Trying to Date RVA

Looking for connection that’s more than just small talk and swipes? Join us for “Sharing Something Sweet”—a laid-back, feel-good event designed to spark genuine moments between Richmond singles through the power of compliments (and a little sugar).

💌 How it works:
When you arrive, you’ll receive 5 compliment cards—your mission is to give them out over the course of the night. If someone makes you smile, holds great conversation, or gives off a vibe you’re into, hand them a card with a short note about what stood out. Sweet, sincere, or a little flirty—it’s up to you.

There’s no pressure to find "the one"—maybe you'll meet someone who makes your heart skip a beat, or maybe you'll leave with a few new friends. Either way, everyone deserves a little kindness.

🌈 All identities welcome:
This event is open to both straight and LGBTQ+ participants. We'll provide preference identifiers so you can let others know who you're interested in connecting with, whether it's romantically or platonically.

👫 What to expect:

• An open-format mixer with a casual, welcoming vibe
• A delicious selection of ice cream and sweet treats (optional add-on)
• A judgment-free space where everyone is encouraged to connect
• No guaranteed gender or orientation balance—just great people and good vibes
• Encouragement to give compliments even if someone isn’t your “type”—because kindness never misses

Bring your open heart, sweet words, and maybe a little courage—you never know where one compliment might lead. 💕

This event is open to members of Trying to Adult RVA and non-members!
Price to join is free for premium members, $5 for members, and $7 for non-members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 30 people.

Ready for an elevated, intentional matchmaking experience? If you're serious about dating and looking for meaningful connections, this is the event for you. Trying to Date RVA brings you a curated evening designed to help you meet like-minded people in a relaxed and comfortable atmosphere.

🌟 How It Works:
After you claim a ticket, you’ll fill out a quick questionnaire to help us learn your preferences. Using your responses, we’ll hand-pick 3 personalized matches for you to meet during the evening. No guesswork—just real conversations with people who align with what you're looking for! The questionnaire will be announced closer to the event date to ensure we're matching you with the best possible connections.

🏡 Where: Amar Lounge – An intimate and beautiful lounge in Richmond, perfect for setting the mood.

🕖 What to Expect:
🍸 Light Social: Grab a drink, get checked in, and get comfortable. Start mingling and enjoy the relaxing ambiance.
💬 Pre-Matched Meetups: Spend a few minutes with each of your 3 matches, with plenty of time to spark a connection.
🎉 Open Social Time: After your matches, stick around, mingle, and maybe reconnect with someone who caught your eye!

👗 Dress Code: Make a good first impression. Dress to impress but don't make it too much pressure—this is your chance to look good and feel confident.

• For Women: A trendy top with jeans or a skirt, dress, or a sleek jumpsuit. Pair with ankle boots, block heels, or stylish flats for a polished but comfortable look.
• For Men: A smart button-up shirt, a well-fitted sweater, or a casual blazer with jeans or chinos. Complete the look with loafers, dress shoes, or clean, sharp sneakers.

Ready to meet your match? Don’t miss out—spots are limited! 💕

🎟️ Ticketing
To ensure an even number of participants and make the game possible, we will have designated tickets for guys and gals. Please select the correct ticket when signing up!

This event is open to members of Trying to Adult RVA and non-members!
Price to join is $5 for premium members, $7 for members, and $10 for non-members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 50 people.

Get ready for a night where great wine meets great conversation at Perfectly Paired, a signature singles event by Trying to Date RVA.

This unique experience brings together the charm of local Virginia wine and the excitement of meeting new people in an intentional, relaxed setting. You’ll be guided through a tasting of four carefully selected wines, each one paired with a one-on-one conversation with a new single. It’s the perfect blend of flavor and chemistry—designed to spark real connection beyond small talk.

🍇 What to Expect:

• Taste 4 unique wines, all from Jolene Winery
• Enjoy 1-on-1 time with 4 singles—genuine conversations in a no-pressure environment
• After the tasting rounds, the evening opens up into a social mixer
• Reconnect with someone who caught your eye, meet new faces, and grab a full glass or bottle to share

This event is designed for singles who are looking for more than just swiping—people who appreciate good wine, meaningful conversation, and a fun, social night out in RVA.

🎟️ Limited spots – grab yours before it’s gone!

Whether you leave with a new favorite wine, a new connection, or both—Perfectly Paired is all about bringing people together, one pour at a time. 🥂

To ensure an even number of participants and make the game possible, we will have designated tickets for him and her. Please select the correct ticket when signing up!

This event is open to members of Trying to Adult RVA and non-members!
Price to join is $18 for premium members, $21 for members, and $24 for non-members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 30 people.

Swap pins, spark connections, and leave with a souvenir full of stories. This isn’t your typical singles event—this one’s all about playful trades and genuine conversations.

Here’s how it works:
📍 When you arrive, you’ll get a lanyard with a handful of fun, flirty, or funny pins.
🔄 Your mission? Trade all your pins by chatting with other singles. Each new connection = one new pin in your collection.
💖 By the end of the night, you’ll have a totally unique set of pins—and hopefully some great connections, too.

Enjoy craft beer, cocktails, and mocktails while you mingle under the lights, swap pins, and spark real connections. 🍹🍻 Whether you're a fan of arcade games, patio hangs, or just kicking back with a cold drink, this night has something for everyone.

This isn’t your typical singles event — it’s all about playful trades, genuine conversations, and walking away with new memories (and a souvenir full of stories!).

This event is open to members of Trying to Adult RVA and non-members!
Price to join is $8 for premium members, $10 for members, and $12 for non-members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. We will be out in the Beer Garden for this event with a lot of space!