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Are you looking for fun social activities/meetups in Wellington and want to make new friends? Join and read more!
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Events are here to raise awareness among interested people on meetup site.
RSVP is closed on meetup to avoid falky users, please read description and visit activity on Hey mates to join/RSVP.
Cheers.
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Hey mates - A platform that hosts fun in-person social events.
Not like the ones that you’ve been in past; we really focus on delivering a great experience and creating a safe space where you can truly connect with others and have fun.
Don't take our word for it - feedback.heymates.com/wall
Our socials are PAID for a reason. We are offering value for people who are looking for:
- Great in-person experience.
- Inclusive and culturally open community.
- A space where you can truly connect with others, share stories and have fun - EVERY SINGLE TIME!
We exist for individuals who HAVEN'T had good experiences or found an inclusive space.
Some of the symptoms you might have experienced at other events:
- felt like an outsider - breaking into an existing group
- felt ignored and was just left to you to figure it out.
- people had specific views and beliefs (weren't open to other cultures or views)
- Host were too focused on actual activity vs making sure everyone was socially connected.
- the group was so big that you felt lost
- the overall experience was average or less than ideal.
Our key differentiator is EXPERIENCE and INCLUSION of cultures + Diversity:
- Events run by kind and trusted hosts
- Facilitated and co-ordinated events
- High confidence, 98% attendee show-up rate.
- Over 30% of users attend more than twice.
- Small groups, better outcomes. (max. 15 attendees per event)
- See Familiar faces and reconnect over repeat activities - build trust and long-term friendships.
If you're not finding an opportunity or an event/activity you love, host one and open yourself to meeting new people!
Hosting is Free with us - no need to pay $100+ to meetup subscriptions.
If you ask how follow these steps:
- Create an account: https://heymates.com/sign-up/
- Fill out this form to indicate what activity you would like to do: heymates.com/host-activity
- If you just want to talk, send us an email - info@heymates.com or text 0221860690. :)
If you have come this far? Thank you for reading. <3
Join an activity today and support our mission.
Have fun making new connections and quality friends.
See you out there!
Come along on a day trip to explore the beautiful Queen Elizabeth Park!
🎟️ RSVP here: https://heymates.com/paekakariki-wellington/sunday-brunch-silent-walk-paekakariki-beach/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆 Free to attend.
✅️ Meeting spot is shared with confirmed attendees via email.
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⭐ Join this community event hosted by Samina! ⭐
This 12 km return walk is mostly flat and will take us through the park, with a detour to the wetlands and along the beach towards Paekakariki.
We’ll return through the park, enjoying stunning views and nature all around. It’s a great way to spend the day outdoors, meet new people, and get some fresh air.
Duration: ~5 hours, including stops.
Meeting point
- Visit activity page and RSVP there.
What to bring
- Comfortable walking shoes
- Water and snacks
- Sun hat, sunscreen, and warm layer/rain jacket (weather can be unpredictable).
If the weather is rainy, we’ll postpone to another day.
Come prepared for a day of adventure, stunning scenery, and great company! 🌞
See you there!
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RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there!
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Hey mates | Board Games FridayWellington CBD, Wellington
Join us to play some easy, fun and interactive games. Not hard or long ones!
🎟️ RSVP here: https://heymates.com/wellington/wlgbg/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆 $12.50 activity fee.
✅️ Meeting spot is shared with confirmed attendees via email.
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Description: Want a wholesome night in with a bunch of new friends where you can play board games, have a chat and enjoy good food?
Join us to play some easy, fun, social and interactive games fortnightly. Not hard brain-frying long ones!We will play a few popular titles like Codenames, Anomia, Tsuro (easy, wonderful socializer games), and whichever ones group wants to play!
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FAQs:📌 Q: I'm bad at or don't like board games?
A: When I say board games, I don't mean Dungeons and Dragons (no shade!). We will be playing stuff like Codenames, Herd Mentality and other EASY to-pick-up games. And if you don't want to play, that's fine too, just come hang out :)📌 Q: Can I come alone?
A: Absolutely! In fact, most people actually come by themselves. The whole point is to meet new people and everyone is in the same boat so it's a very warm and welcoming environment.📌 Q: Are all welcome?
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RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there!
Not open - Chocolate High Tea BrunchWellington CBD, Wellington
Join us for an indulgent chocolate-themed high tea experience—sip premium teas, savour delightful treats, and connect with fellow chocolate lovers!
🎟️ RSVP here: https://heymates.com/wellington/chocolate-high-tea-brunch/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆 Paid activity.
✅️ Meeting spot is shared with confirmed attendees via email.
