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Having failed to meet for a discussion of how to outwit the Devil (a curious book that was - thanks for the suggestion Anna!), the organizer of this book club felt pretty much left to his own devices for picking a new book. So, while we have read quite a few sci-fi books in this book club, we haven't read much fantasy at all. Kerstin Hall's Asunder (which is another word for apart, as in "those whom God hath joined together let no man put asunder") seemed interesting, and not only because it was a finalist for both the Nebula Award in the novel category, in 2024, and the Locus Award in the Fantasy Novel category, in 2025. The review space seems to be pretty positive about this novel, but of course it is always possible to find a reviewer that had their rigid expectations totally misaligned. From what I've taken to heart, I expect Asunder to be a thoughtful novel, complex and deep. It ought also be a fast-paced, tense ride through a world that doesn’t hold back from glittering weirdness. Luxury travel in the bellies of dimension-hoping spiders, weapons that turn a person inside out, trains that run on rails made of light, drugs made from the corpses of dead gods, god­like beings with hundreds of wings and faces in their groins: the author is said to hold back neither wonder nor horror. The book is also said to put Hall’s skill and control of the narrative on display. On the more down-to-earth side Asunder seems to be a novel interested in the consequences of desperate choices. All of the major characters have made choices that they were driven to by their circumstances: All of them have been, or are, trapped in some way by the consequences (foreseen or otherwise) of those choices. Should thus be an interesting book for both dreamers and cynics - I thought. It's also written by a young (couldn't find her exact age) author born in South Africa, and peering into the minds of different people and see what they think is worth writing about is always fun. "Immensely enjoyable. Kerstin Hall’s writing is simply awesome." — Ann Leckie. I was actually also considering the first Imperial Radch book (Ancillary Justice) - by Ann Leckie - as it's supposed to be good. But, being a few years old now I figured that some might have already read it. In addition - as stated above -, we've read quite a few sci-fi books in this club already. We like to expand our horizons! Goodreads sells the book as follows: \`\` We choose our own gods here. Karys Eska is a deathspeaker, locked into an irrevocable compact with Sabaster, a terrifying eldritch entity—three-faced, hundred-winged, unforgiving—who has granted her the ability to communicate with the newly departed. She pays the rent by using her abilities to investigate suspicious deaths around the troubled city she calls home. When a job goes sideways and connects her to a dying stranger with dangerous secrets, her entire world is upended. Ferain is willing to pay a ludicrous sum of money for her help. To save him, Karys inadvertently binds him to her shadow, an act that may doom them both. If they want to survive, they will need to learn to trust one another. Together, they journey to the heart of a faded empire, all the while haunted by arcane horrors and the unquiet ghosts of their pasts. And all too soon, Karys knows her debts will come due. \`\` The hardcover book, published by Tor, is 432 pages, while the audiobook, published by Recorded Books, is nineteen hours and thirty-four minutes.

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**Copenhagen Language Exchange – Free Monthly Meetup** Join us for Copenhagen’s international language exchange night! 🌍 This is a relaxed, social meetup where locals and internationals come together to practice languages, meet new people, and have great conversations. We meet on the **first Monday of every month from 19:00 to 22:00**. It’s **free to join**, and everyone is welcome — whether you’re a complete beginner or a fluent speaker. ### What to expect * Casual conversations in different languages * Meet people from many countries and cultures * Practice speaking in a friendly, supportive environment * No teachers, no pressure — just real conversations When you arrive, you’ll be welcomed by one of our **Swaplanguage Ambassadors**. They’ll help you feel comfortable, introduce you to others, and show you how you can get started learning and practicing languages on **swaplanguage.com**. You can speak any language you like — English, Danish, Spanish, French, German, or anything else people bring. Come alone or bring a friend — you’ll always find someone to talk to. We look forward to seeing you! 😊

