
What we’re about
Many of us feel like today’s options for meeting someone are too extreme. On one side, dating apps can feel too casual, focused more on swiping, hookups, or surface-level impressions. On the other, arranged matches through family or relatives may feel too formal, pressured, or traditional for the way we live now.
This group is about creating a third space — a middle ground:
Where singles can meet in person without the pressure of “instant chemistry” or “immediate marriage.”
Where friendship, respect, and shared values come first, and genuine relationships can grow naturally.
Where people can be modern and independent, but still value sincerity, loyalty, and meaningful connections.
In our discussion, we’ll explore:
What frustrates people most about dating apps.
What feels limiting about arranged or family-driven matches.
What qualities we’re all actually looking for in real connections.
How we, as a group, can create this balanced space together — through meetups, activities, and conversations.
The goal is to build a community where people can connect without extremes — a space that feels natural, comfortable, and real.
Past events
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