What we’re about
Are you in your 20s or 30s and wondering how to navigate the modern dating scene? Tired of dating apps? Frustrated with getting ghosted? Want to meet people in real life instead of endlessly swiping? Are you single, divorced, or open to meeting someone special in a fun and natural way?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Date RVA is a social group designed to help young adults meet potential partners through engaging, low-pressure events. From casual meetups and group activities to unique dating experiences, our events provide the perfect opportunity to connect with like-minded singles in a relaxed environment.
Trying to Date RVA is an affiliate of Trying to Adult RVA, a community focused on helping young adults navigate various aspects of adult life. While Trying to Adult RVA emphasizes friendship and social connections, Trying to Date RVA takes it a step further by providing opportunities specifically for dating and building romantic connections. Together, these groups create a supportive environment for individuals looking to expand their social circles and find meaningful relationships.
Please review our rules and policies regarding participation, attendance, refunds, and social media.
Visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more.
For additional details, check out our website and start your journey to making meaningful connections today!
Upcoming events
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Looking for S’more
Bingo Beer Company, 2900 W Broad St, Richmond, va, USGather ‘round the fire for an evening of connection, laughter, and sweet treats! This open-style social has no timed rounds—just relaxed mingling with other RVA singles under the stars.
We’ll have all the fixings for classic s’mores, plus drinks and food available for purchase. To help break the ice, we’ll include one of our signature connection activities—designed to spark conversation, ease nerves, and make dating a little less intimidating.
Come for the s’mores, stay for the sparks. It’s the perfect mix of cozy, fun, and maybe a little bit of magic.
Price to join this event is $10. Sign up for membership and receive discounted and free events. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can purchase your ticket here.
Parking: there is a small parking lot on site and nearby street parking.
6 attendees
Connections, Chemistry, & Cirrus
Cirrus vodka, 1320 Summit Ave Richmond, VA 23230, Richmond, VA, USSingles, it’s time to mix and mingle in style! We’re heading to the beautiful new Cirrus Vodka space at Ballast RVA in Scott’s Addition for an evening of craft cocktails, great company, and new connections.
Cirrus is known for its smooth, award-winning vodka, and now you’ll get to enjoy it in their stunning new setting. To make breaking the ice even easier, we’ll kick off the evening with a fun connection activity designed to spark conversation and help you meet more people in a natural, engaging way.
Whether you’re looking for a spark, curious to try Richmond’s newest hotspot, or just ready for a night out with other local singles, this event is the perfect vibe.
Come for the cocktails, stay for the connections. 🥂
Price to join this event is $10. Sign up for membership and receive discounted and free events. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
This is a hetero-focused singles event. To ensure a balanced number of participants , we will have designated tickets for men and women. Please select the correct ticket when signing up!
You can purchase your ticket here.
Parking: limited street parking throughout the area!
2 attendees
Monthly Singles Mixer
Main Line Brewery, 1603 Ownby Ln, Richmond, VA, USLooking to meet someone new without the apps or awkward small talk? Join us for the Trying to Date RVA Monthly Singles Mixer — a casual night out where everyone in the room is single and ready to mingle. No timed rounds, no pressure — just relaxed vibes, new faces, and real connections.
We’ll be hanging out in the Urban Rum Company space at Main Line Brewery (formerly the Cirrus Vodka space), the perfect spot to grab a drink, spark a conversation, and see where it goes.
✨ Pricing:
- Free for Premium Members
- $5 for Members
- $10 for Everyone Else
- Separate tickets available for both guys and girls — we do our best to keep the crowd balanced for better connections!
💖 Why date with Trying to Date RVA?
Because meeting people shouldn’t feel like work. We make dating fun again — bringing together Richmond’s most intentional singles in real life. Come for the conversations, stay for the chemistry.Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can purchase your ticket here.
Parking: there are two parking lots on site!
8 attendees
Singles in Paradise
Island Shrimp Co. Rocketts Landing, 11 Orleans St, Richmond, VA, USEscape the apps and find your match in paradise! Join Trying to Date RVA for Singles in Paradise, a relaxed, tropical-themed mixer at Island Shrimp Co., where everyone is single, social, and ready to mingle.
Upon arrival, you’ll receive your very own Island Passport — your ticket to meet new people and spark real connections. As you mingle, collect stickers from your matches and see where the night takes you.
Enjoy light shrimp appetizers (included with your ticket) while you mix and mingle, along with delicious tropical cocktails and mocktails available for purchase to keep the island vibes flowing all evening.
This is the kind of night that feels like a mini vacation - good energy and new faces.
Price to join this event is $15. Sign up for membership and receive discounted and free events. Spots must be claimed in advance, and you must have a ticket from the Trying to Adult RVA website to secure your place. RSVPing on any other platform does not guarantee your spot.
You can purchase your ticket here.
Parking: there is a small parking lot on site, nearby street parking, and Valet.
4 attendees
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