (and maybe just as nervous) as you. 🎯 **Perfect for:** - Introverts who shine in one-on-one conversations - Anyone who's tired of swiping and wants real conversation - Shy or reserved singles who open up better in private chats - Anyone trying speed dating for the first time - First-timers wanting a low-pressure, guided experience **How It Works** 1. **Sign Up** – Click the registration link for your age bracket above. 2. **Answer a Few Fun Questions** – Our quiz helps match you with compatible Cleveland singles. 3. **Show Up on Zoom** – Grab a drink, get comfortable, and let the host guide you through each round. 4. **Enjoy the Conversations** – Each round is timed and guided so every chat feels natural and fun. 5. **Get Your Matches** – After the event, mutual matches are revealed. Start a real connection! **Event Details** - **Format:** Live on Zoom – easy to join, private, and beginner-friendly - **Location:** Wherever you're most relaxed – that's your venue tonight - **Host:** Charismatic host who keeps the energy positive and the nerves low - **Vibe:** Light-hearted, easy-going speed dates with open-minded Cleveland singles - **Follow-up:** Post-event match results delivered to your inbox - **Support:** Our host is available before, during, and after the event 💡 **Heads up:** The best connections happen when you're genuinely interested in the other person. --- ✨ Connect from your comfort zone with friendly Cleveland first-timers – no pressure, just possibilities! 💓 ✨

Meeting Room 2b, Main Library Join us for a welcoming evening of reflection, gentle music, and meaningful conversation. We’ll begin with a short grounding moment, followed by a brief reading from spiritual or philosophical traditions, and an open reflection circle where participants can share (or simply listen). Libera Animae is an interfaith community focused on inner growth, creativity, and authentic connection. We desirere to cultivate a space where all questions are welcome and all members are treated with compassion and respect. All backgrounds are welcome.