Ready to be touched, letting the divine masculine meet the divine feminine, melting into love and pleasure? The Melting Monday is a workshop designed to support you by exploring some of the most important issues on your Live&Love Path. • Relating to your own and opposite gender • Non verbal communication • Intimacy • Playfulness • Sensuality • Opening your heart • Sharpen your senses • Spiritual Questions • Knowing your limits • Knowing yourself better • Body Wisdom We will laugh, explore, express, connect, understand, dance, touch - receive and give. We will share precious moments of presence and pure joy. Each person is a major part of this journey. We will guide you trough dance - meditations, polarity exercises, energy exercises, breath practice, awareness exercises, relaxation, eye-gazing and communication tools to support you to unfold your inner beauty. A great opportunity to explore your heart’s longings, your bodily reactions, to get to know your limits and learn how to settle them. It is a place for nourishment and relaxation. No two classes will ever be the same. It's all about you and how you want to relate to yourself and others. The format is designed to explore many ways to grow and open your life in deeper, realistic ways inspired by the Tantric approach. All levels of experience are welcome. The journey of Melting begins now... Please sign up (registration is required) at: tantra@tantrazone.dk, latest Sunday 20:00 o'clock! Please note!!!! - Limited number of participants, to guarantee optimal Melting More info at: www.c-h-a-i.dk or www.tantrazone.dk or get IN TOUCH with us:-) tantra@tantrazone.dk +45 2627 4467 Diana Diakova +45 2680 1046 Martin Heese

**NEW LOCATION - STUDIEFÖRBUNDET VUXENSKOLAN** **Speak from the Heart: Find Your Voice with Malmö Toastmasters** **Ever wish you could speak confidently on stage, but feel nervous or self-conscious?** If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re “good enough” to be heard, you are not alone. At Malmö Toastmasters, we’ve all felt those butterflies and that’s exactly why our community exists! **Imagine this:** What if, instead of worrying about performing perfectly; you simply spoke from the heart about a cause, dream, or idea that truly matters to you? When you share what inspires you, you take the focus off yourself and let your passion shine through. It’s not about flawless delivery. It’s about being genuine and sharing your story. At Malmö Toastmasters, we believe everyone has something meaningful to say. We’re here to help you find your voice, grow your confidence, and make your message heard. Whether you’re championing a cause or just want to develop new skills, this is a welcoming space for you to practice, connect, and flourish. **Join us and discover:** * A supportive, friendly community * Encouragement and constructive feedback * Inspiring stories from fellow members * A safe space to practice public speaking regardless of your experience level! Turn nervous energy into a message that can move and motivate others. Your story could be just what someone else needs to hear. 🤝 As a member of Malmö Toastmasters, you'll join a community of like-minded individuals working towards the same goal: to become world-class communicators and leaders. 😊 As a guest, you'll have the opportunity to observe and participate in our meetings (voluntarily). Note that you will not be forced to speak if you don't want to. 📍 **WHERE:** Studieförbundet Vuxenskolan [ROOM EKEN], Grynbodgatan 20, 211 33 Malmö 🗓️ **WHEN:** Every other Monday ⏰ **TIME:** 17:45 – 19:45 **Ready to step into the spotlight? We can’t wait to welcome you! 💖** 📧 **Email:** malmotoastmasters@protonmail.com Facebook: [Malmö Toastmasters Facebook](https://www.facebook.com/MalmoToastmasters) LinkedIn: [Malmö Toastmasters LinkedIn](linkedin.com/company/malmotoastmasters)

