Moving Toward Coherence: Personally, Relationally, & Collectively

Moving Toward Coherence: Personally, Relationally, and Collectively

In light of the growing tensions in the Twin Cities, we are choosing to pause, gather, and tend to the relational fabric that holds us together. We invite you to this gathering to ground ourselves and orient toward coherence—within ourselves and with one another. It is an intentional relational space for listening, reflection, and shared humanity.

Together, we will explore a small set of powerful, grounding questions and practice deep listening to share our hopes, fears, and lived experiences that often remain unspoken. We will focus on how we are personally experiencing what is unfolding and acknowledge how our inner states may ripple into our families, communities, and collective life.

This space is for anyone feeling the weight of disconnection, uncertainty, grief, or concern—and who wants to stay human, present, and relational in the midst of it. This is not a debate, forum for advice or problem-solving session.

You do not need the right words. You do not need certainty. You only need a willingness to show up with care and curiosity.

Shared Intention
We gather with the intention to move toward coherence rather than division—by listening deeply, honoring lived experience, and staying present to one another as human beings. We commit to meeting this moment with care, humility, and respect, recognizing that personal coherence and collective healing are inseparable.

Tribe of One Love Community Guidelines

• We are rooted in love, curiosity, and growth.
  We’re here to reflect, share, and expand our awareness together—not to debate, persuade, or convert.
• We are here to practice unity through shared humanity. We choose language and ways of relating that support connection and understanding, and we avoid us-vs-them framing or language that dehumanizes, morally sorts, or pressures others into positions.
• We are a nonpartisan, non-denominational space.
  People from all walks of life are welcome. Personal experiences may include politics or religion, but no ideology—political, religious, or otherwise—should be promoted or belittled.
• We show up as both teachers and students.
  Please review any shared resources before the session. We look forward to hearing your reflections, reactions, and perspectives. While we explore different perspectives, you are encouraged to take in what speaks to you and release what doesn’t.
• Speak from personal experience.
  Use “I” language. Share what’s true for you without trying to fix, assume, advise, or preach—unless invited. Avoid stating opinions as facts. When you frame your truth as your experience, it leaves room for others to share theirs.
• Avoid assumptions.
  Don’t assume others share your background, values, or beliefs. Our diversity is a strength. Speaking as if we all think alike can make others feel excluded or unsafe.
• Honor the complexity of healing.
  Healing is nuanced, layered, and deeply personal. With a trauma-informed lens, we recognize that it unfolds across mental, emotional, relational, and biological dimensions. Because of this, we avoid promoting formulaic or one-size-fits-all paths.
• You are welcome to bring your real experiences—with purpose.
  If you’ve ever felt unseen, misunderstood, or worn down by life and the state of the world, you are not alone. Bring what’s real in the spirit of healing and learning. We name pain, not to vent or complain without direction, but to seek clarity, understanding, and transformation.
• Practice equity of voice.
  Be mindful of how much space you’re holding. If you speak often, consider stepping back. If you’re usually quiet, know your voice matters—we’d love to hear from you.
• Welcome disagreements as part of growth.
  When conflict arises, pause. Acknowledge what others are sharing, and respond with curiosity, not certainty. Aim for connection, not correction.
• Let this space ripple outward.
  What’s learned here, we hope transforms not only ourselves, but our families, communities, and beyond. This space is sacred—not because it is perfect, but because we hold it together.

Thank you for visiting!

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