About us
Are you in your 20s or 30s and wondering how to navigate the modern dating scene? Tired of dating apps? Frustrated with getting ghosted? Want to meet people in real life instead of endlessly swiping? Are you single, divorced, or open to meeting someone special in a fun and natural way?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Date RVA is a social group designed to help young adults meet potential partners through engaging, low-pressure events. From casual meetups and group activities to unique dating experiences, our events provide the perfect opportunity to connect with like-minded singles in a relaxed environment.
Trying to Date RVA is an affiliate of Trying to Adult RVA, a community focused on helping young adults navigate various aspects of adult life. While Trying to Adult RVA emphasizes friendship and social connections, Trying to Date RVA takes it a step further by providing opportunities specifically for dating and building romantic connections. Together, these groups create a supportive environment for individuals looking to expand their social circles and find meaningful relationships.
Please review our rules and policies regarding participation, attendance, refunds, and social media.
Visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more.
For additional details, check out our website and start your journey to making meaningful connections today!
Upcoming events
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Charmed at Amar Lounge
Amar Lounge, 2229 W Main St, Richmond, VA, USYou are cordially invited to Charmed, an exclusive dating experience hosted at the sophisticated and intimate Amar Lounge. This thoughtfully curated evening is designed to facilitate meaningful connections through structured, timed rounds of interaction.
Upon arrival, ladies will be presented with an empty bracelet, while gentlemen will receive a sachet of charms. Through the timed rounds, ladies will build their bracelets by connecting with eligible bachelors, with each charm serving as a symbolic beginning of a conversation and potential connection. Charms are just the start—this event is designed to encourage genuine engagement and meaningful interaction.
The ambiance of Amar Lounge calls for elevated attire. Ladies are encouraged to wear a tasteful cocktail dress, tailored jumpsuit, or elegant blouse with dress pants. Gentlemen should consider a crisp button-down with tailored slacks or a blazer with dark trousers. Cocktail attire is requested, refined yet approachable.
Interspersed between the rounds of interaction will be opportunities to enjoy the full bar, featuring an assortment of craft cocktails and refreshments, providing moments to pause, refresh, and appreciate the evening’s surroundings.
Charmed at Amar Lounge offers a sophisticated setting to engage with other singles, cultivate connections, and experience an evening of elegance and distinction.
Price to join this event is $20. Sign up for membership and receive discounted and free events. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Date RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can purchase your ticket here.
Parking: street parking in the area. Please allow extra time to find a spot or use ride share services. Amar Lounge is upstairs Mimi's.
6 attendees
Pickleball & Pick-Up Lines
Performance Pickleball RVA, 8641 Quioccasin Rd, Henrico, VA, USLooking to meet other active singles in a fun, lighthearted way? Join us for Pickleball & Pick-Up Lines, where laughter, friendly competition, and connection come together. This is the perfect chance to get moving, break the ice, and meet people who love having a good time.
No pickleball experience? No problem! We’ll group players based on experience so everyone can join the fun. Don’t have a paddle? We’ve got you covered—we’ll provide paddles for anyone who needs one.
After the games, stick around for a social hour at the on-site bar at Performance Pickleball, where you can continue the conversations, enjoy a drink, and make new connections in a relaxed, casual setting.
Price to join this event is $22. Sign up for membership and receive discounted and free events. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Date RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can purchase your ticket here.
Parking: there is a parking lot!
4 attendees
Past events
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