**Tired of small talk? Come meet new people meaningfully - the Authentic You Me way!** Are you... ...new to the city, a local, been here for a while or recently returned? ...looking to develop new meaningful friendships? ...tired of repeating yourself on "how long have you been here?" "so...what do you do?" questions at traditional networking events? ...craving for more deep conversations that go beyond the small talk? ...feeling a little lonely or out of place lately? ...on the look out for a new tribe cos your friends have either moved away or are busy with new phases in life? ...simply want to take your social networking skills to the next level? …and on top of that… \*You are 35+ and wondering where people your age hang out? If you have answered yes to two or more of the above, then you have come to the right place. **Welcome to Authentic You Me** We often hear how difficult it can be to make new friends as an adult and particularly when moving abroad; or when rebuilding social circles cos old friends have moved away or onto new life phases. Socialising attempts often mean standing in a crowded room, wearing a polite smile, and answering the same three questions: *"What do you do?" "Where are you from?" "How long have you been here?"* Great for breaking the ice, but rarely leading to something inspiring or meaningful. It’s exhausting. It feels like a performance. While the absence of meaningful connections can sometimes leave us feeling a little lonely or like we don't belong. **Authentic You Me** *was born with a desire to change that.* \-\-\- **Welcome to** **Authentic You Me**, we create intentional socials we coined as **Slow Friending** \- our own thoughtful\, refreshing and carefully crafted way of changing how we meet and connect with others\. **Join me** for a carefully and lovingly curated slow-friending evening that is all about embracing your authentic self, connecting on a deeper level with like-minded people, challenging your perspective and sparking curiosity through stimulating conversations – all in a welcoming, non-intimidating setting. Designed to suit both introverts & extroverts. . **Please note this is a mission-led PAID event** Please book your ticket by clicking [here](https://aymlon040326.eventbrite.co.uk) . . **What to expect** 🟡A welcoming, inclusive & non-intimidating atmosphere, suited to both introverts & extroverts 🟡A carefully curated and expertly facilitated experience that fosters authentic connection and fun interactions 🟡Thoughtful conversation prompts that feel engaging, spark fresh perspectives and are surprisingly easy to step into 🟡Opportunity to meet, mix and engage with various like-minded people throughout the evening 🟡 Walk away with new found friendships and brushing up on interpersonal skills that may help improve your relationships: in friendships, romance, or work . **Agenda** 17:30 Doors open for sign-in and optional pre-social mingling 18:00 Official event kick-off & intro 18:15 Programme Part 1 19:20 Programme Part 2 20:25 Programme wrap-up *Optional after-drinks hangout for those who want to keep the good vibes going. Plus 25% off on selected food & drinks throughout.* **Who you will meet** \*A set of likeminded professionals - internationals, globally-minded locals and repats; typically in their 35s +, and who are seeking authentic connection. . . **No over-crowding. Intentionally limited to a few seats only. Don't delay in confirming your place.** . Come alone, with a partner or a friend. All nationalities and genders are welcome. **Exact address to be shared via email 24-48 hours before the event. Keep in eye on your inboxes incl. spam folders.** See you there! \*Please note that tickets are non-refundable #AuthenticYouMe #AYM #SlowFriending #SlowFriendingbyAYM #MeaningfulConnections #Meaningfulconversations #BelongingAbroad #RealTalkOnly #AYMCommunity #ExpatLife #MeetNewPeople #Authentic #IntentionalConnecting #LifeAbroad #EventsInCopenhagen #CPH #Copenhagen #ThingstodoCPH #Networking #NewinTown

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Hey MTB enthusiast! We ride in the forests around Copenhagen. Equipment: - Mountain bike - Helmet - Water - Some snacks. Place: - TBD before the event (normally a MTB trail in a forest north of Copenhagen) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G-MtJlSlJYg Please update your RSVP accordingly. Thank you and see you soon https://secure.meetupstatic.com/s/img/614102232183174521616/smileys/wink.gif https://secure.meetupstatic.com/photos/event/2/e/7/9/event_464231897.jpeg

Fulfillment. Joy. – Do you know what it is? Do you feel it now? Many of us are living lives that have “just sort of happened”. We had a dream, a vision (maybe we still do) for what we wanted our lives to look like. Somewhere along the way, life took over and something else ended up happening. We made decisions, took a turn down a path, and now our life isn’t what we thought it would be. Or we’re living someone else’s life. Maybe it’s what our parent’s wanted for us. What we believe our partner or a potential partner might want. Or maybe it’s what we believe we need to do and have to be happy. I was one of these people. My life checked all the boxes for what I thought I needed in order to be happy. And still, I wasn’t. Join me for a coffee talk on what it means to live a Life By Design. Where your choices are deliberate and based on your authentic, true self. What you have to let go off to achieve this (hint: the notion that vulnerability is a weakness and feelings of fear and guilt) and who you will become in the process.

