About us
Yeah, we actually love seeing members step into volunteer or leadership roles here in the Velvet Aurora Singles Community. Whether you're passionate about event planning, bringing people together, or just want to help shape the vibe of our gatherings, there's room for you to get involved. It's a great way to deepen your connection with the group and make a real impact while meeting amazing people who share your values.
We're all about building a warm, inclusive, and drama free culture where people feel safe being themselves. This isn't a scene where you have to fake it or compete for attention. We're here for real conversations, genuine connections, and relationships that go deeper than surface level. Respect, kindness, and emotional honesty are the foundation of everything we do.
We typically host events once or twice a month, mixing things up with cozy indoor meetups like wine and paint nights or intimate dinner parties, and fun outdoor adventures like scenic hikes or farmers market strolls. The pace is relaxed but consistent, giving you time to connect and breathe between events without losing momentum.
Accessibility matters to us, so we choose event locations that are wheelchair friendly, centrally located, and public transit accessible. We also rotate venues to make sure different parts of the city are represented over time. If you have a specific need or suggestion, just let us know and we'll work with you to make it happen.
If you're tired of swiping through endless profiles and want something more meaningful, this is your invitation to try something different. Velvet Aurora is for singles who are ready to meet authentic, like minded people through real experiences, not forced small talk. Come as you are, open your heart, and let's build something beautiful together.
Upcoming events
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Durham Valentine's Singles Round Robins
ยทOnlineOnline๐น Zoom Speed Dating โ Designed for First Timers โ Meet Real Durham Singles!
โ ๏ธ RSVP โ Registration!
Your Meetup RSVP alone does not secure a spot. You must click your age group link below, complete registration, and finish the personality quiz. Spots are limited and fill fast!
๐ Register for Your Age Group Here:
- Ages 18-32 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ โ REGISTER HERE
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๐๏ธ No need to dress up or go out. Speed date from your living room! Speed dating online means you can be yourself in a space where you feel safe. No loud bars, no travel stress โ just real conversations with real Durham singles who are also looking for connection.
๐ฏ Perfect for:
- Anyone anxious about crowded bars or in-person meetups
- Anyone trying speed dating for the first time
- Shy or reserved singles who open up better in private chats
Event Details
- Format: Hosted on Zoom โ convenient, intimate & perfect for first-timers
- Location: Anywhere with Wi-Fi โ your couch, your cafรฉ, your call
- Host: Supportive facilitator experienced in helping newcomers enjoy speed dating
- Vibe: Genuine, enjoyable mini-dates with welcoming Durham singles
How It Works
- Claim Your Spot โ Choose your age range and complete the sign-up process.
- Complete the Personality Quiz โ We'll match you with compatible Durham singles for the best experience.
- Hop on Zoom โ Your host will welcome you and walk you through everything.
- The Fun Part โ Rotate through rounds of lively chats with pre-matched Durham singles.
- See Who Liked You Back โ Mutual matches sent to your inbox. Your next chapter begins!
โญ "The online format was perfect for me. I felt comfortable and had a blast!" โ Durham single
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โจ Your next great connection could be one Zoom call away. Don't overthink it โ just show up! ๐ฅฐ โจ44 attendees
Greensboro Valentine's Singles Round Robins
ยทOnlineOnline๐ Virtual Speed Dating โ Ideal for First Timers โ Meet Greensboro Singles Tonight!
โ ๏ธ RSVP โ Registration!
Your Meetup RSVP alone does not secure a spot. You must click your age group link below, complete registration, and finish the personality quiz. Spots are limited and fill fast!
โฌ๏ธ Select Your Age Range & Complete Registration:
- Ages 18-32 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ โ REGISTER HERE
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๐ Want to meet real singles without the bar scene? Welcome! Whether you've never speed dated or you've never even been on a proper date, this event is for you. Our friendly format and experienced hosts make everyone feel welcome from minute one.
๐ฏ Perfect for:
- First-time speed daters ready to try something new
- Shy or reserved singles who open up better in private chats
- Anyone trying speed dating for the first time
โญ "From my couch to a great first date โ this is the future of dating!" โ Greensboro local
How It Works
- Claim Your Spot โ Choose your age range and complete the sign-up process.
- Complete Your Profile Quiz โ A quick questionnaire so we can find your best matches.
- Join the Zoom Event โ Log in from home and meet your host. We'll handle the rest!
- Date from Home โ Have real, meaningful mini-dates with Greensboro singles โ all from your couch.
- Match Results โ Find out who you clicked with. If the feeling is mutual, we connect you!
Event Details
- Format: Interactive Zoom event โ feel like you're in the same room
- Location: From your living room, home office, or anywhere you choose
- Host: Seasoned speed dating host with a talent for putting first-timers at ease
- Vibe: Comfortable chats with Greensboro singles in a supportive, beginner-friendly environment
- Tech: All you need is Zoom, a webcam, and a smile
- Duration: A perfectly paced 60โ90 minute event with multiple rounds
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need to download anything?
