
What we’re about
-LOOKING FOR THE HIKING GROUP? You can find them here and here—easy-peazy!
-Yes, we do take movie requests!
This group description was partly written with AI:
Do you crave movies that make you question reality, your existence, and whether your coffee was laced with something? Do you find yourself quoting obscure directors no one else has heard of just for fun? Are you a film school dropout? Does the idea of a black-and-white, three-hour film with no dialogue and a mysterious floating balloon sound like your ideal Friday night?
[Note: I wouldn't say we'll watch anything quite that boring; but oldies can be goodies. And we'll watch some new stuff as well.]
Welcome to Hampton Roads Cinephiles! This is a group for people who want to see the latest indie horror at the Naro, appreciate a slick New Waver by Godard or Varda, thrill in the samurai epics of Kurosawa, and joy in being mindf*d by Kubrick—along with taking pleasure in many newer films that the normies may or may not have heard of.
Whether it’s thoughtful thrillers, surrealist horror, a bloody Yakuza joint, or a gorgeous wuxia film by Zhang Yimou, Hampton Roads Cinephiles is all about the wow factor; we live for those moments when a true work of art leaves you staring at the screen long after the credits roll, trying to process what the hell just happened. (And we're happy to stand outside or go to a bar across the street and talk about it.)
We'll be gathering at local cinemas around Town Center, the Oceanfront, and probably the Naro, but don’t be surprised if we end up in some cozy, tucked-away venue for those avant-garde films you can't see in the theaters.
(I also run two other Meetup Groups, the Hampton Roads Science Fiction and Fantasy Book Club and the Richmond Science Fiction and Fantasy Book Club. Check 'em out if that's your thing!)
****No-Flake Policy, effective September 26, 2024** (**update: I can't say I've been enforcing this policy with ramrod precision. I generally start reminding people about the policy when multiple people start flaking at once, in a really noticeable and annoying way.)
- What’s Flaking? Flaking is when you cancel or don’t show up for something you RSVP’d to with less than 8 hours’ notice. I understand that things come up, but last-minute cancellations or no-shows affect attendance and waste my time, effort, and occasionally money—especially when I’ve made reservations for rooms or restaurants, or gotten hard copies of movies and AV equipment for watch party events specifically.
- Life Happens: I totally get it—emergencies, illnesses, or other unexpected things can happen. Please just give me a heads-up as soon as possible. If it’s not an emergency, try to cancel at least 8 hours before the event so I can adjust plans.
- Keeping It Fair: If you flake more than three times in a two-month period without a valid reason, I’ll have to remove you from the group. This ensures everyone respects each other’s time and commitment.
- Half of Life is Just Showing Up: Your attendance is what really makes the group special. When you show up, it creates a more engaging and fun experience for everyone, sparking great conversations with fellow cinephiles. The more people who attend, the richer our discussions will be. So, if you RSVP, please make it a priority to come. If something comes up, just let me know at least 8 hours in advance so I can adjust accordingly.
(This policy becomes effective September 26, 2024. If you flaked previous to this date but not after, your slate is clean.)
Upcoming events
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WATCH PARTY: Oldboy (2005) Park Chan-Wook @ Mary Pretlow Library
Mary Pretlow Library, 111 w ocean view avenue ,, Norfolk, VA, USThe people have been asking for it. I love this movie.
In the second big room to the right of the entrance, Meeting Room 2.
RUNTIME: 120 minutes. Rated R, age 18+. Watch the trailer here.
SYNOPSIS: Dae-Su is an obnoxious drunk bailed from the police station yet again by a friend. However, he's abducted from the street and wakes up in a cell, where he remains for the next 15 years, drugged unconscious when human contact is unavoidable, otherwise with only the television as company. And then, suddenly released, he is invited to track down his jailor with a denouement that is simply stunning.
BLURBS:
"Shakespearean in its violence, Oldboy also calls up nightmare images of spiritual and physical isolation that are worthy of Samuel Beckett or Dostoyevsky." - Joe Morgenstern, The Wall Street Journal
"Oldboy is a powerful film not because of what it depicts, but because of the depths of the human heart which it strips bare." - Roger Ebert
"Full of insanely grand passions, bloodthirsty violence and jet black comedy, it's a sadistic masterpiece that confirms Korea's current status as producer of some of the world's most exciting cinema." - Jamie Russell, BBC.com8 attendees
Past events
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