What we’re about
Are you in your 20s or 30s and wondering how to navigate the modern dating scene? Tired of dating apps? Frustrated with getting ghosted? Want to meet people in real life instead of endlessly swiping? Are you single, divorced, or open to meeting someone special in a fun and natural way?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, this group is for you! Trying to Date RVA is a social group designed to help young adults meet potential partners through engaging, low-pressure events. From casual meetups and group activities to unique dating experiences, our events provide the perfect opportunity to connect with like-minded singles in a relaxed environment.
Trying to Date RVA is an affiliate of Trying to Adult RVA, a community focused on helping young adults navigate various aspects of adult life. While Trying to Adult RVA emphasizes friendship and social connections, Trying to Date RVA takes it a step further by providing opportunities specifically for dating and building romantic connections. Together, these groups create a supportive environment for individuals looking to expand their social circles and find meaningful relationships.
Please review our rules and policies regarding participation, attendance, refunds, and social media.
Visit our FAQ page for common questions about our events, membership, tickets, and more.
For additional details, check out our website and start your journey to making meaningful connections today!
Upcoming events (2)
See all- Perfectly Paired at Jolene WineryJolene Family Winery, Quinton, VA
Get ready for a night where great wine meets great conversation at Perfectly Paired, a signature singles event by Trying to Date RVA.
This unique experience brings together the charm of local Virginia wine and the excitement of meeting new people in an intentional, relaxed setting. You’ll be guided through a tasting of four carefully selected wines, each one paired with a one-on-one conversation with a new single. It’s the perfect blend of flavor and chemistry—designed to spark real connection beyond small talk.
🍇 What to Expect:
- Taste 4 unique wines, all from Jolene Winery
- Enjoy 1-on-1 time with 4 singles—genuine conversations in a no-pressure environment
- After the tasting rounds, the evening opens up into a social mixer
- Reconnect with someone who caught your eye, meet new faces, and grab a full glass or bottle to share
This event is designed for singles who are looking for more than just swiping—people who appreciate good wine, meaningful conversation, and a fun, social night out in RVA.
🎟️ Limited spots – grab yours before it’s gone!
Whether you leave with a new favorite wine, a new connection, or both—Perfectly Paired is all about bringing people together, one pour at a time. 🥂
To ensure an even number of participants and make the game possible, we will have designated tickets for him and her. Please select the correct ticket when signing up!
This event is open to members of Trying to Adult RVA and non-members!
Price to join is $18 for premium members, $21 for members, and $24 for non-members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. Space is limited to 30 people.You can purchase your ticket here.
Once you receive a confirmation email from the Trying to Adult RVA website, confirming your purchase, you are good to go. Your "unpaid" status on Meetup will not be updated until the week of the event.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those unpaid will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.Parking: there is a large parking lot on site!
- Pin Me Up: A Singles SocialBingo Beer Company, Richmond, VA
Swap pins, spark connections, and leave with a souvenir full of stories. This isn’t your typical singles event—this one’s all about playful trades and genuine conversations.
Here’s how it works:
📍 When you arrive, you’ll get a lanyard with a handful of fun, flirty, or funny pins.
🔄 Your mission? Trade all your pins by chatting with other singles. Each new connection = one new pin in your collection.
💖 By the end of the night, you’ll have a totally unique set of pins—and hopefully some great connections, too.Enjoy craft beer, cocktails, and mocktails while you mingle under the lights, swap pins, and spark real connections. 🍹🍻 Whether you're a fan of arcade games, patio hangs, or just kicking back with a cold drink, this night has something for everyone.
This isn’t your typical singles event — it’s all about playful trades, genuine conversations, and walking away with new memories (and a souvenir full of stories!).
This event is open to members of Trying to Adult RVA and non-members!
Price to join is $8 for premium members, $10 for members, and $12 for non-members. Spots are first purchased first confirmed. We will be out in the Beer Garden for this event with a lot of space!You can purchase your ticket here.
Once all spots are claimed and the event is sold out, those unpaid will be moved to the waitlist on Meetup.
Parking: there is a small parking lot and limited street parking in the area. Leave extra time to find a spot or use ride share.