What we’re about
Are you looking for fun social activities/meetups in Wellington and want to make new friends? Join and read more!
RSVP for all of our events is managed on heymates.com
Events are here to raise awareness among interested people on meetup site.
RSVP is closed on meetup to avoid falky users, please read description and visit activity on Hey mates to join/RSVP.
Cheers.
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Hey mates - A platform that hosts fun in-person social events.
Not like the ones that you’ve been in past; we really focus on delivering a great experience and creating a safe space where you can truly connect with others and have fun.
Don't take our word for it - feedback.heymates.com/wall
Our socials are PAID for a reason. We are offering value for people who are looking for:
- Great in-person experience.
- Inclusive and culturally open community.
- A space where you can truly connect with others, share stories and have fun - EVERY SINGLE TIME!
We exist for individuals who HAVEN'T had good experiences or found an inclusive space.
Some of the symptoms you might have experienced at other events:
- felt like an outsider - breaking into an existing group
- felt ignored and was just left to you to figure it out.
- people had specific views and beliefs (weren't open to other cultures or views)
- Host were too focused on actual activity vs making sure everyone was socially connected.
- the group was so big that you felt lost
- the overall experience was average or less than ideal.
Our key differentiator is EXPERIENCE and INCLUSION of cultures + Diversity:
- Events run by kind and trusted hosts
- Facilitated and co-ordinated events
- High confidence, 98% attendee show-up rate.
- Over 30% of users attend more than twice.
- Small groups, better outcomes. (max. 15 attendees per event)
- See Familiar faces and reconnect over repeat activities - build trust and long-term friendships.
If you're not finding an opportunity or an event/activity you love, host one and open yourself to meeting new people!
Hosting is Free with us - no need to pay $100+ to meetup subscriptions.
If you ask how follow these steps:
- Create an account: https://heymates.com/sign-up/
- Fill out this form to indicate what activity you would like to do: heymates.com/host-activity
- If you just want to talk, send us an email - info@heymates.com or text 0221860690. :)
If you have come this far? Thank you for reading. <3
Join an activity today and support our mission.
Have fun making new connections and quality friends.
See you out there!
Upcoming events (4+)
See all- Pizza & Mini-Golf ⛳️Wellington CBD, Wellington
Join us for an evening of casual mini-golf sessions, meet new people and have delicious Pizza from Pizza Pomodoro.
🎟️ RSVP here: https://heymates.com/wellington/pizza-mini-putt/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆 Paid activity.
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⭐ Join this community event hosted by Dhruv! ⭐
Join us for an evening of casual mini-golf sessions, meet new people and have delicious Pizza from Pizza Pomodoro.
Pizza Pomodoro is known for their traditional wood-fired pizzas, made with fresh ingredients and loads of love. With vegetarian and vegan options available, there’s something for everyone.
It’s one of the best pizzas in Wellington, hands down.
⭐️ What's the plan ⭐️
- We’ll meet at the venue, wait for everyone to arrive.
- Have some delicious pizza, unwind, and get chatting.
- After kai, we'll split in two teams, grab your putter and channel your inner golf champion (or just have a good laugh trying).
Come for the putt, stay for the pizza and company — a perfect combo for midweek fun.
See you there! ✨
------------------------------------------------------------RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there!
Not open - Let's play Catan!Wellington CBD, Wellington
If you always wanted to try Catan or are a seasoned strategist, come and join us for a friendly game!
🎟️ RSVP here: https://heymates.com/wellington/catan/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆 $12.50 activity fee.
✅️ Meeting spot is shared with confirmed attendees via email.
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⭐ Join this community event hosted by Alex! ⭐
Hey everyone! Come and play Catan with us in a relaxed setting. Whether you're a pro or completely new to the game, you're welcome to join. We'll have some icebreaker activities before the game starts to have abit of chat and get to know people.
⭐ What to Expect ⭐
- A fun and casual game session featuring Catan.
- A chance to meet new people and test your strategy skills.
- All levels welcome—rules will be explained for beginners.
- If we have a bigger group, we’ll set up multiple games.
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FAQs:
📌 Q: I'm bad with these games (don't know at all how to play) can I come?
A: Don't let the game scare you, we will take you through all the rules and play the game slowly. Our goal here is to create a safe social space where you can connect with other attendees while you learn the ropes and enjoy. We won't put you at a Pro table. We have beginer friendly table on which we'll run a game.If you simply want to watch, you're welcome to or team up with someone new and get acquainted.
📌 Q: Can I come alone?
A: Absolutely! In fact, most people actually come by themselves. The whole point is to meet new people and everyone is in the same boat so it's a very warm and welcoming environment.📌 Q: Are all welcome?
A: YES! All genders and age ranges are welcome (min. 18+).------------------------------------------------------------
RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there!
- Build your social circle by hosting activities! (Free)Needs location
Hi there, we want to make hosting accessible to everyone as that's the stepping stone in building your tribe, on your schedule and convenience.
Use this form to host an activity: https://heymates.com/host-activity
If you are not ready to host don't want to host but have an idea.
- Suggest an activity: https://forms.gle/XFffCMooxPhcyJd37
Want to chat? Send me a text on 0221860690 and we can arrange a time.
Cheers,
Dhruv
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📌 What is Hey mates?
We are an alternative platform to Meetup and other social events sites.
Hey mates helps people make new friends over in-person social activities. Unlike ordinary meetups, we thoughtfully create each activity and experience where individuals share moments, build friendships, and find a sense of belonging.
📌 How we are different?
We’re not just events platform, we run our events with intent, inclusion and focus to enable connections, spark conversations and create a safe space helping people make new friends.
### Core Values
- Connection First – Friendships are our priority
- Inclusivity – Everyone is welcome
- Fun & Engaging – Socializing should be enjoyable
- Authenticity – Real people, real interactions
- Community-Driven – Built by and for our members
Our mission: To combat loneliness by building communities where authentic connections thrive over fun activities.
Hope that fuels your curiosity! <3
See you at an event!
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- Day Trip to Queen Elizabeth Park (Paraparaumu)Wellington CBD, Wellington
Come along on a day trip to explore the beautiful Queen Elizabeth Park!
🎟️ RSVP here: https://heymates.com/paekakariki-wellington/sunday-brunch-silent-walk-paekakariki-beach/
😵 Attendance is managed via Hey mates. 👆 Free to attend.
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⭐ Join this community event hosted by Samina! ⭐
This 12 km return walk is mostly flat and will take us through the park, with a detour to the wetlands and along the beach towards Paekakariki.
We’ll return through the park, enjoying stunning views and nature all around. It’s a great way to spend the day outdoors, meet new people, and get some fresh air.
Duration: ~5 hours, including stops.
Meeting point
- Visit activity page and RSVP there.
What to bring
- Comfortable walking shoes
- Water and snacks
- Sun hat, sunscreen, and warm layer/rain jacket (weather can be unpredictable).
If the weather is rainy, we’ll postpone to another day.
Come prepared for a day of adventure, stunning scenery, and great company! 🌞
See you there!
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RSVP is a must! https://heymates.com
People in your group are there to socialise, connect and have fun. Who knows? You might just discover your new BFF!
If you have any questions please comment down below or send me a message.
See you there!
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