
What we’re about
Are you looking for fun social activities/meetups in Wellington and want to make new friends? Join and read more!
We are Hey mates - A platform that hosts fun in-person social events. Not like the ones that you’ve been in past; we really focus on delivering a great experience and creating a safe space where you can truly connect with others and have fun.
Don't take our word for it - feedback.heymates.com/wall
Our socials are PAID for a reason. We are offering value for people who are looking for:
- Great in-person experience.
- Inclusive and culturally open community.
- A space where you can truly connect with others, share stories and have fun - EVERY SINGLE TIME!
We exist for individuals who HAVEN'T had good experiences or found an inclusive space.
Some of the symptoms you might have experienced at other events:
- felt like an outsider - breaking into an existing group
- felt ignored and was just left to you to figure it out.
- people had specific views and beliefs (weren't open to other cultures or views)
- Host were too focused on actual activity vs making sure everyone was socially connected.
- the group was so big that you felt lost
- the overall experience was average or less than ideal.
Our key differentiator is EXPERIENCE and INCLUSION of cultures + Diversity:
- Events run by kind and trusted hosts
- Facilitated and co-ordinated events
- High confidence, 98% attendee show-up rate.
- Over 30% of users attend more than twice.
- Small groups, better outcomes. (max. 15 attendees per event)
- See Familiar faces and reconnect over repeat activities - build trust and long-term friendships.
If you're not finding an opportunity or an event/activity you love, host one and open yourself to meeting new people!
Hosting is Free with us - no need to pay $100+ to meetup subscriptions.
If you ask how follow these steps:
- Create an account: https://heymates.com/sign-up/
- Fill out this form to indicate what activity you would like to do: heymates.com/host-activity
- If you just want to talk, send us an email - info@heymates.com or text 0221860690. :)
If you have come this far? Thank you for reading. <3
Join an activity today and support our mission.
Have fun making new connections and quality friends.
See you out there!
Free to join activity. We do not support or honour show-ups without RSVP.
🎟️ RSVP here: https://heymates.com/wellington/wlgpool/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆
✅️ Meeting spot and exact location is shared with confirmed attendees.
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From Josiah: Looking to ditch the routine, unleash some laughter, and sink some shots with awesome new people? Let's play some friendly Pool game over drinks.
We will be trying out a new game called "Killers". Game starts with you choosing a set of balls in 3 (e.g. 1, 2, 3 or 4, 5, 6 and so on).
To win, you need to save your balls and hit everyone else's numbers!
It's a very fun, entertaining game which we discovered recently!
Come and check it out!
Josiah's Profile
- Age: 27
- Interests: Gym & Excercise, Cooking & Travel
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People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there!
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- 20-30s Gals Book ClubWellington CBD, Wellington
Looking to unwind, connect, and find new reads? Join our Women’s Book Club!
🎟️ RSVP here: heymates.com/wellington-central/womens-book-club/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆 $12.50 activity fee.
✅️ Meeting spot is shared with confirmed attendees via email.
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⭐ Join this community event hosted by Annika! ⭐
Come hang out with other women who love books, laughs, and great company — the perfect way to ease into your weekend!
We’ll dive into a mix of engaging, thought-provoking, and feel-good reads — with room for everyone to share their thoughts (or just listen and enjoy your coffee — no pressure!).
Our first session we’ll learn more about what everyone likes to read and decide on a book that we can read over the next month!
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RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there!
Not open - Social Axe ThrowingWellington CBD, Wellington
Join us for our monthly Axe social and experience the excitement of hitting the target, share laughs, and forge new friendships.
🎟️ RSVP here: https://heymates.com/wellington/axethrow/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆 $6.25 activity fee.
💲 Everyone pays for their own Axe throwing session.✅️ Meeting spot is shared with confirmed attendees via email.
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Always wanted to throw axes but too scared to do it alone or fear you'll butcher someone!?
Join this Axe Social, which is designed to socialise, connect and meet new people and then have a go at throwing axes with one of their staff members who will be by your side.
The plan is to meet as a group at the location 10 mins early and get all checked in and inducted at the venue!
⭐ What to Expect ⭐
- Meet new people and some familiar faces from the Hey mates community.
- 30-minute introduction/training session.
- 1.5 hours of throwing time, including games and mini-tournaments.
- Get future sessions for just $25 with a Free 'Axe Addict' membership.
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RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there!
Not open - $10 Tuesdays: Mission ImpossibleWellington CBD, Wellington
Starting this new series of cheap movie nights and chats.
1. Buy your tickets here first:
- https://www.empirecinema.nz/checkout/seats/652340
- I am seated in Row C - middle seats. Welcome to buy tickets nearby.
2. 🎟️ RSVP on Hey mates to indicate you're coming so we wait for you:
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆 Free to attend.
✅️ Host details and meeting spot is shared once RSVP'd on Hey mates.
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⭐ Join this community event hosted by Dhruv! ⭐
Catch the latest action-packed Mission: Impossible film for just $10 with Empire Cinema’s Tuesday deal. This is a casual, fun night out—perfect if you love movies and want to meet others who do too.
See you there, agents. 🎥🔥💥
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RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there!
Not open - King's B'day: Social Pool & Drinks (READ desc)Wellington CBD, Wellington
Free to join activity. We do not support or honour show-ups without RSVP.
🎟️ RSVP here: https://heymates.com/wellington/wlgpool/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆
✅️ Meeting spot and exact location is shared with confirmed attendees.
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From Josiah: Looking to ditch the routine, unleash some laughter, and sink some shots with awesome new people? Let's play some friendly Pool game over drinks.
We will be trying out a new game called "Killers". Game starts with you choosing a set of balls in 3 (e.g. 1, 2, 3 or 4, 5, 6 and so on).
To win, you need to save your balls and hit everyone else's numbers!
It's a very fun, entertaining game which we discovered recently!
Come and check it out!
Josiah's Profile
- Age: 27
- Interests: Gym & Excercise, Cooking & Travel
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People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there!
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