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Psychedelic Coffee: Medicine + Growth Conversations [SOLD OUT]

Psychedelic Coffee: Medicine + Growth Conversations [SOLD OUT]

Bubba Oasis, 57-58 Upper St, Angel, Islington, London, GB

️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️ 🎟️

➞ There will be 50-60 people coming as I promote this event on multiple platforms.

Join us for our 7th monthly Psychedelic Coffee to share psychedelic experiences, explore life and make real connections.

Previous events sold out. Grab tickets while you can.

You’ll join groups of four and rotate every 45 minutes. Each round starts with a new topic announced by the host to sparker deeper, meaningful conversations.

We gather 50-60 intentional people together monthly for a fully facilitated and carefully curated social experience over drinks or food — with space to share stories, insights, and opinions, focused on personal growth, fun and connection.

This is not group therapy, an integration circle, or an academic discussion. It's an intentionally designed social experience, giving you a rare opportunity to talk freely with others about your personal growth and psychedelic experiences. Opinions are welcome.

Expect:

→ Led by experienced facilitator
→ Groups of 4 with 3 rotations
→ Exclusive private lounge & bar
→ Fully hosted & facilitated experience
→ Opening breathwork & intention setting
→ Custom conversation cards
→ Closing collective moments
→ Craft drinks, cocktails & hot plates
→ An immersive, curated event
→ Stay after to socialise til' late

➤➤➤ Limited to 60 tickets. Previous events sold out.

️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️ 🎟️

Deep-dive into meaningful conversations about personal growth, relationships, spirituality, consciousness, purpose, and of course… psychedelics.

Make new friends and talk about what really matters.

WHO'S IT FOR?

Everyone’s welcome - whether you’re a seasoned psychonaut or have only had one experience. The aim is to enable open conversations you wouldn’t normally get to have elsewhere. You might gain new insights, hear unique stories, or even make a new friend or two!

FACILITATOR & HOST

Shazia is an experienced facilitator, breathwork practitioner and yoga teacher, with a background in consultancy and research within the medical cannabis space.

She is a strong advocate for the use of psychedelics for personal growth and takes pride in leading spaces where people can reconnect to themselves more deeply.

️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️ 🎟️

BRAND NEW VENUE!!!

Bubba Oasis is a homely lounge bar located on Upper St, Angel, Islington with a relaxed, inviting atmosphere and creative living-room feel.

We have the entire first floor to ourselves where they serve high-quality coffee, cocktails, wine and craft drinks, alongside super-healthy hot food and light snacks (available throughout the afternoon and evening).

The venue remains open after the event, so guests are welcome to stay on for drinks to continue conversations into the night.

SCHEDULE

  • 2pm: Arrive, grab drink/food & find a table
  • 2.30pm: We begin. Light grounding, intention setting & breathwork.
  • 3.15pm: Rotation 1.
  • 4pm: Rotation 2.
  • 4.45pm: Collective closing
  • 5pm: Finish. Socialising continues.

️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️ 🎟️

*Please note: You may be turned away if you arrive after 2.30pm. We will scan your ticket QR code on the door.

An Unseen event. Unseen community hosts monthly socials, dinners & walks in London. We offer curated social experiences in beautiful spaces, designed for curious minds who are bored of shallow socialising and addictive apps, and want deeper conversation & real connection.

FOUNDER: Ben Jay

Ben is a London-based founder with an early career in music as a producer. For almost 20 years he’s built projects across creative, wellbeing and community spaces, spanning independent businesses and community-led work. He’s currently building UNSEEN, curated offline social experiences for people who want deeper friendships.

➤ ➤➤ More about Ben: ben-jay.co.uk

>>> Join our WhatsApp here (for early access to future events) <<<

CONVERSATION PROMPT EXAMPLES:

– What first drew you to psychedelics?
- What makes you feel most alive?
– Biggest lesson from a journey?
- What was your turning point in life?

️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️ 🎟️

***We will be taking photos and videos at this event. If you don't want to be included, notify us before the event starts.

***We cannot offer refunds. Tickets are limited capacity.

***Please note: This event does not involve the use of psychedelics or any illegal substances. It is a facilitated social discussion space only. We do not promote sourcing, sharing, organising, or facilitating illegal activity. Experiences and perspectives may be discussed, but this is not a therapeutic space and does not provide medical or psychological advice.