Booked pitch at Holmen. Pitch is booked until 14.30 💰 **Cost:** 10 kr Mobilepay: 9539SH Revolut: [revolut.me/frederwnn](https://revolut.me/frederwnn) Or bring Cash * Event begins at 12:45 * You must sign out no later than 9:00 * Spots are non-transferable (you cannot reserve a spot and send someone else in your place) * Members who follow the rules and attend regularly will be given priority **Be at the pitch at 12.45 sharp!** Minimum 14 players and we play! We aim for 8v8 The game is naturally for everyone no matter gender, level or anything. We emphasise on having fun! That also means no risky tackles or foul language. Bring a white and a black t-shirt and a ball if you have one. **Last minute sign-off's** (Later than 9AM on the same day) or no-shows will be banned from the next game and be put in the no-show list. 3 Strikes and you're out for a full year - no exceptions. See the list here: [No-shows @ Football.xlsx](https://kpdk-my.sharepoint.com/:x:/g/personal/hems_kp_dk/ETJW3_gniv1BmbKjidmn31wB9SFCobvhySRDW5fXSdc9Lg?e=lCafbH)

Let's gather in the evening to take a short break from work, studies and other activities. Come and join for a coffee and to have a relaxed moment, meet new people and make new connections. We will meet at Waynes Coffee at city center, in Malmö. There you can order drinks and something to eat, if you wish so. Meeting point: Waynes Coffee Address: Södra Förstadsgatan 10A, Malmö See you there!

Hej! Copenhagen’s not just cozy — it’s cosmopolitan too. [[Click this whatsapp groupchat link to join us](https://chat.whatsapp.com/HAJbRQkiuZKFtvdqBeVy4w)] Our Saturday 7:30 PM meetups gather 20–30-somethings who love international connections. Expect warm vibes, open minds, and a seat at the table for everyone. Come join the city’s most hyggeligt hangout. join us!!

Join us for a casual chat over coffee & tea at Porter’s Coffee House. Come out and meet some new people, enjoy your favorite drink, and make some new friends!

This meeting will be an open discussion about the book "an Immense World" by Ed Yong

Wouldn’t it be nice to find a way to overcome your feelings of anger so that you not only control them, but you no longer have the urge to lose your temper in the first place? And how about being able to shake off resentments, persistent annoyance, or even feelings of vengeance? We’d like to invite you to an event on how to overcome anger and resentment. We will show you why people have trouble controlling their temper and where resentment comes from. Flaring anger can ruin a meeting, a relationship, an opportunity, or just about any aspect of life. Worst of all, outbursts towards our family can create hurt that lingers throughout a lifetime. You want to have a civil conversation, and you’ve vowed that you wouldn’t lose your temper, but a few minutes later, the anger flares up. Maybe you’ve realized that being angry doesn’t get you what you want so you internalize it. Or maybe you avoid the knockdown, drag-out fights, but stewing in resentment is exhausting and takes an emotional toll. In this event we show you how to get to the root of your anger so that it stops being an issue to you. You’ll also learn why people harbor resentments and how to move on. Don't continue to struggle, make a difference in your life, and join us for this local event. Be sure to click on the red "Attend" button below to come to the event. We look forward to seeing you there. This Meetup is sponsored by your local Dianetics and Scientology Life Improvement Center.

Do toxic people weigh you down? Affect your happiness? How can having toxic relationships affect your Health? And moreover, how can you spot them before it’s too late? Attend this in-person meeting to find out how to spot these people and remove their negative emotions from your life. This event is hosted by The Dianetics and Scientology Life Improvement Center in Central Ohio.

