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Fed up with dating apps and speed dating sounds forced and awkward?

Time to try an UpDate evening! Think of the best bar you’ve ever been to where you have no choice but to have fun and meet new people. We set the scene for deep conversation, playful interactions, and seeing others from many different sides! We do this with:

• Stupid little games
• Questions that make you think
• Crazy hosts

We came up with this idea because everybody is on dating apps, but nobody really likes it. At the same time, standard speed dating can feel boring and forced. And how many new people do you really meet when you just work, sport, and see your friends?

Our idea is that you have a great night out anyway, whether you match with someone or not. This is more natural, feels more relaxed, and you get to see people from many different angles. If you want to get nerdy with us, there is a lot of science suggesting that this is the best way to make new connections!

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