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  • Psychedelic Coffee: Medicine + Growth Conversations [SOLD OUT]

    Psychedelic Coffee: Medicine + Growth Conversations [SOLD OUT]

    Bubba Oasis, 57-58 Upper St, Angel, Islington, London, GB

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️ 🎟️

    ➞ There will be 50-60 people coming as I promote this event on multiple platforms.

    Join us for our 7th monthly Psychedelic Coffee to share psychedelic experiences, explore life and make real connections.

    Previous events sold out. Grab tickets while you can.

    You’ll join groups of four and rotate every 45 minutes. Each round starts with a new topic announced by the host to sparker deeper, meaningful conversations.

    We gather 50-60 intentional people together monthly for a fully facilitated and carefully curated social experience over drinks or food — with space to share stories, insights, and opinions, focused on personal growth, fun and connection.

    This is not group therapy, an integration circle, or an academic discussion. It's an intentionally designed social experience, giving you a rare opportunity to talk freely with others about your personal growth and psychedelic experiences. Opinions are welcome.

    Expect:

    → Led by experienced facilitator
    → Groups of 4 with 3 rotations
    → Exclusive private lounge & bar
    → Fully hosted & facilitated experience
    → Opening breathwork & intention setting
    → Custom conversation cards
    → Closing collective moments
    → Craft drinks, cocktails & hot plates
    → An immersive, curated event
    → Stay after to socialise til' late

    ➤➤➤ Limited to 60 tickets. Previous events sold out.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️ 🎟️

    Deep-dive into meaningful conversations about personal growth, relationships, spirituality, consciousness, purpose, and of course… psychedelics.

    Make new friends and talk about what really matters.

    WHO'S IT FOR?

    Everyone’s welcome - whether you’re a seasoned psychonaut or have only had one experience. The aim is to enable open conversations you wouldn’t normally get to have elsewhere. You might gain new insights, hear unique stories, or even make a new friend or two!

    FACILITATOR & HOST

    Shazia is an experienced facilitator, breathwork practitioner and yoga teacher, with a background in consultancy and research within the medical cannabis space.

    She is a strong advocate for the use of psychedelics for personal growth and takes pride in leading spaces where people can reconnect to themselves more deeply.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️ 🎟️

    BRAND NEW VENUE!!!

    Bubba Oasis is a homely lounge bar located on Upper St, Angel, Islington with a relaxed, inviting atmosphere and creative living-room feel.

    We have the entire first floor to ourselves where they serve high-quality coffee, cocktails, wine and craft drinks, alongside super-healthy hot food and light snacks (available throughout the afternoon and evening).

    The venue remains open after the event, so guests are welcome to stay on for drinks to continue conversations into the night.

    SCHEDULE

    • 2pm: Arrive, grab drink/food & find a table
    • 2.30pm: We begin. Light grounding, intention setting & breathwork.
    • 3.15pm: Rotation 1.
    • 4pm: Rotation 2.
    • 4.45pm: Collective closing
    • 5pm: Finish. Socialising continues.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️ 🎟️

    *Please note: You may be turned away if you arrive after 2.30pm. We will scan your ticket QR code on the door.

    An Unseen event. Unseen community hosts monthly socials, dinners & walks in London. We offer curated social experiences in beautiful spaces, designed for curious minds who are bored of shallow socialising and addictive apps, and want deeper conversation & real connection.

    FOUNDER: Ben Jay

    Ben is a London-based founder with an early career in music as a producer. For almost 20 years he’s built projects across creative, wellbeing and community spaces, spanning independent businesses and community-led work. He’s currently building UNSEEN, curated offline social experiences for people who want deeper friendships.

    ➤ ➤➤ More about Ben: ben-jay.co.uk

    >>> Join our WhatsApp here (for early access to future events) <<<

    CONVERSATION PROMPT EXAMPLES:

    – What first drew you to psychedelics?
    - What makes you feel most alive?
    – Biggest lesson from a journey?
    - What was your turning point in life?

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️ 🎟️

    ***We will be taking photos and videos at this event. If you don't want to be included, notify us before the event starts.