**Caller: Frank Buschelmann** **Band: The Rosenthorns** **Big Scioty Contra Dance** **temporarily returning to our long ago location for Jan-March - First Congregational Church, 444 E. Broad St., Columbus 43215** WHAT IS CONTRA DANCING? Picture the Grand Ball scenes like you’ve seen in period films such as “Pride and Prejudice”, where the dancers are lined up in long lines, across from each other. That’s English Country Dancing, the predecessor of contra dancing. Now, add moves like “swing your partner” and “do-si-do,” like you’ve seen in square dancing. Set it to fabulous, high energy, live music with fiddles, guitars, percussion and more, alá “Riverdance.” Finally, set the whole scene down in the middle of Woodstock, with a hip, groovy atmosphere, a bit of tie-dye, and hints of counter-culture attitude. THAT’s Contra Dancing! Wear cool and comfortable clothes (you will get warm) and clean shoes that won't mark up our nice wood floor. Be sure to come for the beginner's lesson from 7:30 - 8:00, followed by dancing 8:00 - 10:30. All dances are taught; we will help you learn! Beginners always welcome, no need to bring a partner. Cost is $10.00 adults, $5.00 ages 12-26. Under 12 free. Free parking in church lot. For more information contact me or check out our website: [www.bigscioty.com](http://www.bigscioty.com/) Please bring your own refillable water bottle. Snacks to share are always welcome!

[The Board Walks](http://www.theboardwalks.com/) are for curious people who love deep conversations. If that sounds like you, **bring a thoughtful topic** and join us for a 5-mile walk (10,000+ steps!). **HOW IT WORKS** **Step 1: Bring a topic** Before you arrive, think of **one** topic you want to explore. A question. A thought that's been on your mind. An obsession you want to geek out on. This is your ticket to the event. **Step 2: Circle up & share** We gather in a circle. Your friendly walk host gives a speech to set the tone. Everyone shares: your name, what you're grateful for, and your topic. That's it. 60 seconds. **Step 3: Walk, talk & float** We walk 5 miles. You naturally drift into conversation with 2-3 people at a time, pulled by topics that spark your curiosity. When you're ready to move on, just say: "I'm going to float!" **Step 4: Feel more alive** Two hours flies by. You're back where you started — but you feel different. More alive. More energized. More connected to yourself and others. That's why regulars join 20+ times. *For more details, read our [Orientation Guide.](https://www.theboardwalks.com/orientation)* **HOW TO BRING A GREAT TOPIC** A great topic = something you're genuinely curious about. Recent topics include: * "What are you passionate about right now?" * "What makes a good friend?" * "What's a belief you used to hold that you've completely changed?" * "How do you want to be remembered?" * "What would you do if money wasn't a factor?" Think of your topic like the dish you're bringing to our conversational potluck. If everyone brings an A+ dish (i.e. energizing, uplifting, expansive), we'll all walk away feeling lighter and brighter. **WHAT TO EXPECT** This isn't a fitness event with casual chitchat. It's a walking think tank where we explore life's big questions together, beyond small talk. *If you're looking for light banter or a standard networking event, this probably isn't the right fit.* But if you crave depth, genuine connection, and conversations that make you feel alive? You'll love it here. **FAQ** * Wear casual athletic attire and sneakers. It's a long walk! * We have multiple first-timers at each event. We work hard to create a welcoming, inclusive, clique-free space. * We welcome people of **all** ages, backgrounds, and industries who align with the [intention](https://www.theboardwalks.com/ground-rules) of this space. * Rain or shine, we've been out here nearly every week since July 2022. If the event is cancelled, we'll let you know. * Dogs, babies in strollers, parents, and friends are welcome — please text/email them the event link so they can RSVP and prepare a topic! **LOGISTICS** * If you'll arrive over 10 minutes late, we suggest skipping the event. It's hard to find us once we start walking, and your host can't answer messages during the event. * This walk is designed for everyone to *move together at the same steady pace* (about 20 min/mile). This format works best when the whole group moves in unison. If you have mobility limitations, we kindly encourage you to find an event better suited to your needs. * Read our [Orientation Guide](https://www.theboardwalks.com/orientation) for full details. * If you enjoy the event, send **[this](http://www.theboardwalks.com/)** to a friend or sign up for our **[newsletter](https://theboardwalks.beehiiv.com/)**. We're in multiple cities with more on the way. 🤠👋 **IF YOU WANT TO GO DEEPER...** [The Board](https://stan.store/ellebeecher/p/the-board) is the next step: a high-trust collective for renaissance people devoted to creating, connecting, and building lives that light us up. * This is a global HQ for people who crave big talk, deep connection, and dream collaborations with people across industries. If the walks feel like a spark... The Board is the fire. Apply [here](https://stan.store/ellebeecher/p/the-board).