What we’re about
🌟 Deep Talk instead of Small Talk
We bring people together who want to have meaningful conversations — in small groups that are a good match. No shallow activities, no group pressure — just real Deep Talk.
💡 Why Urban Friends?
Loneliness is a growing issue: Studies show that one in three adults in Germany between the ages of 18 and 53 feels at least somewhat lonely — often despite having plenty of social contacts. It’s not about the number of encounters, but about the fact that many relationships feel emotionally insufficient.
👥 Why groups of four?
1:1 meetups often feel like a date — awkward, especially with new people.
Studies show: The best conversations happen in groups of four — meaningful, relaxed, without awkward silences.
When a fifth person joins, groups tend to split.
🎯 Matching by conversation style
Some people like to listen carefully, take their time, and choose their words thoughtfully. Others speak quickly, interrupt in a charming way, and love a lively flow of conversation.
⏱ The 30-Minute Rule (Robin Dunbar)
Research shows: We invest most in friendships with people who live within 30 minutes — whether on foot, by bike, or by car.
👉 We’re currently looking for 50 test users in Hamburg. For more info and to sign up:
https://urban-friends.vercel.app/?utm_source=meetup&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=meetup
📌 In this group, we mainly post when we’ve already found 2 or 3 matching people — and we’re looking for one more to complete the group.