    ***We cannot offer refunds. Tickets are limited capacity.

    ***Please note: This event does not involve the use of psychedelics or any illegal substances. It is a facilitated social discussion space only. We do not promote sourcing, sharing, organising, or facilitating illegal activity. Experiences and perspectives may be discussed, but this is not a therapeutic space and does not provide medical or psychological advice.

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    Dinner & Deep Talk: Meaningful Conversations

    Dinner & Deep Talk: Meaningful Conversations

    UBA, 61-67 Great Eastern Street, EC2A 3HU,, London, GB

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️🎟️

    ➞ There will be more people coming as I promote this event on multiple platforms.

    Not your average dinner social.

    A curated & hosted experience for curious minds who want deeper, more meaningful conversation and real connection. Limited to 4-6 seats per table.

    You’ll join a small group, with carefully curated conversation cards designed to spark deeper, more honest discussions.

    Expect a warm, intimate atmosphere, nourishing food and drinks, and a social experience where depth is normal.

    If you’re bored of shallow socialising and addictive apps, this is for you.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️🎟️

    See FAQs below for key details.

    IMPORTANT INFO

    Time: Arrive 6.30. We start 7pm.
    Size: Small groups 4-6 (depending on attendance)
    Ticket: Entry only, everyone pays for their own food/drinks.
    Photos/videos may be taken. Due to the table size, we’re not able to exclude individuals from shots.

    Register here if you’re joining us for dinner. Join our WhatsApp community here for locatio pin drop and table info on the day.

    THE HOST

    Ben has 4 years of experience hosting meaningful conversation events in London. He is the founder of Unseen - a meaningful social events company. He has also spent almost 20 years building venures across creative, wellbeing and community spaces.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️🎟️

    THE RESTAURANT

    UBA Shoreditch is a beautiful Pan-Asian restaurant in Shoreditch serving contemporary Asian dishes, plus a wide range of cocktails and bar bites. They offer plates and shareable dishes with meat, fish and vegetarian options, plus a full drinks menu including cocktails, spirits, wine, tea & coffee.

    WELCOME TO THE COMMUNITY

    Unseen is a community & events company hosting monthly socials, dinners & walks in London. Founded by Ben Jay, Unseen offers curated social experiences in beautiful spaces, designed for curious minds who want deeper conversation & real connection.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️🎟️

    FAQS

    Will there be photography?
    Yes. We may take photos and videos during the event. Due to the table size, we’re not able to exclude individuals from shots.

    Where might photos and videos from the dinner appear?
    On our Instagram, website, emails, press coverage, and sometimes in partner or promotional material.

    What’s the vibe like?
    Informal, thoughtful and welcoming. Intimate, wholesome and a bit deeper than your usual dinner out.

    What topics will we be discussing?
    Relationships, purpose, personal growth, identity, values, life direction and more.

    Will it be very intense?
    The aim is meaningful conversation, honesty and depth, not forced vulnerability. You do not have to talk about anything you do not want to, such as trauma or things you may be working on in therapy. This is not a therapeutic space, though if you are comfortable discussing more difficult things, that will not be unwelcome.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️🎟️

    How does the format work?
    You’ll be seated at tables of 4-6 people. Each table will have curated conversation cards to help spark more meaningful discussions throughout the evening. A host will also be present for safety, and to make sure everyone gets a chance to contribute equally.

    Do I have to use the conversation cards?
    We encourage it. The point of the social is to create a space where deeper conversation feels natural. If that does not appeal to you, this event may not be for you.

    Do I need to come with someone?
    No. Lots of people come alone. The format makes it easy to settle in and connect with others.

    Can I come with a friend?
    Yes, of course. Just bear in mind the event is designed to encourage conversation with the whole table, not only the person you arrive with.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️🎟️

    Is this a hosted event?
    It is fully hosted and carefully designed. Feedback is welcome.

    What kind of people come?
    Usually curious, thoughtful, intentional and open-minded people who want a more meaningful kind of social experience.

    Is food included in the ticket?
    No, food and drinks can be purchased at the venue.

    What if I have dietary requirements?
    Please check directly with the venue before attending if you have specific dietary needs. The menu is usually available on their website.

