
About us
Adulting is hard. Making new friends as an adult? Even harder.
That’s why I started this group for 20 and 30 somethings in Central NJ who are trying their best to figure out this whole “grown-up” thing… and want some good company while doing it.
Whether you're new to the area, starting a new chapter, or just looking to expand your social circle beyond coworkers and cousins you’re welcome here.
We’ll host a mix of chill and fun events like:
– Game nights & trivia
– Group hikes & park picnics
– Brewery or coffee shop meetups
– Movie nights, beach days, or even board game brunches
– Occasional volunteer outings, too (because we’re trying to be decent humans)
Expect a low-pressure vibe, good conversations, and a group of people who don’t pretend to have it all figured out.
Want to stay connected between events?
Join our Discord server to chat, share ideas, and keep the conversations going outside of Meetup: 👉 https://discord.gg/aUJxQX83Uc
Facebook: 👉 https://www.facebook.com/share/1DM4gcCUNY/?mibextid=wwXIfr
Instagram: 👉 https://www.instagram.com/tryingourbesttoadultcnj/
All we ask:
– Be kind, inclusive, and down-to-earth
– Have a clear profile picture so we know you're real
– Bring good vibes and an open mind
Got ideas or want to host something? There is a thread on the discord for just that!
Welcome to the crew. We’re all Trying Our Best To Adult 😅
Upcoming events
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🍷🧁 Sip, Savor & Socialize: A Valentine’s Singles Night (20s & 30s)
Working Dog Winery, 610 Windsor Perrineville Road, Robbinsville, NJ, USJoin us for a fun and relaxed Valentine’s Day singles social designed specifically for people in their 20s and 30s. This is a one-off event created especially for Valentine’s Day, as our group does not typically host singles-focused events.
This event is co-hosted with Working Dog Winery and focuses on connection, conversation, and enjoying a great night out, without the pressure of traditional dating events.
What to expect:
- A guided wine and cupcake pairing with four 2oz pours and four cupcakes from House of Cupcakes in Princeton
- Light, structured mingling activities designed to encourage conversation and movement
- Plenty of open social time to relax, chat, and reconnect with people you enjoyed meeting
- A comfortable, welcoming environment that is social and low pressure
This is not a speed dating or matchmaking event. The goal is simple: enjoy good wine, great desserts, and easy conversation with new people in a fun Valentine’s setting.
Important notes:
- This event is intended for singles in their 20s and 30s
- Tickets will be released in stages to help maintain a balanced group
- Space is limited and advance registration is required
- Meetup RSVPs alone do not guarantee a spot without a ticket purchase
Whether you come solo or with friends, this is a great way to spend Valentine’s Day meeting new people in a relaxed and social atmosphere.
👉 Ticket Link - https://addmi.com/e/sip-savor-socialize-a-valentines-singles-night-Oiz4k-fVZhmymM1-9HS
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Past events
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