Just Zoom! If you've used Zoom before, you're all set. We'll send you the link after registration.Can I attend from my phone?
Yes! Zoom works on any device, though a laptop or tablet gives the best experience.How long are the conversations?
Each round is a few minutes โ long enough to feel a connection, short enough to keep things exciting!Do I need speed dating experience?
Absolutely not! This event is designed specifically for first-timers. Our host guides you through every step.---
โจ Great connections start with a single conversation. Yours could start tonight! ๐ซถ โจ27 attendees
Winston-Salem Valentine's Singles Round Robins
ยทOnlineOnline๐ Speed Dating for First Timers โ Meet Like-Minded Local Singles from Home!
โ ๏ธ HEADS UP: Clicking RSVP Is NOT Enough!
You must register through one of the links below and complete the short personality quiz to secure your spot. Select your age range and register now โ spots are limited and go fast!
๐ Pick Your Age Group & Secure Your Spot:
- Ages 18-32 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ โ REGISTER HERE
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๐ Prefer to meet people from home first? Same here! This isn't your typical dating event. It's a curated, online experience where first-timers meet compatible Winston-Salem singles in a low-key, guided environment. No pressure โ just possibilities.
๐ฏ Perfect for:
- Singles looking for genuine connections beyond dating apps
- Remote workers who love the convenience of online meetups
- First-timers who want a safe space to practice dating skills
- Introverts who shine in one-on-one conversations
- People who want to meet local Winston-Salem singles without leaving home
โญ "10/10 would do again. The host was amazing and I actually had fun dating!" โ Winston-Salem first-timer
Event Details
- Format: Zoom-based experience โ connect from the comfort of your own home
- Location: From the comfort of your own home โ no need to go anywhere!
- Host: Fun, approachable host who breaks the ice so you don't have to
- Vibe: Friendly, no-judgement conversations with singles from the Winston-Salem area
How It Works
- Register for Your Age Group โ Choose the session that matches your age range above and complete registration.
- Do the Matching Quiz โ It only takes a minute and dramatically improves your matches.
- Show Up on Zoom โ Grab a drink, get comfortable, and let the host guide you through each round.
- Start Chatting โ Short, timed conversations with compatible Winston-Salem singles. No awkward silences!
- Connect After the Event โ Mutual matches are shared so you can continue the conversation.
๐ก Top tip: Good lighting and a tidy background go a long way on Zoom dates.
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โจ Life's too short for bad dates. Try a great one โ from home! ๐ โจ46 attendees
Raleigh Valentine's Singles Round Robins
ยทOnlineOnline๐ Easy Online Speed Dating โ Zero Pressure, Real Connections, First Timers Welcome!
๐จ ATTENTION: RSVPing Here Will NOT Reserve Your Spot!
You need to click the registration link for your age group below, register, and complete the personality quiz to be entered. Spots fill up quickly โ act now to secure yours!
๐ Click Your Age Group to Register & Complete the Quiz:
- Ages 18-32 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 30-46 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 40-58 โ REGISTER HERE
- Ages 55+ โ REGISTER HERE
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๐ก Curious about speed dating but nervous? We've got you! No experience needed. No dating profile required. Just real people having real conversations. Our online format makes it easy for first-timers to connect with Raleigh singles in a pressure-free setting.
๐ฏ Perfect for:
- Shy or reserved singles who open up better in private chats
- Anyone looking for a fun, structured way to meet new people
- Anyone who's tired of swiping and wants real conversation
How It Works
- Choose Your Age Group โ Find your age range above and click to register.
- Answer a Few Fun Questions โ Our quiz helps match you with compatible Raleigh singles.
- Connect on Zoom โ No setup needed. Just click the link and you're in!
- The Fun Part โ Rotate through rounds of lively chats with pre-matched Raleigh singles.
- Get Your Matches โ After the event, mutual matches are revealed. Start a real connection!
Event Details
- Format: Online Zoom experience โ intimate setting, professional hosting
- Location: Right where you are โ no commute, no parking, no hassle
- Host: Supportive facilitator experienced in helping newcomers enjoy speed dating
- Vibe: Comfortable chats with Raleigh singles in a supportive, beginner-friendly environment
- Atmosphere: Positive, inclusive, and judgement-free
- Follow-up: Post-event match results delivered to your inbox
- Privacy: Your contact info is never shared without mutual consent
๐ก Remember: Everyone is here to have fun. Relax, be curious, and enjoy the ride!
โญ "I was so nervous, but the host made it so easy. I met someone amazing on my first try!" โ First-timer from Raleigh
Frequently Asked Questions
What's the personality quiz for?
It helps us match you with compatible people so your conversations are more likely to click!What if my internet drops?
No worries โ our host will help you reconnect. Technical hiccups happen and we're prepared for them!How long are the conversations?
Each round is a few minutes โ long enough to feel a connection, short enough to keep things exciting!---
โจ Online speed dating perfect for first-timers โ meet local singles from the comfort of home. Join us! โค๏ธโ๐ฅ โจ46 attendees