    What time should I arrive?
    Please arrive on time so everyone can settle in properly before we begin. Arriving late upsets the experience for others.

    How often do these dinners happen?
    Monthly.

    Are there any behaviour rules?
    Yes. Be respectful and do not make the event uncomfortable for others. Harassment or harmful behaviour is not acceptable.

    What should I do if there’s an issue on the day?
    Speak to me (Ben) during the event or email afterwards so I can look into it properly.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️🎟️

    Please note: Experiences and perspectives may be discussed, but this is not a therapeutic space and does not provide medical or psychological advice.

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  • Slow Walk & Deep Talk: Real Connection

    Slow Walk & Deep Talk: Real Connection

    Regents Park, Near Baker Street station around ,, London, GB

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️ 🎟️

    ➞ There will be 50-60 people coming as I promote this event on multiple platforms.

    Route: Regent’s Park
    Meeting point: Emailed 24 hours before.
    Walking time: 1 - 3pm
    Social: 3pm onwards

    Not your average walk club.

    An intentionally slow-paced social walk built around deeper conversation, real connection, and a more thoughtful kind of socialising, offering the perfect chance to reconnect to yourself, others, and nature.

    Before we start, everybody will be given carefully curated conversation cards to spark deeper, more honest conversations. If you’re bored of shallow socialising and addictive apps, this is for you.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️ 🎟️

    Unseen community hosts monthly socials, dinners & walks in London. We offer curated social experiences in beautiful spaces, designed for curious minds who are bored of shallow socialising and addictive apps, and want deeper conversation & real connection.

    Register here if you are joining us on the walk. Join our walking club WhatSapp community here where I'll send location pins and walk info.

    WALK FAQS

    Will there be photography?
    Yes. We will take photos and videos during the walk, including some flash. To be excluded, tell a team member before we start.

    Where might photos and videos from the walk appear?
    On our Instagram, website, emails, press coverage, and sometimes in partner or promotional material.

    What’s the vibe like?
    Relaxed, thoughtful and friendly. Slow-paced, welcoming, and a bit deeper than your usual social.

    What do people do after?
    We all go to a cafe and continue the conversations. This is also a great way to meet other groups or people you haven’t spoken to yet.

    Who will be hosting?
    Myself (Ben) and some some team members/volunteers.

    Do I have to have deep conversations?
    We encourage using the conversation cards. The point of this walk is to go a bit deeper than a normal social event. If that does not appeal to you, this event may not be for you.

    What topics will we be discussing?
    Relationships, purpose, personal growth, identity, values, life direction and more.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️ 🎟️

    Will it be very intense?
    The aim is meaningful conversation, honesty and depth, not forced vulnerability. You do not have to talk about anything you do not want to, such as trauma or things you may be working on in therapy. This is not a therapeutic space, though if you are comfortable discussing more difficult things, that will not be unwelcome.

    Do I have to walk slowly? How slow?
    The idea is to slow down and take in the greenery, scenery, conversation, and the people around you. Expect a normal to slightly slower-than-normal pace. City walking is usually fast. This will be slower than that, but not painfully slow.

    Do I need to come with someone?
    No. Lots of people come alone. The format makes it easy to talk to people.

    Is every walk in the same location?
    No. Each walk takes place in a different part of London, always chosen for its greenery, scenery and nature.

    How much walking is involved?
    Around 5km at an easy pace.

    What should I wear or bring with me?
    Wear comfortable shoes and clothes that suit the weather. Bring water.

    How often are the walks?
    Monthly.

    What happens if it rains or the forecast turns?
    The walk will usually still go ahead. If conditions are unsafe, I will email everyone with an update.

    Are there any behaviour rules?
    Yes. Be respectful and do not make the walk uncomfortable for others. Harassment or harmful behaviour is not acceptable.

    What should I do if there’s an issue on the day?
    Speak to me (Ben) during the walk or email me afterwards so I can look into it properly.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️ 🎟️

    Please note: Experiences and perspectives may be discussed, but this is not a therapeutic space and does not provide medical or psychological advice.

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    Dinner & Deep Talk 2: Meaningful Conversations

    Dinner & Deep Talk 2: Meaningful Conversations

    GA, Kings X, 100-110 Euston Rd,NW1 2AJ,, London, GB

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️🎟️

    ➞ There will be more people coming as I promote this event on multiple platforms.