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⭐ Celebrate World Chocolate Day in style at the elegant Dilmah T-Lounge! ⭐
We'll be gathering at the elegant Dilmah T-Lounge for a calm and nourishing morning Tea where you can meet others, share stories, and enjoy curated teas in a cozy setting.
Every guest receives a set high tea, unlimited Dilmah tea, and as part of our Hey mates collab, a complimentary mini tea set (a premium tea caddie to take home)
- Single Estate Darjeeling
- Supreme Ceylon Single Origin
- Tie Guan Yin
🟥 The activity fee reserves your seat and supports the platform.
✅ Exact location is shared with confirmed attendees along with
instructions.💵 Everyone pays for their own High Tea experience at the venue (Cost: $64)
This specially curated Chocolate High Tea experience features following items:
Sweets:- Chocolate cake
- Tea infused truffle
- Chocolate coated macaroon
- Chocolate mousse
Savoury:
- Salmon bruschetta
- Moroccan mint tea infused cucumber with cream cheese sandwich
- Sri Lankan style tempered "kadala gotuwa"
- "Polos" burger
- Curry leaf scone
- Veggie spring roll
- Tuna cutlet
🤩 Bonus: the first 50 guests enjoy an upgraded experience—5 tea pairings + a chocolate bar (from Wellington Chocolate Factory) to take home!
⭐ What to Expect ⭐
- Delicious High tea experience with a welcoming group
- A chance to unwind, reflect, and connect in an intentional space
- Learn brewing tips and tea facts from in-house experts
- Connect with others through guided conversation and shared moments
- Mingle with fellow chocolate enthusiasts in a warm, stylish atmosphere
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RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there! ✨
Not open - Recession Pop Party!Wellington CBD, Wellington
Love POP music but too afraid to go alone!? Join us for some social dancing in safe space/people. Get your ticket - Link in description and then RSVP here.
🎟️ RSVP here: https://heymates.com/wellington-central-wellington/recession-pop-party/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆 free activity.
✅️ Meeting spot is shared with confirmed attendees via email.
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⭐ Join this community event hosted by Josiah! ⭐
Feel a bit sick of the same weekly routine? Add a little chaos to break it up and come out to a gig hosted at sanfran and vibe out to some bangers from the early 2000s, have a dance, a drink, and a, definitely in-tune, sing-along to some of the new classics. Early bird tickets are super cheap, and the final release tickets are barely over $20.
Buy a ticket through the link below, and RSVP to let us know you are coming so we can wait for you at the doors.
https://www.moshtix.co.nz/v2/event/recession-pop-party-wellington/181327
SOUNDS LIKE: Kesha, Rihanna, The Black Eyed Peas, Chappell Roan, Ariana Grande, Taylor Swift, Lady Gaga, One Direction, Pitbull, LMFAO, Sabrina Carpenter, Carly Rae Jepsen, Jason Derulo, Britney Spears, Charli XCX, Usher, Cobra Starship, Flo Rida, Nicki Minaj + HEAPS MORE!!
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RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there! ✨
Not open - Social Pilates Series (5 Packs)Wellington CBD, Wellington
Join us for a progressive Pilates series where you'll build strength, confidence, and connection week by week.
🎟️ RSVP here: https://heymates.com/petone-wellington/social-pilates-series/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆 Paid activity✅️ Meeting spot is shared with confirmed attendees via email.
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⭐ Join this community series in collaboration with Thrive Pilates! ⭐
This 5 consecutive weeks of Multi-Level Reformer Pilates series is designed for all abilities — whether you're new to Pilates or an experienced mover, you'll receive tailored guidance to suit your individual needs.
Enjoy a supportive, welcoming environment with personalised attention in our intimate classes (max 8 participants). Each session will energise and challenge you, helping to build strength, flexibility, and balance in a sustainable way.
After the session, you are welcome to stay or visit a cafe nearby with the group to continue the conversations and connections.
🟥 The activity fee reserves your spot for the entire 5 scheduled class series and supports the platform.
✅ The venue and host details are shared with confirmed attendees via email.
⚠️ Please Note: While we do our best to be flexible, we are unable to offer reschedules or make-up sessions for any missed classes within this 5-week consecutive block. For health and safety reasons, classes are also non-transferable and cannot be passed on to another person.
⭐ What to Expect ⭐
- Weekly 45-minute intermediate Reformer Pilates classes (for 5 weeks)
- Layered, progressive structure with options for all levels
- Supportive, welcoming vibe focused on strength, coordination, and control
- Post-class connection time with relaxed convos
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RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there! ✨
