
What we’re about
Are you in your 20s or 30s and wondering how to navigate the modern dating scene? Tired of dating apps? Frustrated with getting ghosted? Want to meet people in real life instead of endlessly swiping? Are you single, divorced, or open to meeting someone special in a fun and natural way?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Date RVA is a social group designed to help young adults meet potential partners through engaging, low-pressure events. From casual meetups and group activities to unique dating experiences, our events provide the perfect opportunity to connect with like-minded singles in a relaxed environment.
Trying to Date RVA is an affiliate of Trying to Adult RVA, a community focused on helping young adults navigate various aspects of adult life. While Trying to Adult RVA emphasizes friendship and social connections, Trying to Date RVA takes it a step further by providing opportunities specifically for dating and building romantic connections. Together, these groups create a supportive environment for individuals looking to expand their social circles and find meaningful relationships.
Please review our rules and policies regarding participation, attendance, refunds, and social media.
Visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more.
For additional details, check out our website and start your journey to making meaningful connections today!
Upcoming events (3)
See all- Salsa & Singles: Dance Lessons + ConnectionMambo Bones Salsa Dance Studio, Richmond, VA
Ready to spice up your dating life? Join us for a night of rhythm, romance, and real connection with Salsa & Bachata dance lessons designed just for singles!
Whether you’ve got two left feet or you’ve always wanted to try Latin dance, this beginner-friendly class is the perfect way to meet new people in a fun, low-pressure setting. You’ll rotate partners throughout the lesson—giving you the chance to dance and connect with multiple local singles. Who knows, your perfect match might just be a spin away! 💫
### 🔥 What to Expect:
- Beginner Salsa + Bachata lessons led by a professional instructor
- Partner rotation so you meet and dance with different people
- Flirty, fun vibes—no experience needed!
- Optional hangout afterward to mingle and keep the connection going
### 💌 When signing up, choose your role:
- Lead (typically male)
- Follow (typically female)
We aim for a balanced ratio so everyone gets plenty of dance time!
This event is open to members of Trying to Adult RVA and non-members!
Price to join is $20 for premium members, $25 for members, and $30 for non-members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 30 people.You can purchase your ticket here.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those unpaid will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: mostly street parking in the area but also a few paid lots. Please leave extra time to find a spot! Nearest paid parking lot is at 400E E Franklin St, Richmond, VA 23219
- The Dating Game: LGBTQ+ EditionStarr Hill Beer Hall & Rooftop , Richmond , VA
Get ready for Trying to Date RVA’s boldest, brightest, and most fabulous dating event yet—our LGBTQ+ edition of The Dating Game! 🎤✨
We’re putting a queer-friendly twist on the classic game show format, hosted by none other than Richmond’s favorite drag queen, Michelle Livigne. 💅
🎭 Selected participants will be invited on stage as our Bachelorx, asking questions to potential matches hidden behind the curtain—no peeking! Then they’ll choose who they want to meet face-to-face for a fun surprise reveal.
💌 A form will be sent to all ticket holders closer to the event so you can share how you identify and who you're interested in. That way, we can match you with the best fit for your game show moment (or just keep you in the loop to cheer them on!).
Whether you’re stepping into the spotlight or enjoying the show with a drink in hand, this is your chance to experience a night full of laughs, love, and LGBTQ+ joy.
Fun. Flirty. Fabulous. Join us and maybe even leave with a date. 💖🏳️🌈
This event is open to members of Trying to Adult RVA and non-members!
Price to join is $8 for premium members, $13 for members, and $18 for non-members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 50 people.
You can purchase your ticket here!
Parking: mostly street parking in the area and can be limited. Please leave extra time to find a spot.
- Get Lei’d: A Sunset Singles MixerThe Hof Garden, Richmond, VA
Join us for a sunset mixer that’s all about fun, flirting, and getting lei’d—literally. As the sun sets and the sky glows, you’ll mingle with other singles in a chill, no-pressure setting designed for genuine connection. Every new person you meet adds a flower, maybe a phone number, definitely a good time. 🌺 It’s the perfect way to meet new people, share some laughs, and walk away with a few more connections (and leis) than you came with.
🌸 When you arrive, you’ll receive your first lei.
👋 Throughout the evening, every time you connect with someone new, you’ll exchange leis—or give one to someone who made a great impression.
🌺 By the end of the night, your growing collection will be a colorful keepsake of the fun connections you made.👫 What to Expect:
🌞 A laid-back sunset mixer with good vibes, flirty fun, and lots of mingling
💛 A no-pressure space where everyone’s encouraged to show up as themselves and connect naturallyThis is a hetero-focused singles event. To ensure a balanced number of participants , we will have designated tickets for men and women. Please select the correct ticket when signing up!
This event is open to members of Trying to Adult RVA and non-members!
Price to join is $10 for premium members, $15 for members, and $20 for non-members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 30 people.You can purchase your ticket here.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those unpaid will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: limited street parking in the area. Please allow extra time to find a spot or use ride share.