Discovery - Real Talk, Real People

Most of us want deeper friendship… but don’t know where to find it.
This is for people who are tired of the small talk, the flakiness, the “we should hang out sometime” that never happens—and who want to figure out what real friendship could actually look like as an adult.

What Happens at Discovery Night:
You’ll show up.
We’ll sit in a casual circle.
You’ll get to answer (or just listen to) real, thoughtful questions like:

• What kind of connection are you actually looking for?
• When do you tend to pull away from people—and why?
• What makes you feel like you’ve been truly seen?

We’ll do a Fishbowl Round, where everyone gets to contribute a question they want to ask others—not icebreakers, but questions that help you actually figure out whether someone might be a friend you’d want to build with.
We’ll also talk through a few of the friendship myths that mess with our expectations, like:

• “If it takes effort, it’s not real”
• “If they ghosted, maybe I was too much”
• “I need to work on myself before I deserve deep connection”

You’ll leave with:

• A clearer picture of what kind of friendship you want
• A better sense of how you tend to show up in connection
• The option to follow up with people—without awkward guessing
• And maybe even a bit of hope that you're not the only one trying to figure this out

What This Is (and Is Not):
✅ Real questions
✅ Emotional honesty
✅ Optional follow-up (no forced group chats)
✅ A way to meet people who are also trying—not just scrolling
❌ No pressure to share if you don’t want to
❌ No performance, fixing, or oversharing
❌ No pretending we can solve friendship in one night

What Happens After
At the end, if the space feels good to you, you’ll be invited to join a 4-week small group journey designed to build on what we started here—through consistent gatherings, reflection, and shared experience.
But Discovery Night stands on its own. You don’t have to commit to anything.

Just show up. Ask or answer a few honest questions.
See how it feels. That’s it.