    Not your average dinner social.

    A curated & hosted experience for curious minds who want deeper, more meaningful conversation and real connection. Limited to 4-6 seats per table.

    You’ll join a small group, with carefully curated conversation cards designed to spark deeper, more honest discussions.

    Expect a warm, intimate atmosphere, nourishing food and drinks, and a social experience where depth is normal.

    If you’re bored of shallow socialising and addictive apps, this is for you.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️🎟️

    See FAQs below for key details.

    IMPORTANT INFO

    Time: Arrive 6.30. We start 7pm.
    Size: Small groups 4-6 (depending on attendance)
    Ticket: Entry only, everyone pays for their own food/drinks.
    Photos/videos may be taken. Due to the table size, we’re not able to exclude individuals from shots.

    Register here if you’re joining us for dinner. Join our WhatsApp community here for locatio pin drop and table info on the day.

    THE HOST

    Ben has 4 years of experience hosting meaningful conversation events in London. He is the founder of Unseen - a meaningful social events company. He has also spent almost 20 years building venures across creative, wellbeing and community spaces.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️🎟️

    THE RESTAURANT

    GA Kings X is a beautiful modern European bar and restaurant in King’s Cross, inside the Pullman London St Pancras, serving contemporary British and European dishes, plus a wide range of cocktails and bar bites. They offer meat, fish and vegetarian options, plus a full drinks menu including cocktails, spirits, wine, tea & coffee.

    WELCOME TO THE COMMUNITY

    Unseen is a community & events company hosting monthly socials, dinners & walks in London. Founded by Ben Jay, Unseen offers curated social experiences in beautiful spaces, designed for curious minds who want deeper conversation & real connection.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️🎟️

    FAQS

    Will there be photography?
    Yes. We may take photos and videos during the event. Due to the table size, we’re not able to exclude individuals from shots.

    Where might photos and videos from the dinner appear?
    On our Instagram, website, emails, press coverage, and sometimes in partner or promotional material.

    What’s the vibe like?
    Informal, thoughtful and welcoming. Intimate, wholesome and a bit deeper than your usual dinner out.

    What topics will we be discussing?
    Relationships, purpose, personal growth, identity, values, life direction and more.

    Will it be very intense?
    The aim is meaningful conversation, honesty and depth, not forced vulnerability. You do not have to talk about anything you do not want to, such as trauma or things you may be working on in therapy. This is not a therapeutic space, though if you are comfortable discussing more difficult things, that will not be unwelcome.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️🎟️

    How does the format work?
    You’ll be seated at tables of 4-6 people. Each table will have curated conversation cards to help spark more meaningful discussions throughout the evening. A host will also be present for safety, and to make sure everyone gets a chance to contribute equally.

    Do I have to use the conversation cards?
    We encourage it. The point of the social is to create a space where deeper conversation feels natural. If that does not appeal to you, this event may not be for you.

    Do I need to come with someone?
    No. Lots of people come alone. The format makes it easy to settle in and connect with others.

    Can I come with a friend?
    Yes, of course. Just bear in mind the event is designed to encourage conversation with the whole table, not only the person you arrive with.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️🎟️

    Is this a hosted event?
    It is fully hosted and carefully designed. Feedback is welcome.

    What kind of people come?
    Usually curious, thoughtful, intentional and open-minded people who want a more meaningful kind of social experience.

    Is food included in the ticket?
    No, food and drinks can be purchased at the venue.

    What if I have dietary requirements?
    Please check directly with the venue before attending if you have specific dietary needs. The menu is usually available on their website.

    What time should I arrive?
    Please arrive on time so everyone can settle in properly before we begin. Arriving late upsets the experience for others.

    How often do these dinners happen?
    Monthly.

    Are there any behaviour rules?
    Yes. Be respectful and do not make the event uncomfortable for others. Harassment or harmful behaviour is not acceptable.

    What should I do if there’s an issue on the day?
    Speak to me (Ben) during the event or email afterwards so I can look into it properly.

    ️🎟️ Grab your ticket here ️🎟️

    Please note: Experiences and perspectives may be discussed, but this is not a therapeutic space and does not provide medical or psychological advice.

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