Discuss & Social 🍷 Personal boundaries & mixed signals in multicultural London

Discussion overview: Whether in social life, dating or work, everyone reacts differently when someone gets too close (or too far), physically or emotionally. But how much is too much? When does it become creepy?

The answer is often personal, but also influenced by our culture: why do some cultures touch and hug everyone - is it romantic or friendly? Why do some overshare or ask about every little detail in life? And if someone asks for space, is it the end, or just going too fast?

In a multicultural city like London where so many different cultures and social expectations meet, understanding different signals such as the need for space and boundaries can help us avoid misunderstandings and interact at the right rhythm.

Join us for a relaxed group conversation where we explore real life, grey areas, and how our different cultures and backgrounds shape our views about key topics. Expect real talk, no judgment, and a chance to learn how others see it.

*Come for the discussion, stay for the friendships. Our weekly discussion series brings together thoughtful people for honest conversations on relationships, life, and society - with warm social vibes before and after.*

WHAT TO EXPECT:

• Good vibes only: we chat big topics in a chill, respectful way. No arguing - just open-minded exchange.
• We warm up with casual socializing (come solo or with friends!)
• The topic starts around 7:45/8pm, wraps around 9:30.
• 🍕 There's pizza, drinks, milkshakes and snacks available at the bar (incl plant-based options)
• And most people stay until late for drinks and mingling!

DISCUSSION FORMAT:
- Our group conversations are open and flexible! There is a very soft guided flow to ensure we focus on the key questions, and to ensure that everyone gets a balanced opportunity to speak.
- We rotate groups intentionally during the discussion so everyone gets to meet a wider mix of people and perspectives.
- After the structured part, you’re free to mix and mingle with anyone.

Here's a typical discussion flow, but we may adjust this depending on the turnout:
- Introductions and initial thoughts (~5 mins).
- Group breakouts per question (~20 mins x 3).
- Final round of opinions (~10 mins).
- Mix and mingle, make new friends, get drinks etc (~until late)

Rules & etiquette:
1. Debate the topic, not the participants - no personal attacks please.
2. No phones, no interrupting, no bystanding.
3. Always follow the moderator/host instructions and guidelines.

WHAT IS WORLD CITIZENS?
We're one of London's longest-running and largest communities. Since 2012 we run socials, cultural activities and stimulating discussions to foster meaningful exchange and learning among London's global professionals. They are inspired by MUN (Model United Nations) and salon discussions and offer a more relaxed and social evening version.

LOCATION DETAILS
What: Discussion session followed by social/networking
When: Tuesday, 7:30pm until late.
Where: Curzon Aldgate (bar area), 2 Canter Way, E1 8PS
Closest stations: Aldgate East, Aldgate, Tower Hill/Gateway
Cost: Pay for your own meals or drinks
Hosts: We have a rotating team and the actual host of each event varies. Our regular members can also help you out with basic matters.

NOTE: like most guests, our volunteer hosts join after work and may arrive after the start time. If you are punctual or earlier than our hosts, we highly appreciate this! Please feel free to start socializing already and/or get something to eat or drink - that’s the point of our events anyway! Our regular members can also help you out with any basic matters.

*Our other weekly events*
- Friday evening socials every week
- Saturday afternoon cafe in Chelsea
- Canary Wharf socials every other Wednesday
- Outdoor fun (hiking, kayaking, etc) every weekend
- Dining, cultural and travel activities on-demand

JOIN OUR TEAM!
We're all volunteers, so if you enjoy organizing activities or events in your spare time, while meeting great people every week, send a message to our team account "TP"!

DISCLAIMER
We are a 100% volunteer-run team. Though we have high standards in planning, this is a private informal activity so we cannot be liable for any damage or inconvenience. However, we put safety and comfort first. We take all complaints seriously, and take severe action against any harassment, verbal or non-verbal, and anti-social behaviour, towards our guests or team members. We collaborate with the police when needed. We take photos and videos which may include you to help promote the community in line with GDPR Data Protection law, as well as stock photos from Pexels or Unsplash. We may restrict or prioritize guests at our own discretion for safety, quality and logistics reasons. While our team's decisions may not be perfect we ask that you follow our decisions first and raise any disputes to discuss with us later and privately. By attending you understand, agree with and respect all terms of this disclaimer.