Trying to Date RVA

Looking to meet new people without the awkward small talk? We’ve got you covered. Join us at Hardywood for a laid-back evening of drinks, laughs, and our newest social experiment: Buy Me a Question.

We’ll be posted up under Hardywood’s beautiful gazebos, the perfect outdoor spot to mingle with fellow fun-seekers. You’ll be handed some funny money at the door — your currency for connection. Spend your fake cash to "buy" conversation questions from others, or make a deal to sell them your own. The goal? Meet as many people as possible, learn something new, and maybe even trade up to a drink if the vibes are right. 🍺😉

No stress, no pressure — just easy, low-key interactions designed to spark real conversations.

🍹 Drinks: Beer, wine, cocktails, and non-alcoholic options available for purchase

This is a hetero-focused singles event. To ensure a balanced number of participants, we will have designated tickets for men and women. Please select the correct ticket when signing up!

This event is open to members of Trying to Adult RVA and non-members!
Price to join is $15 for premium members, $20 for members, and $25 for non-members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 30 people.

Looking to meet singles in a fun and relaxed setting? Join us for Meet & Mingle, a singles social designed to spark connections and great conversations! Whether you’re looking for romance or just hoping to meet someone special, this event is the perfect way to connect with like-minded singles in RVA.

The Experience:
Start the evening with a guided session of 1-on-1 conversations. After each interaction, you’ll have the chance to write down a compliment for the person you met. It’s not ALL about making a match—it’s about spreading kindness and positivity.

Open Social:
After the 1-on-1s, it’s time to mingle! During the open social, reconnect with people you met earlier or strike up conversations with new faces. Want to exchange contact info? Feel free to ask during this time, but please respect any declines.

Even if you don’t find a spark, you’ll walk away with great conversations, plenty of laughs, a pocketful of compliments, and a fun experience to remember!

This is a hetero-focused singles event. To ensure a balanced number of participants, we will have designated tickets for men and women. Please select the correct ticket when signing up!

This event is open to members of Trying to Adult RVA and non-members!
Price to join is $10 for premium members, $13 for members, and $18 for non-members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 50 people.

Join us for Strike Up a Date, a playful night of bowling, banter, and real connection. You’ll be placed on a team of six for each game—and after every round, you’ll switch things up so you can meet new singles throughout the night.

✨ Here’s how it works:
If you get a strike or a spare, you’ll draw from our Strike Up a Question Bowl—filled with curated, open-ended, flirty-but-fun questions. You’ll pick someone on your team to answer the question, giving everyone a chance to break the ice and spark meaningful (or hilarious) convos.
Whether you're a bowling pro or can barely hit a pin, this event is more about connection than competition.

💡 This is a hetero-focused singles event.
To keep the experience balanced and fun, we have designated tickets for men and women. Please be sure to select the correct ticket type when signing up so we can keep teams even and everyone mingling smoothly.

🎟️ Spots are limited and this event will sell out—so grab your ticket, lace up those bowling shoes, and get ready to strike up a date!

This event is open to members of Trying to Adult RVA and non-members!
Price to join is $20 for premium members, $25 for members, and $30 for non-members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 18 people.

Join us at Blue Bee Cider for a cozy and creative evening of Crafts & Connections! Whether you’re into knitting, sketching, journaling, or just gluing stuff together with glitter—bring your own project or dive into one of the fun crafts we’ll have ready for you.

This isn’t your typical singles event. There are no ratio guarantees, no speed dating setups—just a laid-back space to meet other Richmond singles while your hands (and heart) stay busy.

We welcome everyone: straight, queer, questioning, and all identities and interests. You’ll receive an interest identifier to help you find people who align with what you're looking for—romantic, platonic, or somewhere in between.

Blue Bee offers a full menu of delicious cider, including non-alcoholic options, and they’ll have snacks available for purchase. You’re also welcome to bring your own food if you’d prefer!

Come sip cider, make something with your hands, and maybe build something meaningful, too. 💛

This event is open to members of Trying to Adult RVA and non-members!
Price to join is $8 for premium members, $10 for members, and $12 for non-members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 20 people.